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The past few nights I've had some really vivid dreams which have left me upset when I wake and remember them.
The first one is that I found out my Grandad (who died a few years back and I miss unbelievably) was living in a secret room attached to my house but with a hidden door. Everyone knew about him being there but me.
The second was that my mother (my parents split last year) was having an affair with a lad 30 years younger than herself and had moved to London.. again everyone knew but me.
Both dreams indicate deceit from people I love, if anyone knows about dreams do they understand this? or am I just randomly dreaming? :cry:
No think you have things on your mind that are coming out in your dreams.
I had a very very vivid dream last week which I ended up writing down and came back to it a day later and really it made sense.
Think back over the last few days about what you ahve been doing, talking to people about etc etc and see if that helps.
Dreams are there to help you deal with things that are stressful at times.
Corrie xxx
Quote by Corrie2007
No think you have things on your mind that are coming out in your dreams.
I had a very very vivid dream last week which I ended up writing down and came back to it a day later and really it made sense.
Think back over the last few days about what you ahve been doing, talking to people about etc etc and see if that helps.
Dreams are there to help you deal with things that are stressful at times.
Corrie xxx

Thanks corrie - I think you are right kiss
Ooooooooooooo dreams smile
The most vivid dreams I have or least the ones I remember are usually stress related. You know the sort brought on by anxiety.
I go shopping with no clothes on.
College assignments are left at home when the need to be handed in.
They are all classic stuff but I never have been that original biggrin :D
Dreams are strange things dunno
Some years ago I had a recurring nightmare that I was being chased by lions, every night it was the same thing, I would be running through a forest, the sound of the lions hot on my heels, I would stumble upon a sort of half buried bunker which I would always manage to slip into, slamming the rusty old door just in the nick of time. I could then see the lions prowling round and round outside when one would suddenly jump up on the roof and start to dig his way in, at this point I would wake up in a cold sweat.
This went on for weeks until in the end I started to tell a few people about it much to everyone’s bemusement.
I used to do a lot of deer stalking and rough shooting at this time and had a large area, some 2000 acres of forestry that I looked after, one day at the edge of a puddle I found a huge dog print in the mud. It was so big that the next day I brought some plaster with me and took a cast of it. That evening I went to my local shooting club and showed the cast around the club room when one of the friends I had told the story to suddenly cried, “bingo” I bet I have the answer to your nightmares, you have, probably out of the corner of your eye, seen one of the many feral ‘big cats’ that are around, your conscious mind has dismissed it as it does not fit into your surroundings, but your sub conscious has logged it and is trying to make you aware, hence the dreams.
Sure enough when a few days later we took the cast to the local safari park the head keeper confirmed that far from being a large dog, the pug mark was that of a puma / panther type animal.
That was the day the nightmares stopped and I have never had that one again.
Suffice to say that I was always a little more alert whenever I hunted that particular area in the future :lol2:
Quote by Pete_sw
Dreams are strange things dunno
Some years ago I had a recurring nightmare that I was being chased by lions, every night it was the same thing, I would be running through a forest, the sound of the lions hot on my heels, I would stumble upon a sort of half buried bunker which I would always manage to slip into, slamming the rusty old door just in the nick of time. I could then see the lions prowling round and round outside when one would suddenly jump up on the roof and start to dig his way in, at this point I would wake up in a cold sweat.

I had this very same - absolutely word for word - dream for what seemed like years when I was a boy!
Quote by Pete_sw
Dreams are strange things dunno
Some years ago I had a recurring nightmare that I was being chased by lions, every night it was the same thing, I would be running through a forest, the sound of the lions hot on my heels, I would stumble upon a sort of half buried bunker which I would always manage to slip into, slamming the rusty old door just in the nick of time. I could then see the lions prowling round and round outside when one would suddenly jump up on the roof and start to dig his way in, at this point I would wake up in a cold sweat.

I had this very same - absolutely word for word - dream for what seemed like years when I was a boy!
Quote by keeno
Ooooooooooooo dreams smile
The most vivid dreams I have or least the ones I remember are usually stress related. You know the sort brought on by anxiety.
I go shopping with no clothes on.
College assignments are left at home when the need to be handed in.
They are all classic stuff but I never have been that original biggrin :D

The dreams where you are naked in public is meant to signify you have problem with your self image and that you have no self confidence.. apparently lol
Quote by Pete_sw
Dreams are strange things dunno
Some years ago I had a recurring nightmare that I was being chased by lions, every night it was the same thing, I would be running through a forest, the sound of the lions hot on my heels, I would stumble upon a sort of half buried bunker which I would always manage to slip into, slamming the rusty old door just in the nick of time. I could then see the lions prowling round and round outside when one would suddenly jump up on the roof and start to dig his way in, at this point I would wake up in a cold sweat.
This went on for weeks until in the end I started to tell a few people about it much to everyone’s bemusement.
I used to do a lot of deer stalking and rough shooting at this time and had a large area, some 2000 acres of forestry that I looked after, one day at the edge of a puddle I found a huge dog print in the mud. It was so big that the next day I brought some plaster with me and took a cast of it. That evening I went to my local shooting club and showed the cast around the club room when one of the friends I had told the story to suddenly cried, “bingo” I bet I have the answer to your nightmares, you have, probably out of the corner of your eye, seen one of the many feral ‘big cats’ that are around, your conscious mind has dismissed it as it does not fit into your surroundings, but your sub conscious has logged it and is trying to make you aware, hence the dreams.
Sure enough when a few days later we took the cast to the local safari park the head keeper confirmed that far from being a large dog, the pug mark was that of a puma / panther type animal.
That was the day the nightmares stopped and I have never had that one again.
Suffice to say that I was always a little more alert whenever I hunted that particular area in the future :lol2:

How weird and much weirder still that it stopped once you had identified the animal. I'm very much in agreeance with all dreams being your subconscious and think maybe for some people this could be how we deal with the stresses, I'm terrible for pushing things to the back of my mind if I don't want to address them.
Quote by jaymar
Ooooooooooooo dreams smile
The most vivid dreams I have or least the ones I remember are usually stress related. You know the sort brought on by anxiety.
I go shopping with no clothes on.
College assignments are left at home when the need to be handed in.
They are all classic stuff but I never have been that original biggrin :D

The dreams where you are naked in public is meant to signify you have problem with your self image and that you have no self confidence.. apparently lol
I would have put it down to being forgetful :lol: Better out some clothes on now Im going shopping!
xanaisx
I have a book to interpret my dreams by my bed although sometimes I can't remember them. Last night I was really bothered as I dreamt my sister has two types of cancer, really odd. The section under cancer says 'The prognostication here is of a long lif providing you avoid overindulgence in the fleshpots'. :shock:
That's me buggered then lol
Quote by anais
Ooooooooooooo dreams smile
The most vivid dreams I have or least the ones I remember are usually stress related. You know the sort brought on by anxiety.
I go shopping with no clothes on.
College assignments are left at home when the need to be handed in.
They are all classic stuff but I never have been that original biggrin :D

The dreams where you are naked in public is meant to signify you have problem with your self image and that you have no self confidence.. apparently lol
I would have put it down to being forgetful :lol: Better out some clothes on now Im going shopping!
xanaisx
aaah the lovely anais! welcome back petal kiss
Quote by hornyinslough
I have a book to interpret my dreams by my bed although sometimes I can't remember them. Last night I was really bothered as I dreamt my sister has two types of cancer, really odd. The section under cancer says 'The prognostication here is of a long lif providing you avoid overindulgence in the fleshpots'. :shock:
That's me buggered then lol

rotflmao :rotflmao: bless ya kiss
I havent dreamt fo over a year now. I dont get into a edeep sleep (REM slepp i believe its called)
Maybe due to CD or the meds i dunno
But when i used to dream many ended with me falling and when i hit bottom i would jump in bed and wake up
Quote by jaymar
Both dreams indicate deceit from people I love, if anyone knows about dreams do they understand this? or am I just randomly dreaming? :cry:

I dont think that's what they indicate at all dunno One of the girls I work with interprets dreams and they dont have the meaning that you would think they do...........
BUT ........
someone dreamed about their parents dying and was told it was excitement about moving into a new house!
Someone else had a dream about eating creamcakes and was told it was worry about her youngest child.
So I dont think you can look at what you dream and relate it to WHAT was actually in your dream.
I will ask and report back tomorrow kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Both dreams indicate deceit from people I love, if anyone knows about dreams do they understand this? or am I just randomly dreaming? :cry:

I dont think that's what they indicate at all dunno One of the girls I work with interprets dreams and they dont have the meaning that you would think they do...........
BUT ........
someone dreamed about their parents dying and was told it was excitement about moving into a new house!
Someone else had a dream about eating creamcakes and was told it was worry about her youngest child.
So I dont think you can look at what you dream and relate it to WHAT was actually in your dream.
I will ask and report back tomorrow kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thanks Sam, gorgeous as ever :kiss:
Quote by jaymar
Ooooooooooooo dreams smile
The most vivid dreams I have or least the ones I remember are usually stress related. You know the sort brought on by anxiety.
I go shopping with no clothes on.
College assignments are left at home when the need to be handed in.
They are all classic stuff but I never have been that original biggrin :D

The dreams where you are naked in public is meant to signify you have problem with your self image and that you have no self confidence.. apparently lol
I would have put it down to being forgetful :lol: Better out some clothes on now Im going shopping!
xanaisx
aaah the lovely anais! welcome back petal kiss
Thank you sweetpea, its nice to be back :kiss:
What does it mean when you very rarely dream confused
I used to dream loads when I was younger, but now it rarely happens..............and when it does......... rolleyes I have this wake up call in my head telling me to GET UP !!!! usually cos I'm gonna be late for work :roll:
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What does it mean when you very rarely dream confused
I used to dream loads when I was younger, but now it rarely happens..............and when it does......... rolleyes I have this wake up call in my head telling me to GET UP !!!! usually cos I'm gonna be late for work :roll:

It doesn't mean anything. Some people do, some people don't, most people just go through phases when they dream and phases when they don't. Some scientists bepieve that we ALL reach REM sleep (i.e. dream), but we don't all have the memory or even that sensation in the morning ; 'I dreamt something last night, but I don';t rememebr what it was'
There seems to be a tendency for creative people and those with more vivid imagination to dream more than others. This has not been proven beyond a doubt, but keeps coming up as a rend.
In any case, it never, ever means what you think it might mean. Normally, it's just the brain re-processing recent information (things you've seen or done) or things you're worried about - hence anxiety drea,s.
(Er, did I just go off on one. Sorry, everyone, Im in the middle of some dream research because of work) :color:
Oh, and I've heard that dreaming that you're falling usually happens because you're hungry. !?
But, what I do know for a fact, eating cheese before bedtime gives you the best dreams! Weeehey!!!! :bounce:
That *cheese* thing...yup, years back, I used to deliberately eat a late snack/supper involving cheese to bring on strong or vivid dreams...
at the time >not so sure now< I used to feel I was revisiting the same dreams for a continuation, another episode, so to speak... and also felt I could influence the dreams as they occured, almost as if I were aware that I was dreaming... and had some form of external-interaction... daft huh?
sadly, I don't seem to be able to do that now...it's me age dear!
lp