This might seem sad as "single" members tend to get less attention for apparent reasons(yes I have read some of the threads). After all what am I bringing to the floor & all that. Today is my wedding anniversary! My dried up frigid wife is out at work expecting the usual shower of flowers, gifts etc & I might get a little missionary in return. So without wanting to come accross all arsey please spare a though for genuine "singles" who want to give as much as receive pleasure in a sexual manner.
Answers via the samaritans or the WRVS or on slate or even semaphore!!!!! lol
Felt like getting that off my chest, feel much better now even if
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Not being funny but...I'd be gutted if I found out my partner talked about me like this. 
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Quote by ridcully
Today is my wedding anniversary! My dried up frigid wife is out at work expecting the usual shower of flowers, gifts etc & I might get a little missionary in return.
Examine the reason why your relationship is as it is. When you genuinely have no idea it must be hard to cope with but if you are unhappy you really need to open up channels of communication.
Try reading 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' (assuming you haven't already) as that will give some insight to how the sexes differ.
We women (in general) have a big need to feel cherished and respected and if we suspect that we are in anyway taken for granted then we tend to withdraw our favours... not in a malicious or cruel way just that we don't feel like giving of ourselves if we feel used.
Men withdraw in different ways...
How about you buying the both of you the book as an anniversary present... if she is aware that your relationship is rocky - and I bet she is - she'll love the fact that you are being proactive in trying to sort it.
HTH and if not - sowwy!
Hi there,
For my 4 peneth, I look at life / marriage / relationships / friends, everything in fact, with a fairly simple philosophy and it is this....
Quoting the Bible - You reap what you sow, or another way is... GI / GO = Garbage in/Garbage out, another way is... You get out of life what you put in.
However, and there's always a however... not always
With my previous of 26 years married and a total of 30 years together, an anniversary was a time of celebration between us surviving, so sometimes (but not always) I did arrange for flowers to be sent to her place of work, or I'd try and arrange some old friends of hers / bridesmaid(s) / people we'd lost contact with, to come over or meet at a restaurant I'd planned to take us to that evening.
In return (and I wasn't looking for anything) I may get a little present of a gift, but to be honest, the biggest gift a woman could give me (and this stopped happening - hence she is now my ex) is to look me in the eyes and say she loves me with all her heart.
Priceless.
If my friend you're looking that sex is your gift in response for your gift of flowers or whatever, then IMO, you're not looking deep enough into a woman's heart. As Wibbly says, Men are from Mars - although a few of us are so stuck up our own Uranus it hurts
Absolutely love the semaphore Venusnmars! Havent got a clue what it means mind.
As for reading Men ar from..... both read it didnt seem tochange much for either of us.
I f people think Im daft enough to call her that to her face & believe it or not I dont take her for granted and I find the current situationa real bitch.
Thanks to all for the valuable input, Just goes to show noone has all the answers?
As for reading Men ar from..... both read it didnt seem tochange much for either of us.
I f people think Im daft enough to call her that to her face & believe it or not I dont take her for granted and I find the current situationa real bitch.
Thanks to all for the valuable input, Just goes to show noone has all the answers?
somrtimes you dont have to say it to her face ....it may be the way you act with her
i felt kinda sad when i read how you discribed her
sometimes a lot of tender loveing care and lots of loveing attention can re-store a flagging sexual relashionship
i agree if my husband spoke about me like that to friends ......
1 ..id kill him
2....id chuck him out
3......maybe she needs to get herself a new man
go read the book maybe it'll open up your eyes to what a woman wants and needs
i felt kinda sad when i read how you discribed her
sometimes a lot of tender loveing care and lots of loveing attention can re-store a flagging sexual relashionship
i agree if my husband spoke about me like that to friends ......
1 ..id kill him
2....id chuck him out
3......maybe she needs to get herself a new man
go read the book maybe it'll open up your eyes to what a woman wants and needs
Ridcully,
Does your wife have some underlying personal issues that prevent her from participating and enjoying all things sexual?
I may come across as a woman who is open to anything (no pun intended there) but that hasn't always been the case. I slip in and out (Not again :doh
of liking with myself and this often shows in my sexual openess. When I feel good about myself I'm generally more up for it! If I feel beautiful and wanted it is the biggest turn on for me, and this is often affected by what Mr RSAB2 says to me, he has no idea he has such power (and shush don't tell him!)
It's just a thought?
Mrs RSAB2 xxx :angel:
Does your wife have some underlying personal issues that prevent her from participating and enjoying all things sexual?
I may come across as a woman who is open to anything (no pun intended there) but that hasn't always been the case. I slip in and out (Not again :doh
of liking with myself and this often shows in my sexual openess. When I feel good about myself I'm generally more up for it! If I feel beautiful and wanted it is the biggest turn on for me, and this is often affected by what Mr RSAB2 says to me, he has no idea he has such power (and shush don't tell him!) It's just a thought?
Mrs RSAB2 xxx :angel:
Orgasminator
I know, I know, I should get out more...
Venusxxx
Yep I should get out more too...
Sex God
maybe his wife doesnt feel any comitment to him anyway now he has declared himself a "genuine single"!
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMars
Maybe she`s not dried up at all, but has been coming here for months on end........... :twisted:
Poor woman is just exhausted, that`s all! :P
Venusxxx
I was going to say that too! Perhaps she has extra-curricular activities! rofl
