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Hi can anyone help me with an E mail prob,either im the only one on here that hasnt had a reply to at least 30 messages sent out or no body loves me :cry: .
Am i doing something wrong or have i not got the settings right,any help would be gladly recieved. Thanks and merry xmas.
stevo. confused
Are you talking about replying to ads? If so, I'd say there's nothing unusual at all about a single guy not getting a single reply from 30 ads responded to.
don't take it personal but remember their are hundred of guys replying to the same ads!don't let this put you off stick around the forum and come along to munches and maybe your luck may come in!
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as you have just popped in ,join the que,at the back no pushing in , wink
be ,polite ,positive and patient
post few forums get known, good luck
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Quote by stevoxjr-1
Hi can anyone help me with an E mail prob,either im the only one on here that hasnt had a reply to at least 30 messages sent out or no body loves me :cry: .
Am i doing something wrong or have i not got the settings right,any help would be gladly recieved. Thanks and merry xmas.
stevo. confused

As a cpl looking hun all i can say (in the nicest possilble way) we get loads of e-mails from males (and no we are not saying you are one of these) that, for some reason only known to them, have not bothered to READ the ad correctly, and say's quite plainly on there that "unless you read and adhere to our wishes then please do not expect a reply"
Also as said there are 100's of single guys as oppossed to cpls/fems so be patient hun, be honest and open and you will get there wink
I agree with the guys above. Although I have to admit it would be nice to receive a 'no thanks' ...and I am referring to the cases when you do meet the requirements....but dont hold your breath dude...just persevere and go with the flow smile
Just keep swimming...just keep swimming...what do we do? just swim swim swim....
smile Thanks for the replies now like you say ill just have to wait a while and see how it goes,hope to be posting some more soon when xmas is all overso happy new year to you all .
Many thanks
Steve. 69position
I've been posting ads on here for about a year and guess what...... not one reply :uhoh:
It is tough for a single male. If I was a gambling man - well I'd be broke.
Some people must be getting some action though - must be the ones with the big willies. It'd be interesting to tot up how many ads request VWE and VVWE. What chance do us normal lads have? dunno
By the way, I dont post one liners, I try to put all useful information in there. Just have to keep hopeful I suppose.
Quote by marky543
I've been posting ads on here for about a year and guess what...... not one reply :uhoh:
It is tough for a single male. If I was a gambling man - well I'd be broke.
Some people must be getting some action though - must be the ones with the big willies. It'd be interesting to tot up how many ads request VWE and VVWE. What chance do us normal lads have? dunno
By the way, I dont post one liners, I try to put all useful information in there. Just have to keep hopeful I suppose.

Typical is'nt it mad NO it has fuck all to do with what size willie you have confused As it has been said on here many times before, it does not matter if you have an inch or a foot, its what you do with it that counts. I for one do not care how big you think it is. Lets face it guys if you spent as much time pleasing the fems with the other attributes your bodys have to offer i.e. hands, tongues (Yes tongues) remember them?, than you do measuring your dics then you might, just might, get somewhere. :twisted:
I would have thought that him mentioning the size of willies was known as 'tongue in cheek' - not that he really thought it was all about the size of things. Realistically speaking, the ads for single guys just do not work. They are in the majority and are expected to jump through hoops to reply to anyone and often, not always, don't get even a 'thanks, but no thanks'. I understand why, females and couples get shedloads of replies and they are time consuming. However, you (in general, not in person) can sit back at your leisure, hitting delete or filing the potentials. Hardly stressful, is it? The single male replying to ads are constantly rewriting to ensure the reader is informed of all their matching criteria and anything that may make them stand out from the crowd. They are expected to match 99% of the criteria or higher. If they only reach 98%, then they are grouped with those that only put in 5% effort. how many times do people (in general, not personal) actually reply and say, 'that wasn't bad', not many I'm sure. I'm also aware that this can cause follow up emails that you don't want, but hey, you've used the 'delete' and 'block' button before!
So for all those single guys battling against the tide in the ads, forget them. Get yourselves in the Forums, show your personality, show your social skills and eventually you will see the fruits of your effort. And funnily enough, you may also get to the stage where YOU can say 'thanks, but no thanks!' (but don't hold your breath on that one!)
Mal
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Quote by BiFemHants
Typical is'nt it mad NO it has fuck all to do with what size willie you have confused

Perhaps you should check the ads for guys. Quite a few DO say "Must be VWE/VVWE" or "Must be 8+ inches" etc.
Admittedly, I rarely check them myself any more, but when I was, about a month ago, a fair few were just like that. Or asking for black guys, and sometimes for both black and 9+ inches.
Well personally Zootle give me a man who is great with his hands and tongue anyday to a big dic if they dont know how to use it :P
Quote by marky543
It'd be interesting to tot up how many ads request VWE and VVWE.

I actually tried to do this earlier in the year. It was a much smaller proportion than I'd expected.
Mind you, that's not to say that if you happen to have a 15-inch penis, it doesn't boost your chances just a little... ;)
Thanks Mal, my comment was certainly meant to be 'tongue in cheek' for sure. It wasnt meant to offend anyone, just a general observation.