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If I shouldn't be asking this please delete the thread. If it's ok then i'd love your advice.
We're trying to find dvd's/websites etc. That contain films of swinger action. We've got lots of american movies but would like some more realistic more british movies that would get a more realistic view of what happens at meets (mmff,m+f).
Have searched movie sites but aren't sure which ones are good and are constantly let down (movies are good but not the thing we're looking for) and at the price of say £20 a movie would love to hear some sugguestions.
Thanks -Him.x
Real "Swingers" movies are not available openly... Real Swingers have "Real" lives and don't want to be identified .. rolleyes
There were a few vids about of La Chambre, but these were staged with actors and the owners.
Similarly, the "Best of British" series are nearly all staged.
I get what you mean. in that case are there any you could suggest that are fairly realistic (even if they are oviously staged) but are very good. We like the amatuer feel. what movies get you going?
Why not make some of your own? At least you'd know they were genuine that way.
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I get what you mean. in that case are there any you could suggest that are fairly realistic (even if they are oviously staged) but are very good. We like the amatuer feel. what movies get you going?
Thought exactly the same thing!!!!!
There is a selection of dvds an stuff to check out to left of screen under" shopping" but I think what you ask for is non commercial footage which is probably going to be very very hard to get. but there has been some recent TV documentries about the british scene although how "true to real life" I cannot say as I have yet to attend such functions !
No,just want recommendations of films you can get from credible sexshops (like from the adult dvd shop link on the site.) we're not that flash with the cash so don't want to waste money when buying a new movies to watch together. -Him.x
Is there a big difference for british all girl movies when compared to the american ones?
I think the answer to your question is easier than you make it seem.
Films like the kind you buy are not going to be realistic, as scenes will be done over and over until the director is happy. The UK "sex" industry has made a bit of a comeback but As I say there are recent tv fly on the wall documentaries that would seem at least to me to be as near " realistic" as possible but the truly amature home movie will be near as impossible as these are never intended for public release.
Well out of movies avalible in the shops which ones would you suggest. lol smile
If only I still worked in the sexshop ! Mr busyhands you are indeed the ideal punter !
Please, there are no good realistic films about swinging in the UK. but if you wish for a breakdown, you can buy Briish/American/Scandanavian porn from the 70's on VHS or more modern stuff on DVD. Titles are as meaningless as the plots. and you will be ripped off. yes.
Just a personal point of view.
Swinging, by & large, is a private activity. Yes I know that some couples/singles love the exhibitionistic activities, but I seriously dont think they would participate in being filmed for public circulation. Would you like everbody on your street knowing your most intimate thoughts?
Mrbusyhands, personaly I think your ID says it all!
lol rolleyes lol <thinks we should move onto the assumptions thread and discuss> when we first joined I was joining to post so wasn't going to say we were a couple (nervous) but then when we had to pay we were like fuck it lets just say who we are (we'd already registered the nick mrbusyhands). Just cos we have no pics up... they are coming soon. Stop berating me for asking lots of questions if you don't want to answer I've learned some helpful stuff asking questions here and expect theres a lot more to learn.
Yes I doubt people will share their movies with the world. Let me give you an example of what I mean we were looking for.
Donny: "Hey mrbusyhands theres this great movie called Amatuar tapes by Hugh Jass Productions you should check it out theres a mix of different types of stuff and it's really good."
I know there are amatuar movies (theres always these amatuer submitted tape things on the adult channel when we watch and looking at the amatuer section of the dvd shop on the side of this site brings up a few. We're looking for sugesstions. If we wanted to ask for private movies (whether we'd get them or not) we post something asking or perhaps offer movie swaps (our homemade movies for yours) we might do that in the future with a couple we know but at the moment we don't want that.
:roll: -Him.x
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If we wanted to ask for private movies (whether we'd get them or not) we post something asking or perhaps offer movie swaps (our homemade movies for yours) we might do that in the future with a couple we know but at the moment we don't want that.
rolleyes -Him.x

You cannot post asking for picture or movie swops, sorry.
Mal
ok good to know but still true movie or picture swaps aren't what we're looking for and thats what i'm trying to get across.
I know where you're coming from MrBH ........ cos I'm in a similar boat confused Although not the same topic as such.
The movies I've seen is just one shag/bj after another, cum, credits then onto the next shag/bj - same thing just different colour hair and a different room :sleeping:
I won't spend any more money on films for this reason - I want a film with some sort of scenario, not a 2 minute scenario then shag/bj rolleyes but a bit of a build up, so when me and vibe go visit fansasyland, I can imagine I'm the one in that situation cool
Plus with my film wants - I don't want plastic static boobs and washboard stomach staring back at me :? Cos then I just ignore the actual the film and start wishing my stomach was that flat etc :undecided: I want normal looking people to watch 8-)
Too much to ask dunno I've not seen many films, so don't really know the market. Its just that the ones I have seen lately are not to my taste at all. Maybe I'm just getting jaded lol but they're all so boring :? :dunno:
Blast, late for work now!! :shock:
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IMHO there are very few porn films that are realistic - swinging or otherwise! dunno
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Too much to ask dunno I've not seen many films, so don't really know the market. Its just that the ones I have seen lately are not to my taste at all. Maybe I'm just getting jaded lol but they're all so boring confused :dunno:

Since we've been making our own HLBPorn, I've gone more or less off commercial porn.
I've often found some of the "mainstream" films far more erotic than porn. Think the Nine and Half Weeks, Indecent Proposal, Disclosure type things.
I still have a couple of favourite commercial ones, and with the advent of DVD, the scenes that work are easier to bookmark or find; but by and large, if I'm on my own, I watch something we've made :twisted:
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Since we've been making our own HLBPorn, I've gone more or less off commercial porn.

I totally agree Dammie, when a male friend of mine offered to lend me his latest porn I told him that "my gf and I prefer to make our own" he sort of laughed then realised I was being serious! :rascal:
I find it especially exciting watching it back together - it always leads to fun!
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I find it especially exciting watching it back together - it always leads to fun!

There's a difference in this house as to who finds which a bigger turn on, the making of it and the watching it back later, but you're right Kiss_Me - it always leads to fun :twisted:
If you need a third hand as cameraman - just shout :twisted:
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I find it especially exciting watching it back together - it always leads to fun!

There's a difference in this house as to who finds which a bigger turn on, the making of it and the watching it back later, but you're right Kiss_Me - it always leads to fun :twisted:
If you need a third hand as cameraman - just shout :twisted:
It's exactly the same in my house - my gf much prefers making the movies - but with a little gentle persuasion she watches them back, and always ends up enjoying it lol!
Have you ever set your camera up so you are watching it back whilst recording? I like that sometimes as you can make sure you are recording the best angles if you are feeling particularly porn starish.
And yes you will be the first to know if we ever go for the live cameraman option! biggrin
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I find it especially exciting watching it back together - it always leads to fun!

There's a difference in this house as to who finds which a bigger turn on, the making of it and the watching it back later, but you're right Kiss_Me - it always leads to fun :twisted:
If you need a third hand as cameraman - just shout:twisted:
Likewise MrHLB :rascal:
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Have you ever set your camera up so you are watching it back whilst recording?
I like that sometimes as you can make sure you are recording the best angles if you are feeling particularly porn starish.

Ah - therein lies the crux of it all, and for one us - by far the horniest part of it all.
But we find there's a fine line between "setting up the camera to record" and spoiling the moment by stop/starting to change angles, directing and such. We tend to set the camcorder up on a tripod and just go for it. If we can see certain aspects on the TV at the time - all the better :twisted:
I've offered to be yourcameraman ???? I think wecould do with someone :twisted:
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If you need a third hand as cameraman - just shout :twisted:

Likewise MrHLB :rascal:
PMSL "MrHLB"
rotflmao We missed the opportunity last munch we were all at because everyone was scattered to the four winds in different hotels sad