I don't really know how to put this delicately.. but
After you have.. er.. unloaded.. onto another mans partner, should you?
A) Kiss her gently on the forehead and whisper a polite 'Thank you'
B) Find her partner, shake his hand and mention that you wouldn't mind 'doing her again later'
C) Throw her a towel and shoo her off the bed...
D) Not 'unload' onto another mans partner until you have at least been formally introduced
E) None of the above
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I can only give you a personal response on this...
I've watched my partner with many guys. It's obviously a real turn-on or I wouldn't do it, but for me, seeing them french kissing is almost as erotic as seeing them fucking. I know some guys prefer their partner just to do 'the act' and not show any signs of 'tenderness', but I think watching her entwine tongues with a guy is really horny.
Therefore, in response to your question, I'm happy for them to lie kissing for a few minutes afterwards. You've just let the guy fuck her stupid, so I hardly think he can turn that off like a switch the second he comes.
Just my personal opinion. As with many things in swinging, you have to go with the flow with different people you meet up with, in my experience.
I've watched my partner with many guys. It's obviously a real turn-on or I wouldn't do it, but for me, seeing them french kissing is almost as erotic as seeing them fucking. I know some guys prefer their partner just to do 'the act' and not show any signs of 'tenderness', but I think watching her entwine tongues with a guy is really horny.
Therefore, in response to your question, I'm happy for them to lie kissing for a few minutes afterwards. You've just let the guy fuck her stupid, so I hardly think he can turn that off like a switch the second he comes.
Just my personal opinion. As with many things in swinging, you have to go with the flow with different people you meet up with, in my experience.
Sex God
I'd say "E"
Well.....
....Anything really except patronising her by thanking her partner but not saying a word to her
:roll: :roll: :roll: - men have been de-balled for less than that.
I always think that "thank you" is slightly patronising in itself with a complete stranger unless it was a really good sesh and it is said in the "right way".... I often will say something like, "cheers pal... nice cock btw" (if it was a nice cock) in a joking light hearted kinda way. That seems to work.
So... if you feel the need to thank someone, thank HER, not her fella (unless of course you did him as well, and he was better hehehehehehehehehe).
:twisted:
Well.....
....Anything really except patronising her by thanking her partner but not saying a word to her
:roll: :roll: :roll: - men have been de-balled for less than that. I always think that "thank you" is slightly patronising in itself with a complete stranger unless it was a really good sesh and it is said in the "right way".... I often will say something like, "cheers pal... nice cock btw" (if it was a nice cock) in a joking light hearted kinda way. That seems to work.
So... if you feel the need to thank someone, thank HER, not her fella (unless of course you did him as well, and he was better hehehehehehehehehe).
:twisted:
i dont think this thred was really started for a lesson in std's and to be fair i'd liike to think everybody kicking around sh is old enough and ugly enough to be responsible with their sex life... well you'd hope they would be ..
to answer you question.. a patronising slap on the bum.. and a wink would be suitable....lol
dont know why i,m commenting i,m am yet to "swing".....
cheers seano!
to answer you question.. a patronising slap on the bum.. and a wink would be suitable....lol
dont know why i,m commenting i,m am yet to "swing".....
cheers seano!
Sex God
We are talking Spunk here are we?
Sorry, just thought we might be talking about the shopping trolley or summat!
Sorry, just thought we might be talking about the shopping trolley or summat!
Sex God
Quote by Scandal
After you have.. er.. unloaded.. onto another mans partner
Isn't it rude to unload 'onto' someone unless they indicated that they wanted that?
Sex God
unloading "onto" is ok if it has been agreed.
I would however be pissed off if he just went ahead and did it. Doubt this would happen really as there is the little blip when one has to take the condom off to unload onto you anyway.
However if agreed and the unloading has been done, it is good to just lie and smile for a while and have horny naughty thoughts. This is much better than getting up and rushing off. Would hate to be thanked in a gentlemanly sort of a way, so patronising. It is good to discuss what has just happened and have a giggle about it as it can get a bit awkward once he has unloaded. Nothing worse than a cum and run :twisted: (depends on where it is running, hehe)
Gill x
I would however be pissed off if he just went ahead and did it. Doubt this would happen really as there is the little blip when one has to take the condom off to unload onto you anyway.
However if agreed and the unloading has been done, it is good to just lie and smile for a while and have horny naughty thoughts. This is much better than getting up and rushing off. Would hate to be thanked in a gentlemanly sort of a way, so patronising. It is good to discuss what has just happened and have a giggle about it as it can get a bit awkward once he has unloaded. Nothing worse than a cum and run :twisted: (depends on where it is running, hehe)
Gill x
Sex God
If its one of the many truckers on here id say call an ambulance if they unloaded on top of anyones missus!
