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Well we've just had our first "Fever" invite, and it really has left an unpleasant taste in our mouths...
The invite came from the ad section from a group in London, and the tone of the message was really in bad taste.
The arrogance was exceptional - it was an "invite to a beautiful peoples sex party were none of the ugly people that plague this site will be present" mad
And then goes on to say "so join us and stop wasting your time on ugly people and have a gang of beautiful people for the price of one!" rolleyes
This isn't a rant - its just a post expressing my bewilderment that such people exist!
We have both considered how to reply to this - but we have decided not to give them the satisfaction of a reply; not least because they didn't even read our ad properly.
Just reading the thing made our stomachs turn and... well, speechless really; utterly speechless.
Anyone else had this sort of thing???
T & L xxx
IF you got this invite in reply to your ad then forward the mail to and let us deal with it. We do not allow commercial enterprises to use our site.
Otherwise, if you haven't made your email address anonymous in your ad then do so - that way you can only get replies from other registered and logged in members and we can then ban those who do this.
:P
Quote by Jags
IF you got this invite in reply to your ad then forward the mail to and let us deal with it. We do not allow commercial enterprises to use our site.
Otherwise, if you haven't made your email address anonymous in your ad then do so - that way you can only get replies from other registered and logged in members and we can then ban those who do this.
:P

Yep it was through the ad section - our e-mail is well hidden lol (learnt that a long time ago!)
Thing is, they wasn't asking for any payment for attending - the only criteria was that you weren't ugly; whatever that is lol. So it isn't strictly commercial.
So it was a "Free Fever".
Whether it costs or not, bollocks to them lol. lol
nope i have never had the problem of being invited to a 'beautiful'people party rolleyes(dunno why lol)
No I don't get bothered by this. They don't have their parties in my laybys thank goodness :P
:grin: :grin:
lol last time we had anyone in here just wanting the 'young beautiful people' I was called an 'Old Minger'
What was the name of that member??
Can anyone else remember her?
does that mean everybody's invited cuz everyone is beautiful in there own way smile
was even told i was once unless that was the day i had 2 much brandy lol
Quote by Tra-n-Lee
"so join us and stop wasting your time on ugly people and have a gang of beautiful people for the price of one!" rolleyes

The bit I've coloured red rather puzzles me - what is the price of one beautiful person?
In your position, I think I'd have played along, then after spending 10-15 mins checking them all out I'd have shouted "Beautiful people? Ha! Obviously none of you owns a mirror!' and legged it sharpish lol
Quote by northwest-cpl
lol last time we had anyone in here just wanting the 'young beautiful people' I was called an 'Old Minger'
What was the name of that member??
Can anyone else remember her?

Punky?
She certainly had a little bit of an attitudeconfused
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/15206.html
I think that's the thread alex.
Brill - yes that's the one!
Cheers
Alex (aka old minger!)
people like that usually have most to hide.... i can just see them in their armani pants now !!
Quote by Alexandra
lol last time we had anyone in here just wanting the 'young beautiful people' I was called an 'Old Minger'
What was the name of that member??
Can anyone else remember her?

Punky?
She certainly had a little bit of an attitudeconfused
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/15206.html
I think that's the thread alex.
Brill - yes that's the one!
Cheers
Alex (aka old minger!)
She made a total of 16 posts and every one was a gem. Maybe she's a candidate for Vix's thread, where is she now? Probably wedged very tightly up her own arse. lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Just to stick mine in wink lol (seems to be a habit lately)......
If these people decide to host parties only for "beautiful people" and that's what they want then good for them. If they invite you then it should be taken as a compliment ( I bloody would). Complaining about someone's audacity to choose looks over personality is pointless as you can't change their outlook or opinions. You either accept it or you don't.
Quote by bigDewi69
Just to stick mine in wink lol (seems to be a habit lately)......
If these people decide to host parties only for "beautiful people" and that's what they want then good for them. If they invite you then it should be taken as a compliment ( I bloody would). Complaining about someone's audacity to choose looks over personality is pointless as you can't change their outlook or opinions. You either accept it or you don't.

But to snobbishly insult people for no good reason is something to find disgusting.
Can't believe anyone can really try and defend the attitude!
Theres a difference between having preferences and being deliberately antagonistic and offensive to people. No sense of community and a "head up their own ass" complex basically.
"looking for certain type of people" is very very different to "no fat old mingers"!
And we take it as an insult that we look or sound like we have anything like the latter attitude.
Quote by Tra-n-Lee
Well we've just had our first "Fever" invite, and it really has left an unpleasant taste in our mouths...
The invite came from the ad section from a group in London, and the tone of the message was really in bad taste.
The arrogance was exceptional - it was an "invite to a beautiful peoples sex party were none of the ugly people that plague this site will be present" mad
And then goes on to say "so join us and stop wasting your time on ugly people and have a gang of beautiful people for the price of one!" rolleyes
This isn't a rant - its just a post expressing my bewilderment that such people exist!
We have both considered how to reply to this - but we have decided not to give them the satisfaction of a reply; not least because they didn't even read our ad properly.
Just reading the thing made our stomachs turn and... well, speechless really; utterly speechless.
Anyone else had this sort of thing???
T & L xxx

being new on here never had this sort thing but it would make my stomach turn it did reading in fact.
seem they follow the hollywood sense of things which i dislike you must look like this and wear this etc.
i am me open up the cover find the real person as this to me seems alot people being artificial not showing there real selfs as there so lost in being what hollywood say you should be they don't know how to be a individual.
a couple i knew who where i the swinging scene once advise me not to go to a club know for swingers as you ment to beautiful to be consider to be let in.
i think of myself as average guy that some ladies think i a good loooking or cute but every person has there own taste
:cry: Damn - Mr & Mrs KC slowly slip out of the building before the beautiful people spot them bolt
. . . . ah well back to the lights out again eh?
thats it you two stay here with the rest of us mingers lol :lol:
don't want non of them beautiful people round here
Quote by Tra-n-Lee
Theres a difference between having preferences and being deliberately antagonistic and offensive to people. No sense of community and a "head up their own ass" complex basically.
"looking for certain type of people" is very very different to "no fat old mingers"!
And we take it as an insult that we look or sound like we have anything like the latter attitude.

Well said Tra-n-Lee. :thumbup: We've seen a few on here trying to defend this attitude, whilst at the same time pretending they mean no offense. They are nothing more than trolls.
LC
Aren't Fever parties run by some upper class oik connected to the tory party dunno
Got this email from Fever yesterday. :shock: :shock:
As Fever regulars know, we welcome efforts by other party organisers
to expand and improve the scene. Swinging should be one big happy
family. So warning people against a particular club is not something
we would do lightly. However, exceptional circumstances have arisen
and we need to alert our friends and supporters to a potential
danger.
Several couples have asked us about an event that has just begun
advertising called Killing Kittens. KK is a venture run by Emma
Sayle, who was briefly employed by Fever earlier this year to
organise our big party in March. She came to us recommended but,
unfortunately, Emma violated our trust (and that of our guests) in an
unbelievably cynical manner.
Ms Sayle did a deal behind our backs with a tabloid newspaper to let
two of its journalists into the party. She also hid a secret video
camera in the main playroom. Luckily, the paper's lawyers stopped it
showing the faces or giving the names of partygoers. This was no
thanks to Emma, who had negotiated a large pay off for betraying us
all and didn't care whose lives were ruined by the exposure.
When the story appeared Fever launched an enquiry that eventually
uncovered Emma Sayle as the guilty party. When we confronted her she
admitted her guilt and we sacked her. Obviously we hoped never to
hear her name again. No such luck.
Subsequently she set up a website called to sell 5
minute clips of the video of the party to be downloaded to computers
and mobile phones. Only after a meeting with our lawyers did she
abandon the plan.
Our investigators discovered a number of other disturbing things
about Ms Sayle. Some of these we're keeping under our hat for the
moment but we know that she regularly acts as a paid spy for a
tabloid, earning hundreds and sometimes thousands a month by
informing on the private lives of people she comes into contact with.
We also know that, a year ago, she was given an official police
caution on two charges of deception for the fraudulent use of friends' credit
cards.
With such an extraordinary record of dishonesty and deceit, we
believe Emma's motives in holding adult parties are strongly suspect.
We are sure you will make up your own minds about this but if, like
us, you think Emma Sayle is a menace, please make sure everyone else
is warned about Killing Kittens.