They say that 3 out of 10 guys will pay for the services of a prostitute at some time .would be great to hear about the experience,was it worth it,how much did it benefits of legalising it in the UK like they have in parts of Europe.
Any ladies paid for sex ?
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Sex God
Nope
You can take it from me that most blokes have...
... in fact you don't have to take anything from me - but I can assure you that those who are falling over theselves to deny it are invariably those that will be perusing the ads weekly looking for fresh meat.
If you want a genuine view on it rather than a public chat then ask one, there are a few girls on here that used to work, some that still do, but it depends on what your view is regarding the thread.
Is it tittilation, because you are considering it, or is it a serious debating subject.
As for women paying for sex, of course they have, many have and still do, but it is mainly paying for the experience rather than the physical act, in the same way as many men do.
... in fact you don't have to take anything from me - but I can assure you that those who are falling over theselves to deny it are invariably those that will be perusing the ads weekly looking for fresh meat.
If you want a genuine view on it rather than a public chat then ask one, there are a few girls on here that used to work, some that still do, but it depends on what your view is regarding the thread.
Is it tittilation, because you are considering it, or is it a serious debating subject.
As for women paying for sex, of course they have, many have and still do, but it is mainly paying for the experience rather than the physical act, in the same way as many men do.
Sex God
Quote by HimandHer
You can take it from me that most blokes have...
What evidence do you have for this statement? What percentage of blokes is most? Do you know most blokes and have therefore carried out research on the subject?
Sex God
Quote by HimandHer
If you read the rest of the post you would have seen the bit where I said "you don't have to take anything from me".
Don't take it from me - I am not even going to pretend to be bothered.
Most blokes have - take it, leave it.
I'll leave it. Thanks for giving me the option
Sex God
In short me (Him) no I havent. Would I consider it in different circumstances i.e. being single? I might if I though the lady I was paying for enjoyed her job. That would be paramount to me in the decision making process. There is no way I ever want to have sex with someone who is doing it and does not want to regardless of them being prostitute escort or whatever. That just does not do anything for me. As the % of woman being paid for sex and enjoying I suspect is low? Then I dont think its something I would really give serious consideration to.
Sex God
does paying your wife for sex in a hotel in a prostitute senario count ?
Sex God
Quote by Marya_Northeast
I'm from Yorkshire, I don't pay for owt.
Cool, must sign up for Yorkshire water :cool:
Sex God
I have never paid for sex. When I was single I did seriously consider treating msyelf to an evening with a paid escort/gigolo. Though occurs - why is the term 'male prostitute' seemingly only related to the customer being male too?
Anyway, my though process went as follows:
I could pay some money and a gorgeous, fit, clean guy comes round and treats me to a night of undivided attention and great sex.
Believe me, after coming out of a marriage where a typical comment was "get to the point, woman" any man paying me attention was going to be a huge improvement.
How do I guarentee he is gorgeous, fit, clean etc? Obviously go to a good quality agency.
But if I pay for it how can I know if he even found me vaguely attractive? He is trained to have sex with women he doesn't find attractive - how is that going to help my self-esteem climb out of the black hole it is in? It isn't. I will wonder forever if he left and shuddered at the thought of touching me.
So - in the end - I didn't.
Why? Because, with my self-esteem non-extistant, I couldn't deal with it. Now, though, with me self-esteem much restored by some lovely people out there and on this site, I could really enjoy the session for what it would be - a bit of fun. But now I wouldn't consider it - as I have access to truly lovely people for fun (and apart from splitting the hotel cost, free).
Anyway, my though process went as follows:
I could pay some money and a gorgeous, fit, clean guy comes round and treats me to a night of undivided attention and great sex.
Believe me, after coming out of a marriage where a typical comment was "get to the point, woman" any man paying me attention was going to be a huge improvement.
How do I guarentee he is gorgeous, fit, clean etc? Obviously go to a good quality agency.
But if I pay for it how can I know if he even found me vaguely attractive? He is trained to have sex with women he doesn't find attractive - how is that going to help my self-esteem climb out of the black hole it is in? It isn't. I will wonder forever if he left and shuddered at the thought of touching me.
So - in the end - I didn't.
Why? Because, with my self-esteem non-extistant, I couldn't deal with it. Now, though, with me self-esteem much restored by some lovely people out there and on this site, I could really enjoy the session for what it would be - a bit of fun. But now I wouldn't consider it - as I have access to truly lovely people for fun (and apart from splitting the hotel cost, free).
Sex God
I think the assumption that such a high proportion of men have used prostitutes is far off the mark....it might be true that many have contemplated the idea. The number of women who use a hooker is quite small, a minute proportion of the business conducted, lawfully or otherwise.
The whole topic cannot really be discussed in open forum due to the sites rules...for example - we couldn't ask working girls to contribute, nor invite guys to declare, which is what is being asked, themselves to be happy to pay for services; when that happens the thread would be locked. In fact it might be considered that someone was trying to identify potential clients.
The notion that guys are likely to actually confess, in open forum, that they use hookers is quite optimistic.
The whole topic cannot really be discussed in open forum due to the sites rules...for example - we couldn't ask working girls to contribute, nor invite guys to declare, which is what is being asked, themselves to be happy to pay for services; when that happens the thread would be locked. In fact it might be considered that someone was trying to identify potential clients.
The notion that guys are likely to actually confess, in open forum, that they use hookers is quite optimistic.
it would appear that for some the questions i asked were to complex .skinny for instance seems to believe it is notcorrect to ask such thing ,or at least word them in the way i did,on this this is an adult site in the 21st century.
For the rest of us free speaking adults i dont think anything else needs changing ....lets discuss and see where we go from here.
For the rest of us free speaking adults i dont think anything else needs changing ....lets discuss and see where we go from here.
Quote by john60
it would appear that for some the questions i asked were to complex .skinny for instance seems to believe it is notcorrect to ask such thing ,or at least word them in the way i did,on this this is an adult site in the 21st century.
For the rest of us free speaking adults i dont think anything else needs changing ....lets discuss and see where we go from here.
Okay, so let's start with your answer to the questions. Do you pay for prostitutes? What are your thoughts on the legalisation of the sex industry? And to my mind the most interesting question is why are you asking? Have you a reason for wanting to know what others think?
In my case, I never have, and never would consider paying or sex. If a women I'm with is not genuinly enjoying herself then I get nothing from it, so why would I?
Orgasminator
Quote by Marya_Northeast
I'm from Yorkshire, I don't pay for owt.
Lmfao xx
Quote by Cubes
In my case, I never have, and never would consider paying or sex. If a women I'm with is not genuinly enjoying herself then I get nothing from it, so why would I?
The above point in my opinion is flawed (no doubt you'll be right along to smack me down)
but if you're seeking out the services of a hooker it isnt so much about them being pleasured but more about your pleasure seeking as in it's you that wants to get your rocks offwith the hookers pleasure secondary (in the grand scheme of things) You fuck a hooker, you make love with a partner (broadly speaking)
Sex God
Quote by john60
it would appear that for some the questions i asked were to complex .skinny for instance seems to believe it is notcorrect to ask such thing ,or at least word them in the way i did,on this this is an adult site in the 21st century.
For the rest of us free speaking adults i dont think anything else needs changing ....lets discuss and see where we go from here.
Nothing complex about your questions john, and prostitution does get an airing from time to time in some form or another. My point is that your request for information will falter, not only through the unwillingness of guys to admit their participation, but by asking guys to declare themselves as clients/potential clients, and to let someone know how much they pay. The "how much do you pay for a hooker" question is the question asked by people thinking of entering the business as a service provider. It's been asked in chatrooms, on a number of occasions, and has led to chatrooms being closed down.
Prostitutes charge widely varying amounts, depending upon location and many other factors. There are numerous websites, and small ads, which will give fairly acurate indications as to what will be charged. The fact that many guys return again and again might indicate that they consider it was worth it, but obviously down to the individuals involved.
On the matter of legalising - selling sexual favours isn't unlawful in this country, advertising such services/ soliciting business is, as is running a brothel. I'm sure your question was related more to putting us on a par with some of our european neighbours. It's just one of those no go areas for politicians, there are no popularity points in it for them, so not going to happen. I'd personally welcome legalisation.
A point made by the anti prostitution lobby is this.... how would you feel if your jobseeking partner, or daughter, was sent off, by the jobcentre, to the local brothel to apply for a vacancy which was on the jobcentres boards?
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In my case, I never have, and never would consider paying or sex. If a women I'm with is not genuinly enjoying herself then I get nothing from it, so why would I?
The above point in my opinion is flawed (no doubt you'll be right along to smack me down)
but if you're seeking out the services of a hooker it isnt so much about them being pleasured but more about your pleasure seeking as in it's you that wants to get your rocks offwith the hookers pleasure secondary (in the grand scheme of things) You fuck a hooker, you make love with a partner (broadly speaking)
I'm sure that's a valid viewpoint for many people, but for me the most enjoyable part of a sex act is seeing my partner enjoying it. Putting aside the paid for sex aspect for a moment, if I felt that any woman I was with was feigning orgasm it would switch me right off. I'm not saying there aren't prostitutes who do enjoy sex with their customers, but it's not very likely is it? And for that reason I won't be seeking out a paid sex worker. After all, if I just wanted relief I have a hand and SH chat to get by on. ;-)
And as I know you love it really.....
;)
Sex God
Quote by john60
They say that 3 out of 10 guys will pay for the services of a prostitute at some time .would be great to hear about the experience,was it worth it,how much did it benefits of legalising it in the UK like they have in parts of Europe.
Any ladies paid for sex ?
Your opinions and experiences first!
Sex God
Quote by Cubes
In my case, I never have, and never would consider paying or sex. If a women I'm with is not genuinly enjoying herself then I get nothing from it, so why would I?
The above point in my opinion is flawed (no doubt you'll be right along to smack me down)
but if you're seeking out the services of a hooker it isnt so much about them being pleasured but more about your pleasure seeking as in it's you that wants to get your rocks offwith the hookers pleasure secondary (in the grand scheme of things) You fuck a hooker, you make love with a partner (broadly speaking)
I'm sure that's a valid viewpoint for many people, but for me the most enjoyable part of a sex act is seeing my partner enjoying it. Putting aside the paid for sex aspect for a moment, if I felt that any woman I was with was feigning orgasm it would switch me right off. I'm not saying there aren't prostitutes who do enjoy sex with their customers, but it's not very likely is it? And for that reason I won't be seeking out a paid sex worker. After all, if I just wanted relief I have a hand and SH chat to get by on. ;-)
And as I know you love it really.....
;)
Virtually what I was going to say. I need the woman to be turned on regardless of situation or it just wont work for me. In the Fantasy world like Belle de jour where she gets off on sexual acts with some of her clients I would be ok that. A hump with a sack of spuds though, does nout for me.
Sex God
Quote by Toots
In my case, I never have, and never would consider paying or sex. If a women I'm with is not genuinly enjoying herself then I get nothing from it, so why would I?
The above point in my opinion is flawed (no doubt you'll be right along to smack me down)
but if you're seeking out the services of a hooker it isnt so much about them being pleasured but more about your pleasure seeking as in it's you that wants to get your rocks offwith the hookers pleasure secondary (in the grand scheme of things) You fuck a hooker, you make love with a partner (broadly speaking)
i love these sweeping generalisations of men
i think if asked most guys would agree with tweeky and cubes which means (with out wanting to sound rude) you have little or no idea of what men are really about or what gets thier rocks off
Sex God
Quote by tweeky
Virtually what I was going to say. I need the woman to be turned on regardless of situation or it just wont work for me. In the Fantasy world like Belle de jour where she gets off on sexual acts with some of her clients I would be ok that. A hump with a sack of spuds though, does nout for me.
Same for me....
If the lady isn't enjoying it then neither will I.....
Sex God
I'm going along with Toots.
Most guys, when they hire a hooker, are just getting their rocks off. Sure most would like to think she's enjoying it, but that's not why they're there. Some hookers do enjoy lots of what they do, they're just like the rest of us...others are good actresses and will enjoy acting like your girlfriend, if that's what turns you on.
We all know that there are hundreds of young people being used as sex slaves in the industry, and that it would be impossible to believe they were enjoying themselves. The fact that they are earning money continuously, for the people who have enslaved them, tells a story which cannot be argued. Clearly there are enough men around for whom lust is a bigger driving force than compassion.
Personally I've never hired a hooker, although I've known a few quite well, just never really fancied them, and maybe the only reason for that was that I never identified that they were fancying me.
Most guys, when they hire a hooker, are just getting their rocks off. Sure most would like to think she's enjoying it, but that's not why they're there. Some hookers do enjoy lots of what they do, they're just like the rest of us...others are good actresses and will enjoy acting like your girlfriend, if that's what turns you on.
We all know that there are hundreds of young people being used as sex slaves in the industry, and that it would be impossible to believe they were enjoying themselves. The fact that they are earning money continuously, for the people who have enslaved them, tells a story which cannot be argued. Clearly there are enough men around for whom lust is a bigger driving force than compassion.
Personally I've never hired a hooker, although I've known a few quite well, just never really fancied them, and maybe the only reason for that was that I never identified that they were fancying me.
in my early days i visited amsterdam on many occasions. on the last occasion we went on a stag do about 8 years ago where everyone was married except 2 peeple out of 14. every guy apart from one guy had sex with a hooker.
over in amsterdam the streets are crammed with guys ( mostly english ) guys looking for sex.
whilst i do not know any figures on this, and who does i wonder? what i would say is visiting a prostitute is a far more popular past time than many would admit to.
yes i have slept with prostitutes on many occasions, but one of the suprises was that after about an hour, i could not even remember what they looked like. says a lot i suppose.
me and mrs star have also visited amsterdam together and played with a prostitute together, very horny. each to there own i suppose.:notes:
over in amsterdam the streets are crammed with guys ( mostly english ) guys looking for sex.
whilst i do not know any figures on this, and who does i wonder? what i would say is visiting a prostitute is a far more popular past time than many would admit to.
yes i have slept with prostitutes on many occasions, but one of the suprises was that after about an hour, i could not even remember what they looked like. says a lot i suppose.
me and mrs star have also visited amsterdam together and played with a prostitute together, very horny. each to there own i suppose.:notes:
Warming the Bed
Quote by john60
They say that 3 out of 10 guys will pay for the services of a prostitute at some time .would be great to hear about the experience,was it worth it,how much did it benefits of legalising it in the UK like they have in parts of Europe.
Any ladies paid for sex ?
A good rule of thumb with surveys is that if the answer is embarassing or a social no no then you can guarantee it underestimates the actual truth. If the survey says its 3 out of ten then you can bet it is higher. Same goes with suverys on such things like have you ever drunk driven or do you vote Tory.
As an old cycnic(realist) the all men pay for sex maxim has a certain ring of truth to it.
I've known loads of men ( who have paid for sexual services and quite a few men and women who have worked in the sex industry. Doesn't appear to be that uncommon.
For some it might be an easy hassle-free way of getting their rocks off but from the conversations I've had, it would seem the whole idea of the transaction itself is a massive part of the kink.
Many moons ago, a friend and I had a light-hearted discussion about hiring a fit, attractive young man for our pleasure but it never came about. Even back then, I think I'd rather have shagged someone who actually fancies me not someone who's paid to.
Maybe it was more funny the second time round? ;)
For some it might be an easy hassle-free way of getting their rocks off but from the conversations I've had, it would seem the whole idea of the transaction itself is a massive part of the kink.
Many moons ago, a friend and I had a light-hearted discussion about hiring a fit, attractive young man for our pleasure but it never came about. Even back then, I think I'd rather have shagged someone who actually fancies me not someone who's paid to.
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oh it came up twice, sorry lol
Maybe it was more funny the second time round? ;)
of course, and those that haven't don't know what they're missing. A quality hooker in amsterdam (other venues are available) will know exactly what she's doing and do it well. Isn't it the same as 'who's been out for a meal?' We can all cook at home but every now and again it's nice to meet a real pro that knows how to do it properly.
