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Do you have a certain type of look or person that you have always found attractive? Dont get me wrong my tastes are varied but there is a certain look of woman that always gets my head turning . This dates right back to when I was little and is somehow routed in mind.
A female
Not overweight but not skinny, with a bit of meat as they say
Average height or tall
Legs, must not be skinny school girl legs, a decent sized thigh without being flabby.
Waist any size from 10 to 16
Bum, average size a bit plump maybe but not long.
Boobs, between B and D but shape is more important. Round ones good, no ski jumpers, no implants.
Face, attractive rather than pretty, prefer moody or sultry to smiley.
Hair, At least shoulder length longer better. Prefer darker hair, black great. Straight wavy or curly not fussed but do have a little thing for very curly perms.
The look, on the edge of goth or a bit rock chick. Darker clothes preferable for sure. Skirts and dress's not trousers or jeans. Tights are fine but I actually dont mind woman without tights. Showing cleavage is great but not to the nearly popping out stage.

There you have it biggrin Kind of woman that I have always looked at over the years. This is not exclusive but is the type I have always liked to look at.
I was driving by the downs in Bristiol yesterday and slowing for the lights I saw a young lady. Short blond hair very slim wearing tight jeans with an ass to die for and a high collared tight jumper with a huge pair of at least f-g tits at a guess. She smiled at me as I slowed down, I nearly made a mess on the steering column lol So the above is not exclusive just a preference.
Whats yours if you care to share? One golden rule in this. You explain, no reference to people celebrity's etc wink
I was alright up to moody or sultry - the rest is me to a T ;)
Quote by Kaznkev
Ohh i dont really have a type,but my ideal would be
Dark hair,preferably long,tho a pixie cut can be sexy,
Small breasts,
slim
short
cheekbones a must
dark eyes
Saying all this there is someone i fancy like crazy at the moment who apart from the dark hair looks nothing like this,so my ideal is obviously not set in stone!

Is that Kaz or Kev lol
You can do men descriptions too, this is not gender specific.
The kind of man who makes my head turn? Hmmm... I'm not sure it's easy to categorise phwoar-ness!
If I were going to try & think about who would make my head turn on the street, I'd probably say a tall-ish chap, dark hair, well-dressed (& by that I mean confidently & stylishly dressed, not necessarily smartly dressed) with a confident walk (I know, I'm odd!) If he is black or dark-complected, then yeah, that will possibly draw my eye & make me give him a look up & down.
Looking at him now more closely (rather than a perve from afar!) then I'd be looking for things like a nice smile, twinkly eyes (love a naughty glint!) & nice hands.
Looking even more closely, a nice package is always a bonus! :rascal:
But to be honest, all rules go out of the window sometimes; sexy just is, it can't always be defined.
Quote by tweeky
Do you have a certain type of look or person that you have always found attractive? Dont get me wrong my tastes are varied but there is a certain look of woman that always gets my head turning . This dates right back to when I was little and is somehow routed in mind.
A female
Not overweight but not skinny, with a bit of meat as they say
Average height or tall
Legs, must not be skinny school girl legs, a decent sized thigh without being flabby.
Waist any size from 10 to 16
Bum, average size a bit plump maybe but not long.
Boobs, between B and D but shape is more important. Round ones good, no ski jumpers, no implants.
Face, attractive rather than pretty, prefer moody or sultry to smiley.
Hair, At least shoulder length longer better. Prefer darker hair, black great. Straight wavy or curly not fussed but do have a little thing for very curly perms.
The look, on the edge of goth or a bit rock chick. Darker clothes preferable for sure. Skirts and dress's not trousers or jeans. Tights are fine but I actually dont mind woman without tights. Showing cleavage is great but not to the nearly popping out stage.
There you have it biggrin Kind of woman that I have always looked at over the years. This is not exclusive but is the type I have always liked to look at.
I was driving by the downs in Bristiol yesterday and slowing for the lights I saw a young lady. Short blond hair very slim wearing tight jeans with an ass to die for and a high collared tight jumper with a huge pair of at least f-g tits at a guess. She smiled at me as I slowed down, I nearly made a mess on the steering column lol So the above is not exclusive just a preference.
Whats yours if you care to share? One golden rule in this. You explain, no reference to people celebrity's etc wink

wave Its me!!!!!!!!!!! :bounce:
I like a man who is tall, dark hair, not too long but not too short and dark brown come to bed eyes ... you know when they have a right "I'm gonna fuck your brains out" dirty look about them. I cant describe good looking but I know what I mean.
Dressed in casual clothes broad shoulders and no belly, dont have to have a 6 pack or anything just not wobbly. Nice athletic thighs and a rounded but firm arse.
Body hair a no no!! as is facial hair.
Cock doesnt have to be massive but average to just above average is nice with a decent girth and tidy pubes!!
Dont ask for much do I?!?! lol
Quote by Funlovers2009
Do you have a certain type of look or person that you have always found attractive? Dont get me wrong my tastes are varied but there is a certain look of woman that always gets my head turning . This dates right back to when I was little and is somehow routed in mind.
A female
Not overweight but not skinny, with a bit of meat as they say
Average height or tall
Legs, must not be skinny school girl legs, a decent sized thigh without being flabby.
Waist any size from 10 to 16
Bum, average size a bit plump maybe but not long.
Boobs, between B and D but shape is more important. Round ones good, no ski jumpers, no implants.
Face, attractive rather than pretty, prefer moody or sultry to smiley.
Hair, At least shoulder length longer better. Prefer darker hair, black great. Straight wavy or curly not fussed but do have a little thing for very curly perms.
The look, on the edge of goth or a bit rock chick. Darker clothes preferable for sure. Skirts and dress's not trousers or jeans. Tights are fine but I actually dont mind woman without tights. Showing cleavage is great but not to the nearly popping out stage.
There you have it biggrin Kind of woman that I have always looked at over the years. This is not exclusive but is the type I have always liked to look at.
I was driving by the downs in Bristiol yesterday and slowing for the lights I saw a young lady. Short blond hair very slim wearing tight jeans with an ass to die for and a high collared tight jumper with a huge pair of at least f-g tits at a guess. She smiled at me as I slowed down, I nearly made a mess on the steering column lol So the above is not exclusive just a preference.
Whats yours if you care to share? One golden rule in this. You explain, no reference to people celebrity's etc wink

wave Its me!!!!!!!!!!! :bounce:
I like a man who is tall :sad: dark hair :-| not too long but not too short :-D and dark brown come to bed eyes :sad: ... you know when they have a right "I'm gonna fuck your brains out" dirty look about them :thumbup: I cant describe good looking but I know what I mean dunno
Dressed in casual clothes :thumbup: broad shoulders :thumbup: and no belly rotflmao dont have to have a 6 pack or anything :cool: just not wobbly :scared: Nice athletic thighs :thumbup: and a rounded but firm arse :thumbup:
Body hair a no no!! as is facial hair
Cock doesnt have to be massive but average to just above average is nice with a decent girth :thumbup: and tidy pubes!! :huh:
Dont ask for much do I?!?! lol :giveup:
Emote answers above :lol:
Quote by tweeky
Do you have a certain type of look or person that you have always found attractive? Dont get me wrong my tastes are varied but there is a certain look of woman that always gets my head turning . This dates right back to when I was little and is somehow routed in mind.
A female
Not overweight but not skinny, with a bit of meat as they say
Average height or tall
Legs, must not be skinny school girl legs, a decent sized thigh without being flabby.
Waist any size from 10 to 16
Bum, average size a bit plump maybe but not long.
Boobs, between B and D but shape is more important. Round ones good, no ski jumpers, no implants.
Face, attractive rather than pretty, prefer moody or sultry to smiley.
Hair, At least shoulder length longer better. Prefer darker hair, black great. Straight wavy or curly not fussed but do have a little thing for very curly perms.
The look, on the edge of goth or a bit rock chick. Darker clothes preferable for sure. Skirts and dress's not trousers or jeans. Tights are fine but I actually dont mind woman without tights. Showing cleavage is great but not to the nearly popping out stage.
There you have it biggrin Kind of woman that I have always looked at over the years. This is not exclusive but is the type I have always liked to look at.
I was driving by the downs in Bristiol yesterday and slowing for the lights I saw a young lady. Short blond hair very slim wearing tight jeans with an ass to die for and a high collared tight jumper with a huge pair of at least f-g tits at a guess. She smiled at me as I slowed down, I nearly made a mess on the steering column lol So the above is not exclusive just a preference.
Whats yours if you care to share? One golden rule in this. You explain, no reference to people celebrity's etc wink

wave Its me!!!!!!!!!!! :bounce:
I like a man who is tall :sad: dark hair :-| not too long but not too short :-D and dark brown come to bed eyes :sad: ... you know when they have a right "I'm gonna fuck your brains out" dirty look about them :thumbup: I cant describe good looking but I know what I mean dunno
Dressed in casual clothes :thumbup: broad shoulders :thumbup: and no belly rotflmao dont have to have a 6 pack or anything :cool: just not wobbly :scared: Nice athletic thighs :thumbup: and a rounded but firm arse :thumbup:
Body hair a no no!! as is facial hair
Cock doesnt have to be massive but average to just above average is nice with a decent girth :thumbup: and tidy pubes!! :huh:
Dont ask for much do I?!?! lol :giveup:
Emote answers above :lol:
:giggle:
I'd like someone who doesn't want to eat black pudding sandwiches after sex. confused
lol
Other than that... green eyes, left handers and broad square shoulders nearly always catch my eye. Some one with something quirky about them, not run of the mill. I like people who look slightly different to the carbon copy magazine images.
Not all together, they can be separate or in conjunction. smile
Quote by little gem
I'd like someone who doesn't want to eat black pudding sandwiches after sex. confused
lol
Other than that... green eyes, left handers and broad square shoulders nearly always catch my eye. Some one with something quirky about them, not run of the mill. I like people who look slightly different to the carbon copy magazine images.
Not all together, they can be separate or in conjunction. smile

Neil isn't quirky he is totally normal and lovely.
What do I notice about women?. Ummm tall, big breasts, slim enough that I notice the breasts are big. Beautiful hair. Long legs. Nice teeth. Dark hair. Any other colour than blue for eyes.
I also like her to have a bum that is peachy round so when bent over infront of me there is still plenty to hold onto.
A man that turns my head would:
take up more space than he physically needs by dint of his presence;
be over 6' tall;
be not too thin - with evidence of physical strength for mammoth hunting;
legs - yes, two, long and strong - thighs eminently claspable between one's own;
hair - very dark or grey, short or none, but not long. Beards are the new black - I like them;
face - wouldn't have to be classically handsome, but have a certain wry something. And intelligent twinkly dark eyes to lose onself in; good teeth;
look - stylishly uncontrived! Head up, facing the world!

^^^ her
Quote by TheLovelyOne
A man that turns my head would:
take up more space than he physically needs by dint of his presence;
be over 6' tall;
be not too thin - with evidence of physical strength for mammoth hunting;
legs - yes, two, long and strong - thighs eminently claspable between one's own;
hair - very dark or grey, short or none, but not long. Beards are the new black - I like them;
face - wouldn't have to be classically handsome, but have a certain wry something. And intelligent twinkly dark eyes to lose onself in; good teeth;
look - stylishly uncontrived! Head up, facing the world!

Ooh, can tick a few of those boxes.
Take up more space than I need.....tick
6 foot tall............tick
Not too thin.......tick
legs 2....tick
hair....was very dark, now grey....tick
Beard......not yet shaved this morning........tick
Intelligent twinkly dark eyes.........well, dark and twinkly ......tick
Look.....certainly not contrived...tick
OK....off to hunt a few mammoths wink
Quote by tweeky
Do you have a certain type of look or person that you have always found attractive? Dont get me wrong my tastes are varied but there is a certain look of woman that always gets my head turning . This dates right back to when I was little and is somehow routed in mind.
A female
Not overweight but not skinny, with a bit of meat as they say
Average height or tall
Legs, must not be skinny school girl legs, a decent sized thigh without being flabby.
Waist any size from 10 to 16
Bum, average size a bit plump maybe but not long.
Boobs, between B and D but shape is more important. Round ones good, no ski jumpers, no implants.
Face, attractive rather than pretty, prefer moody or sultry to smiley.
Hair, At least shoulder length longer better. Prefer darker hair, black great. Straight wavy or curly not fussed but do have a little thing for very curly perms.
The look, on the edge of goth or a bit rock chick. Darker clothes preferable for sure. Skirts and dress's not trousers or jeans. Tights are fine but I actually dont mind woman without tights. Showing cleavage is great but not to the nearly popping out stage.
There you have it biggrin Kind of woman that I have always looked at over the years. This is not exclusive but is the type I have always liked to look at.
I was driving by the downs in Bristiol yesterday and slowing for the lights I saw a young lady. Short blond hair very slim wearing tight jeans with an ass to die for and a high collared tight jumper with a huge pair of at least f-g tits at a guess. She smiled at me as I slowed down, I nearly made a mess on the steering column lol So the above is not exclusive just a preference.
Whats yours if you care to share? One golden rule in this. You explain, no reference to people celebrity's etc wink

Just one sentance sums me up...........................................................
Size 16 upward large breasts peachy bum a big smile and fun to be with.................
Trav..
Quote by TheLovelyOne
A man that turns my head would:
take up more space than he physically needs by dint of his presence;
be over 6' tall;
be not too thin - with evidence of physical strength for mammoth hunting;
legs - yes, two, long and strong - thighs eminently claspable between one's own;
hair - very dark or grey, short or none, but not long. Beards are the new black - I like them;
face - wouldn't have to be classically handsome, but have a certain wry something. And intelligent twinkly dark eyes to lose onself in; good teeth;
look - stylishly uncontrived! Head up, facing the world!

:thumbup: I'd give him a second glance too!
OK, without referencing any celebs...
Female, about 5ft 2, not skinny, friendly face (cute), the edge of goth/alternative, not too fussed about breasts so long as they're 'shapely'...
Problem is that ideal female happens to be a spoken-for friend...DAMN!!!
Quote by RIP1306
Problem is that ideal female happens to be a spoken-for friend...DAMN!!!

Erm... <cough>... helloooo... that's what swinging is for!!! :thumbup: ;-)
Quote by splendid_
Neil isn't quirky he is totally normal and lovely.

Normal! lol Oh I think you're top Splendid. kiss He'll enjoy being called lovely.
His quirks are behavioural. :lol: ;) And he has eyes that change colour with his mood. Most of the time they are green-ish, but then they go shades of grey, green-blue, sage, sea-green, blue, rusty, the list goes on. I tend to know what kind of mood he is in by his eye colour. I don't think he is run of the mill, but I might be a little bit biased! ;)
My previous descriptions go for both male and female vict... er I mean volunteers! :lol:
I'm never too sure what turns my head until I've gone a bit... ooooo! :twisted: :rascal: and my head has swivelled. I shall pay more attention to what it is.
Men (or women, but especially men) with long, dark, beautiful, shiny and well combed hair will always get a second look. *swoon* We both have a thing for the man in the local video shop at the moment because he has the most gorgeous hair, I just want to stroke him. redface
Cubes wrote : Erm... <cough>... helloooo... that's what swinging is for!!!
Point taken, but only really works if both sides are into swinging... So I still say DAMN...lol
Quote by Max777
Ooh, can tick a few of those boxes.
Take up more space than I need.....tick
6 foot tall............tick
Not too thin.......tick
legs 2....tick
hair....was very dark, now grey....tick
Beard......not yet shaved this morning........tick
Intelligent twinkly dark eyes.........well, dark and twinkly ......tick
Look.....certainly not contrived...tick
OK....off to hunt The Lovely One wink

Tick! :twisted:
Quote by TheLovelyOne

Ooh, can tick a few of those boxes.
Take up more space than I need.....tick
6 foot tall............tick
Not too thin.......tick
legs 2....tick
hair....was very dark, now grey....tick
Beard......not yet shaved this morning........tick
Intelligent twinkly dark eyes.........well, dark and twinkly ......tick
Look.....certainly not contrived...tick
OK....off to hunt The Lovely One wink

Tick! :twisted:
What bait should I use? :wink:
Quote by Max777

Ooh, can tick a few of those boxes.
Take up more space than I need.....tick
6 foot tall............tick
Not too thin.......tick
legs 2....tick
hair....was very dark, now grey....tick
Beard......not yet shaved this morning........tick
Intelligent twinkly dark eyes.........well, dark and twinkly ......tick
Look.....certainly not contrived...tick
OK....off to hunt The Lovely One wink

Tick! :twisted:
What bait should I use? :wink:
I'm already hooked Max... you just have to reel me in :giggle:
Quote by TheLovelyOne

Ooh, can tick a few of those boxes.
Take up more space than I need.....tick
6 foot tall............tick
Not too thin.......tick
legs 2....tick
hair....was very dark, now grey....tick
Beard......not yet shaved this morning........tick
Intelligent twinkly dark eyes.........well, dark and twinkly ......tick
Look.....certainly not contrived...tick
OK....off to hunt The Lovely One wink

Tick! :twisted:
What bait should I use? :wink:
I'm already hooked Max... you just have to reel me in :giggle:
Gonna take some reeling in......from Cardiff to Newcastle!! lol
Quote by Max777

What bait should I use? wink

I'm already hooked Max... you just have to reel me in :giggle:
Gonna take some reeling in......from Cardiff to Newcastle!! lol
You calling me a mammoth?! poke
Quote by TheLovelyOne

What bait should I use? wink

I'm already hooked Max... you just have to reel me in :giggle:
Gonna take some reeling in......from Cardiff to Newcastle!! lol
You calling me a mammoth?! poke
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.........was talking distance :doh:
i love a man to be a man! Smell fab first thing in morn and still as good at night, a bit rough around the edges but when he puts a suit on it blows your knickers off.
Hair cut nice and use gel, I love a man with tattoos but not many. I like a man to look like he was always fed a good sunday roast(but never went back for seconds)
A nice colour to his face and body (not like hes ready for a postmortum cuz hes so pale)
And most of all to wear matching socks and clean pants lol lol
I dont really have a type but I do like my man to smell nice and not like an old pub ashtray with yellow fingers or teeth. Other than that I like a personality for sure!
Quote by Lassy09
i love a man to be a man! Smell fab first thing in morn and still as good at night, a bit rough around the edges but when he puts a suit on it blows your knickers off.
Hair cut nice and use gel, I love a man with tattoos but not many. I like a man to look like he was always fed a good sunday roast(but never went back for seconds)
A nice colour to his face and body (not like hes ready for a postmortum cuz hes so pale)
And most of all to wear matching socks and clean pants lol lol
I dont really have a type but I do like my man to smell nice and not like an old pub ashtray with yellow fingers or teeth. Other than that I like a personality for sure!

Phew! If you find him, I do hope you'll share him :giggle:
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
i love a man to be a man! Smell fab first thing in morn and still as good at night, a bit rough around the edges but when he puts a suit on it blows your knickers off.
Hair cut nice and use gel, I love a man with tattoos but not many. I like a man to look like he was always fed a good sunday roast(but never went back for seconds)
A nice colour to his face and body (not like hes ready for a postmortum cuz hes so pale)
And most of all to wear matching socks and clean pants lol lol
I dont really have a type but I do like my man to smell nice and not like an old pub ashtray with yellow fingers or teeth. Other than that I like a personality for sure!

Phew! If you find him, I do hope you'll share him :giggle:
oh go on, and if we smear him in choc he can be our easter bunny!!!
for me its not particularly looks i go for although when it comes to men i have a weakness for big rugby playing types, its the thighs lol and women its nice sparkly eyes,
i like my mind to be stimulated, its not just about stringing a few words together, its something more, but hard to describe, it can be the way someone talks to me or intensely looks at me,
i like someone who makes an effort
nice smiles and bubbly characters
lol think its easier to describe turn offs...... pretentious, arrogance, chauvanistic, bad BO, selfish, vain, overly moralistic types who want to save the world and are oh so pc,
and i wonder why im still single !!!!
Quote by Ms_Whips
Do you have a certain type of look or person that you have always found attractive? Dont get me wrong my tastes are varied but there is a certain look of woman that always gets my head turning . This dates right back to when I was little and is somehow routed in mind.
A female tick
Not overweight but not skinny, with a bit of meat as they say tick
Average height or tall tick
Legs, must not be skinny school girl legs, a decent sized thigh without being flabby. tick
Waist any size from 10 to 16 tick
Bum, average size a bit plump maybe but not long. tick
Boobs, between B and D but shape is more important. Round ones good, no ski jumpers, no implants. tick
Face, attractive rather than pretty, prefer moody or sultry to smiley. tick
Hair, At least shoulder length longer better. Prefer darker hair, black great. Straight wavy or curly ( mine does all that)not fussed but do have a little thing for very curly perms. tick
The look, on the edge of goth or a bit rock chick. Darker clothes preferable for sure. Skirts and dress's not trousers or jeans. Tights are fine but I actually dont mind woman without tights. Showing cleavage is great but not to the nearly popping out stage. tick
There you have it biggrin Kind of woman that I have always looked at over the years. This is not exclusive but is the type I have always liked to look at.
I was driving by the downs in Bristiol yesterday and slowing for the lights I saw a young lady. Short blond hair very slim wearing tight jeans with an ass to die for and a high collared tight jumper with a huge pair of at least f-g tits at a guess. She smiled at me as I slowed down, I nearly made a mess on the steering column lol So the above is not exclusive just a preference.
Whats yours if you care to share? One golden rule in this. You explain, no reference to people celebrity's etc wink

gosh that's a bit scarey!
for me as always it just has to be eyes that get my attention. i love eyes and especially when the colour is unusually intence. brown are nice but green or blue with dark hair will get more attention. overal looks wise i find that pretty boys will get a glance and the 'oh that's nice eye candy' though for a few seconds. but i then get bored of looking at them. i like handsome men with something else about them.
i like slim guys who are tall
the hair style has to suit the guy. i don't mind short, long or non but i hate to see an older guy with a hair do best suited to a twenty year old hairdresser.
clothes wise i'm not bothered as long as what they wear suits what they are doing. i wear anything from horsey stuff to ball gowns so can look a total scruff or scrub up well. i like a guy who can do the same.
a great arse is likely to draw my attention to as will a hint of kink.
then there is 'the look' it starts off looking you up and down, lingers on the eyes, then the twisted smile and the glint in the eye that says 'i am so going to fuck you!'
yep i think that will do it.
whips
Well this thread wasn't such a bad idea, two matches so far :D
I tried doing "the look" as above in bold many years ago. A friend asked me if could I stop looking at ******* your freaking her out :lol:
I like women to look like women, not boy's, keep your stick thin bimbo's, for me it's women with curve's,
Hair yes I like them with hair, colour, lenght, how ever it come's
Breast's, yes I like them with breast's too
Now come's the bit that matter's, a mind of there own, thats important to me above all else,