Faemale orgasm

17 May 2005

Hi this is my first ever post biggrin

I was wondering if anyone else has experienced what i have, since the birth of my son ( 4 yrs ago) i have not been able to have an orgasm through penitration, no matter how long or good it is. Dont feel too sorry for me , my partner always makes sure i come one way or another.
Is it common for a woman to never experience an orgasm through sex confused

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17 May 2005

Hi and :welcome:
Childbirth does all sorts of crap things to a womans body so whilst not hearing of this before I'm not surprised.
There was a discussion a while back where a number of us on here admitted that we don't orgasm through penetration so don't feel you are alone.
If you are brave enough to admit it to your doctor then it might be worth pursuing but I can't see it being solvable (but then I'm no medical expert).
C x

17 May 2005

Hello and welcome Racamoe biggrin

I`ve not had children but I have never had an orgasm through penetration alone. To be brutally honest penetration just doesn`t hit the right spot wink

JR xx

17 May 2005

Quote by Calista
There was a discussion a while back where a number of us on here admitted that we don't orgasm through penetration so don't feel you are alone.

The thread is this one.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/39736.html

17 May 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
There was a discussion a while back where a number of us on here admitted that we don't orgasm through penetration so don't feel you are alone.

The thread is this one.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/39736.html
Thanks smile

:) .. the search button always pulls up 4 million threads whenever I look so I give up LOL.
C x

17 May 2005

Thanks guys it nice to know im not alone smile

You have made me feel very welcome biggrin

17 May 2005

P.s i want to have a picture on the side, how do i do it confused

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17 May 2005

I'm lucky in that I can orgasm via penetration, but only if I position things right.
Prior to having kids, I could orgasm just by squeezing my thighs together, in the right way, though.
It took a while for things to get sorted after childbirth, but I now believe this to be because I was uncomfortable with my first husband after he watched my kids being born.
I specifically asked him not to be at 'the business end' when I gave birth, but he did anyway. I was so unhappy that he saw all the tearing/stretching/mess. It took me 7 years before I would indulge in cunnilingus after that... I just didn't want him to see me. So I so could not have been comfortable with him in many ways.
Course, I would denied all that, if anyone had asked at the time. rolleyes

17 May 2005

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/jql/
You can use this fabulous picture resizer and then add it into your profile smile

C x

17 May 2005

Thanks i will take a pic and resize it, wish me look confused

17 May 2005

nope, i'm with u on that one, i've never orgasm through penetration alone but i can through a bloke rubbing the back of my head!! stange i know but i organsm through the strangest places!!

17 May 2005

Quote by pinkie
nope, i'm with u on that one, i've never orgasm through penetration alone but i can through a bloke rubbing the back of my head!! stange i know but i organsm through the strangest places!!

I've never tried to make a woman orgasm through penertration alone.... I tend to move a bit too. lol

17 May 2005

Ive managed to get a pic up, i think they look better than they do in the flesh so im happy biggrin

Also realised i spent female wrong, look like a right twerp now redface

XX

17 May 2005

Quote by Racamoe
Ive managed to get a pic up, i think they look better than they do in the flesh so im happy
Also realised i spent female wrong, look like a right twerp now
XX

I can't comment on the theme of this topic, except to say that I have not met many women that orgasm through penetration alone.
I'm sure no one will mind too much about the spelling.
John
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18 May 2005

Quote by Racamoe
Is it common for a woman to never experience an orgasm through sex :

I'd like to think so or else there's something drastically wrong with me rolleyes

Seems like the off switch has been flipped and I can't cum (well there was the one time when.... :twisted: but guess that's a never to be repeated situation). Not even the "close your eyes and think of that special fantasy" thing works anymore. I can get myself off on my own no problem, but my body's a real spitefull cow mad

it's a matter of right to the edge then...urgh-urgh...gotcha bitch! evil

18 May 2005

Personaly i am happy to to see a woman orgasm by any means that i can get her there.
I am sure that women the world over wont mind a bit,' by any means' so long as it does the trick, (and she will probably be happy to return the compliment). :thumbup:
cc_7up

18 May 2005

Quote by Racamoe
Ive managed to get a pic up, i think they look better than they do in the flesh so im happy
Also realised i spent female wrong, look like a right twerp now
XX

I think you've speLt "speNt" wrong too! :D

18 May 2005

Never mind childbirth try anti-depressants for isappearing orgasms mad

18 May 2005

i have read i numerous problem pages over the years that its perfectly common. cue to any number of reasons not just child birth.
the main thing though ladies THAT YOU DONT FAKE IT. not all blokes wanna roll over and go to sleep. regardless if you come though penatration or not. its that fact that you do cum.
and if its our fault, make us do it again. we'll soon learn. biggrin

18 May 2005

i know this is a serious topic but just wanted to say top pic and i would luv to see them in the flesh lol

18 May 2005

Nice pic, but poor spelling wink

18 May 2005

Dont all women cum through penetration....hehe :twisted:

18 May 2005

just penetration alone is not usually enough to make me cum, however if penetration takes place WHILST oral , manual etc is done.. it increases the strength of the orgasm by LOADS!

19 May 2005

I usually cum with penetration, but usually only doggy unless im extremely horny! There are times thou, that i need extra help with my toys or i just feel like cumming at all. BUT I still enjoy it all, whatever happens :twisted: