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Falling For Your Playmate??????

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Just out of curiosity have any of us here on the site that play, ever fallen for your "Playmate"???
Im talking with respect to all gender's that play?
M/M
F/M
F/F
Just something that came to mind and thought i'd ask.
WHY!! Cos i'm nosey. lol
MoonGoddess. X
Hiya Moonie (!) and :welcome: to the site!
A nice, thought-provoking thread to start out on. However, don't be surprised if you don't get the response you were expecting. The thing is, yes, it happens- however, most people are going to want to keep it very, very private.
Good to see a newbie posting :thumbup:
Quote by Moon_goddess
Just out of curiosity have any of us here on the site that play, ever fallen for your "Playmate"???
Im talking with respect to all gender's that play?
M/M
F/M
F/F
Just something that came to mind and thought i'd ask.
WHY!! Cos i'm nosey. lol
MoonGoddess. X

Have you? We're all nosy too!
Quote by Freckledbird
Just out of curiosity have any of us here on the site that play, ever fallen for your "Playmate"???
Im talking with respect to all gender's that play?
M/M
F/M
F/F
Just something that came to mind and thought i'd ask.
WHY!! Cos i'm nosey. lol
MoonGoddess. X

Have you? We're all nosy too!
Speak for yourself, you nosy tart! :lol:
Quote by winchwench
Hiya Moonie (!) and :welcome: to the site!
A nice, thought-provoking thread to start out on. However, don't be surprised if you don't get the response you were expecting. The thing is, yes, it happens- however, most people are going to want to keep it very, very private.
Good to see a newbie posting :thumbup:

Me a Newbie? Nah!!!!
This is "Awesomemistress" reincarnated. :angel:
lol
Makes note to actually look at profiles :doh:
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Phew !!! thanks for putting me out of me misery !!! lol

Crickey Flower, thats a bit drastic :shock:
:lol:
Quote by flower411
Ha Ha !!! you wish !! :P

Actually, I really dont wish, cause I do like your posts, but dont you dare tell anyone I said that wink
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

Ha Ha !!! you wish !! :P

Actually, I really dont wish, cause I do like your posts, but dont you dare tell anyone I said that wink
NWC, are you sure you're feeling OK?
lol
I think there's more chance of two single people falling for each other than people from couple relationships. As a single you meet, you have fun, you may have sex, and with that as single people there must come some emotions of fondness, possibly love for some. It's human nature.
If you are already in a relationship and you are all consenting you are already (for the majority) in love with your partner so this issue prob. doesn't arise.
So yes, Moonie I suppose there's a higher chance you could fall for your playmate, there is a strong bond of intimacy at the end of the day.
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NWC, are you sure you're feeling OK?
lol

:giggle: I think I must be coming down with something wink
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

NWC, are you sure you're feeling OK?
lol

:giggle: I think I must be going down on someone wink
Really? :twisted:
theres falling in love with and getting a crush on your playmate, i thing the latter can be mistaken for love because you are dealing with people in a far more intimate way here, than say, the woman/man you see behind the pie counter at Greggs.
Feelings of lust and horniness can meld and be mistaken for more than they are in the heat of passion.
In answer to your question GODESS....i have done the latter, made an arse of myself and moved on!! redface surprisedops: :oops: I think its one of the perils of swinging I think.
Sometimes people can turn your head because they provide you with something that is missing in your life current relationship at the time.
In my case it was someone saying nice things to me, compliments and telling me how sexy i was (thats it pure and simple....lmao....god Im a cheap date lol :lol: AND also easily pleased too....oh the shame :oops: :oops:
Feelings are odd, and can often fool you that they are something completely different!!
BTW I have learned from my mistake (just in case future playmates are worried) lmfao!! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by jaymar
I think there's more chance of two single people falling for each other than people from couple relationships. As a single you meet, you have fun, you may have sex, and with that as single people there must come some emotions of fondness, possibly love for some. It's human nature.
If you are already in a relationship and you are all consenting you are already (for the majority) in love with your partner so this issue prob. doesn't arise.
So yes, Moonie I suppose there's a higher chance you could fall for your playmate, there is a strong bond of intimacy at the end of the day.

STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!
Moonie makes me think of a hairy assed guy. NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!
I'll let you know when I get a chance to play lol
Quote by Bonedigger
theres falling in love with and getting a crush on your playmate, i thing the latter can be mistaken for love because you are dealing with people in a far more intimate way here, than say, the woman/man you see behind the pie counter at Greggs.
Feelings of lust and horniness can meld and be mistaken for more than they are in the heat of passion.
In answer to your question Moonie....i have done the latter, made an arse of myself and moved on!! redface surprisedops: :oops: I think its one of the perils of swinging I think.
Sometimes people can turn your head because they provide you with something that is missing in your life current relationship at the time.
In my case it was someone saying nice things to me, compliments and telling me how sexy i was (thats it pure and simple....lmao....god Im a cheap date lol :lol: AND also easily pleased too....oh the shame :oops: :oops:
Feelings are odd, and can often fool you that they are something completely different!!
BTW I have learned from my mistake (just in case future playmates are worried) lmfao!! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Moon_goddess
theres falling in love with and getting a crush on your playmate, i thing the latter can be mistaken for love because you are dealing with people in a far more intimate way here, than say, the woman/man you see behind the pie counter at Greggs.
Feelings of lust and horniness can meld and be mistaken for more than they are in the heat of passion.
In answer to your question Moonie....i have done the latter, made an arse of myself and moved on!! redface surprisedops: :oops: I think its one of the perils of swinging I think.
Sometimes people can turn your head because they provide you with something that is missing in your life current relationship at the time.
In my case it was someone saying nice things to me, compliments and telling me how sexy i was (thats it pure and simple....lmao....god Im a cheap date lol :lol: AND also easily pleased too....oh the shame :oops: :oops:
Feelings are odd, and can often fool you that they are something completely different!!
BTW I have learned from my mistake (just in case future playmates are worried) lmfao!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Wisdom and i thank you, xxxxxxxx
Quote by Moon_goddess
theres falling in love with and getting a crush on your playmate, i thing the latter can be mistaken for love because you are dealing with people in a far more intimate way here, than say, the woman/man you see behind the pie counter at Greggs.
Feelings of lust and horniness can meld and be mistaken for more than they are in the heat of passion.
In answer to your question Moonie....i have done the latter, made an arse of myself and moved on!! redface surprisedops: :oops: I think its one of the perils of swinging I think.
Sometimes people can turn your head because they provide you with something that is missing in your life current relationship at the time.
In my case it was someone saying nice things to me, compliments and telling me how sexy i was (thats it pure and simple....lmao....god Im a cheap date lol :lol: AND also easily pleased too....oh the shame :oops: :oops:
Feelings are odd, and can often fool you that they are something completely different!!
BTW I have learned from my mistake (just in case future playmates are worried) lmfao!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Hey i put words after yours.
Where they go??
What i said was,,,,
Thanks for your wisdom. xxxxx
Well that is the question ????
And to answer that question,i have fallen for my playmate.
We met 18 months ago,there was a spark right from the offset of meeting and our relationship
has got stronger.
And we have been in a relationship for 12 of the last 18 months.
And yes it is a great thing that has happened falling for my playmate.
biggrin:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D
Quote by Moon_goddess
I think there's more chance of two single people falling for each other than people from couple relationships. As a single you meet, you have fun, you may have sex, and with that as single people there must come some emotions of fondness, possibly love for some. It's human nature.
If you are already in a relationship and you are all consenting you are already (for the majority) in love with your partner so this issue prob. doesn't arise.
So yes, Moonie I suppose there's a higher chance you could fall for your playmate, there is a strong bond of intimacy at the end of the day.

STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!
Moonie makes me think of a hairy assed guy. NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!
alreet man, i actually thought that was your name til I read it again...
so answering to you question didn't help then? evil
(makes mental note to avoid)
Hi moonie................. rolleyes
Quote by jaymar
I think there's more chance of two single people falling for each other than people from couple relationships. As a single you meet, you have fun, you may have sex, and with that as single people there must come some emotions of fondness, possibly love for some. It's human nature.
If you are already in a relationship and you are all consenting you are already (for the majority) in love with your partner so this issue prob. doesn't arise.
So yes, Moonie I suppose there's a higher chance you could fall for your playmate, there is a strong bond of intimacy at the end of the day.

STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!
Moonie makes me think of a hairy assed guy. NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!
alreet man, i actually thought that was your name til I read it again...
so answering to you question didn't help then? evil
(makes mental note to avoid)
Puts head above parapet & confesses to starting the Moonie thing :giveup:
STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!

However, must admit that saying the above is tantamount to saying "oh no, please don't cover me with whipped cream!" (Any excuse to reminisce.)
dunno
Quote by winchwench
I think there's more chance of two single people falling for each other than people from couple relationships. As a single you meet, you have fun, you may have sex, and with that as single people there must come some emotions of fondness, possibly love for some. It's human nature.
If you are already in a relationship and you are all consenting you are already (for the majority) in love with your partner so this issue prob. doesn't arise.
So yes, Moonie I suppose there's a higher chance you could fall for your playmate, there is a strong bond of intimacy at the end of the day.

STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!
Moonie makes me think of a hairy assed guy. NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!
alreet man, i actually thought that was your name til I read it again...
so answering to you question didn't help then? evil
(makes mental note to avoid)
Puts head above parapet & confesses to starting the Moonie thing :giveup:
STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!

However, must admit that saying the above is tantamount to saying "oh no, please don't cover me with whipped cream!" (Any excuse to reminisce.)
dunno
Yes well... smackbottom I got the flack for it!... hmmm wonders whether everyone's scared of you :scared:
Quote by jaymar
I think there's more chance of two single people falling for each other than people from couple relationships. As a single you meet, you have fun, you may have sex, and with that as single people there must come some emotions of fondness, possibly love for some. It's human nature.
If you are already in a relationship and you are all consenting you are already (for the majority) in love with your partner so this issue prob. doesn't arise.
So yes, Moonie I suppose there's a higher chance you could fall for your playmate, there is a strong bond of intimacy at the end of the day.

STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!
Moonie makes me think of a hairy assed guy. NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!
alreet man, i actually thought that was your name til I read it again...
so answering to you question didn't help then? evil
(makes mental note to avoid)
Puts head above parapet & confesses to starting the Moonie thing :giveup:
STOP CALLING ME "MOONIE"
FF sake call me Goddess!!!

However, must admit that saying the above is tantamount to saying "oh no, please don't cover me with whipped cream!" (Any excuse to reminisce.)
dunno
Yes well... smackbottom I got the flack for it!... hmmm wonders whether everyone's scared of you :scared:
confused She scares the pants off me!!! lol
Oh and no I hav'nt ever fallen for a playmate. I do get quite fond of them though redface
Hopefully :twisted:
>>>>Puffs out chest ready for door duty at Notts<<<<<
"If you're not on the list, you 'aint comin' in"
Quote by Bonedigger
....i have done the latter, made an arse of myself and moved on!! redface surprisedops: :oops: I think its one of the perils of swinging I think.

Isn't making an arse of oneself one of the perils of existence itself? dunno
Quote by winchwench
Hopefully :twisted:
>>>>Puffs out chest ready for door duty at Notts<<<<<
"If you're not on the list, you 'aint comin' in"

:scared:
Quote by Cherrytree
Hopefully :twisted:
>>>>Puffs out chest ready for door duty at Notts<<<<<
"If you're not on the list, you 'aint comin' in"

:scared:*dons invisibilty suit*