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Fantasies you have acted out and found them boring

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Have to admit once I have tried some of them.......... that’s it!!........ Been there done that!........... Once upon a time I use to love web camming............. I just find it bores me now ...........i use to love sex chat!........ Bores me now!..and a few other things!
So is there any of you out there that’s like me.......... acted them out and find some of them boring .........so you move on to the next one and find that boring too?
Or maybe some of your dare not act them out and why? ............is it because of the same reason that I have found?
Now Debs goes off and waits for your replies......... and scratches her head and thinks hard of a few more fantasizes to fulfill
i agree with debs here.
webcams and horny chat is a dead duck.
we are human beings and need a human being to be present.
I shagged a dead woman once and thought sod this it's much the same as being with my wife.
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I shagged a dead woman once and thought sod this it's much the same as being with my wife.

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
who would want to escape debs? surprised
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who would want to escape debs? surprised

ooo beleave you me there are a few!.........i to much for them.......... cannot handle a real women :twisted: :twisted:
We found web cams and chat boring too My fantasy is to be with another woman but im scared that when it happens if it happens it wont live up to my fantasy. So i think maybe id better just leave it as fantasy.
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who would want to escape debs? surprised

ooo beleave you me there are a few!.........i to much for them.......... cannot handle a real women :twisted: :twisted:
yeah yeah yeah...blah blah blah...come ere! hump
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We found web cams and chat boring too My fantasy is to be with another woman but im scared that when it happens if it happens it wont live up to my fantasy. So i think maybe id better just leave it as fantasy.

well if ya misses is ok with that try it............what harm can it come to dunno
Yeah, I'm like you Debs. I've never been into camming, but I've gone mad on other types of thing for a while and found them a huge buzz, but then that particular thing has got boring and I've moved on to other things ----- I think it's pretty normal really, especially if you've a short concentration span like me.
The upshot is, if it's boring, look for bigger and better lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
:mrgreen:
think he was she???
maybe im wrong ????
would be the first time lol
xx lou xxxx
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who would want to escape debs? surprised

ooo beleave you me there are a few!.........i to much for them.......... cannot handle a real women :twisted: :twisted:
yeah yeah yeah...blah blah blah...come ere! hump
ooo errrr Dave i see you've eaten some pineapple!.. biggrin ........so does that mean i am to a promise monday! wink
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Yeah, I'm like you Debs. I've never been into camming, but I've gone mad on other types of thing for a while and found them a huge buzz, but then that particular thing has got boring and I've moved on to other things ----- I think it's pretty normal really, especially if you've a short concentration span like me.
The upshot is, if it's boring, look for bigger and better lol :lol: :lol: :lol:

you no blue i am getting worried about you!..........as you think your like me! :eeek:
poor bugger you! biggrin
But i have had bigger.......... but i am only small and cannot fit them in!..have to get me bi fem to take over when i am in a club!...and thats the truth!....you see when i had me first kid at 10 and half pounds they had to stich me after.......... bloody stiched me to well i can tell you :eeek:
I've had loads of fantasies, but the main reason why I haven't acted some of them out is because they're fantasies. Many times I've imagined my ex-girlfriend with another bloke, but with deeper thought realised it might not be what I would want to happen.
There are loads which will remain fantasies, and then there are plenty more which I'd love to try out. That's why I'm here really :twisted: biggrin
Reminds me of a saying that says you should never meet your heroes as they'll only disappoint in reality.
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Reminds me of a saying that says you should never meet your heroes as they'll only disappoint in reality.

but i would rather die saying well i have done that! biggrin been there got the t shirt! :D
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Reminds me of a saying that says you should never meet your heroes as they'll only disappoint in reality.

but i would rather die saying well i have done that! biggrin been there got the t shirt! :D
Debs,
Doesn't mean I won't keep trying.
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Reminds me of a saying that says you should never meet your heroes as they'll only disappoint in reality.

but i would rather die saying well i have done that! biggrin been there got the t shirt! :D
Debs,
Doesn't mean I won't keep trying.
phew got me a sweat then :D
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phew got me a sweat then biggrin

Is that a good or a bad thing?Am I in trouble and will I have to pay for that?
Mibbee another fantasy coming on. :twisted:
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you see when i had me first kid at 10 and half

:shock:
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pounds..

phew. lol
Won't ever happen. I have no intention of ever acting out my fantasies. They will remain as fantasies.
There are things I haven't done but want to do, but they're not fantasies, they're ambitions. :twisted:
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I think it's pretty normal really, especially if you've a short concentration span like me.

I have a very short concentration span and i become bored with anything predictable, this applies to all aspects of my life, not just swinging.
This is one of the reasons i dont do arranged meets, probably because i am a very unpredictable swinger.
I dont like web cam and phone sex bolt and i am bored of pretend bi women (wasting my time mad )
So at the moment i am ........... spending my time on as many highly sexed men who want to enjoy uncomplicated and adventurous sex wink
One of the most important part of my swinging lifestyle, is for me to be spontaneous.
This keeps things exciting and alive for us both :bounce:
I am in a stable and loving relationship, my partner has never put any restrictions or constraints on my swinging fun.
The best part of all this, is the fact that as a couple we both have total freedom to discuss, suggest and explore all our sexual fantasies together.
H, red
Do you mean pretend bi-women, as in a man pretending to be one; or as a woman who wants to see if she might like it or does it because it's the thing to do?
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Do you mean pretend bi-women, as in a man pretending to be one; or as a woman who wants to see if she might like it or does it because it's the thing to do?

Both really mad
I have to agree a few years ago when i fist got a web cam i loved it, was always on the cam sites looking for guys, but men have no imagination, they all asked you to do the same thing over and over and i quickly got bored with it, i have never been into cyber to be honest, had a go at phone but i was crap so soon gave that up as a bad job :lol2:
Another thing i was dissopointed at was mmf 3sums, i though they would be great but no! you just have 2 guys slapping u in the face with their cocks instead of one :lol2: now 2 bi men is another story :twisted:
But nope 3sum with 2 str8 guys = boring dunno
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I have to agree a few years ago when i fist got a web cam i loved it, was always on the cam sites looking for guys, but men have no imagination, they all asked you to do the same thing over and over and i quickly got bored with it, i have never been into cyber to be honest, had a go at phone but i was crap so soon gave that up as a bad job :lol2:
Another thing i was dissopointed at was mmf 3sums, i though they would be great but no! you just have 2 guys slapping u in the face with their cocks instead of one :lol2: now 2 bi men is another story :twisted:
But nope 3sum with 2 str8 guys = boring dunno

Right,,,going to go change my add,,,,,,looking for a girl, who doesnt mind dressing up in ski goggles, with 70's afro and tye dye t-shirt for cam giggles :P
And agree,,,,cam lasted about a month, and same with the other online thingies :shock:
need to get some more ideas out on paper and think them through soon :twisted:
Fantasies very rarely live up to expectation if you actually play them out .....sharing fantasies and the acting them out almost inevitably leads to dissapointment cos if the fun doesnt go exactly as you imagine in your head, it kinda ruins the fantasy altogether too! :cry:
you know, that particular thought or scenario that runs through your head and gets you tipping over the edge over and over again, :twisted: or enables the most mind-blowingly brilliant orgasm ever :twisted: - and it all gets shot to pieces cos in 'real life' it just doesnt happen that way??? rolleyes bah humbug to playing out fantasies lol :kick:
or maybe its that the stuff that goes off inside my head is just soooo way off base ......... loon redface
i always wanted to have sex in a freezer !!!!!
the supermarket manager threw us out though
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Do you mean pretend bi-women, as in a man pretending to be one; or as a woman who wants to see if she might like it or does it because it's the thing to do?

Both really mad
I get abit peeved at the latter. You can always tell if someone's heart isn't in it.