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fast approach vs slow approach

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whats your bag?
are you the type of person/couple who likes to chat/meet/msn and get to know a person first?
or
are you a turn up fuck and fuck off kinda person?
(sry if this is mentioned somewhere else)
You ask alot of questions dont you?
I only ask five hehe
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I only ask five hehe

Is there a form to fill in???
no but ill pm them you if ya like redface
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Is there a form to fill in???

ohhhhhhhh yes. lol
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no but ill pm them you if ya like redface

and you told me them Debz ..........you will blush lol
I think the answer has to be both after all variety is the spice of life. biggrin
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no but ill pm them you if ya like redface

With an avatar like yours , you can pm me what you want!!
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no but ill pm them you if ya like redface

and you told me them Debz ..........you will blush lol .
dont be a grass lol
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I think the answer has to be both after all variety is the spice of life. biggrin

Sooooo right !!! time and a place for every tactic
i have to agree with the general consensus, it all depends on the situation, i meet plenty of people in clubs, and most of the time it's one off's, unless it's a pre-arranged meeting.
but there are others who i have met after chatting with on msn, text, and via e-mail, with whom i have built up a friendship with, and have become regular "partners" with.
i suppose what i am saying is that i'm easy..(make of this what you will wink ) and i generally go with the flow.
Slow slow quick quick slow for me hump
yeah i agree depends on the situation, in clubs i find people tend to just have sex, most of the time i don't even know the names of the people i have sex with, well your not going 2 stop and ask in the middle of a pile up are you?
On more private meets i like to get to know people first
I think its a case of either knowing nothing about them or liking them, i couldn't play with someone i didn't get on with, but in a group situation where u don't know the people, ie at club, u don't know if you like them or not do you, am i making any sence here?
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I think its a case of either knowing nothing about them or liking them, i couldn't play with someone i didn't get on with, but in a group situation where u don't know the people, ie at club, u don't know if you like them or not do you, am i making any sence here?

:thumbup: makes perfect sense to me NN
:shock: OMG that's actually quite scary! :shock:
Meeting someone new off the internet is'nt much different to meeting someone new in a pub or club apart from you dont get the initial body language or gut reaction what youy get in meeting someone in the flesh. fast or slow is upto the individual i think.
Each to there own...personally like to chat first via mail, MSN or phone until comfortable then go in for the kill.....mind you if a lady just wanted to shag then who am i to argue!! :P
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Each to there own...personally like to chat first via mail, MSN or phone until comfortable then go in for the kill.....mind you if a lady just wanted to shag then who am i to argue!! :P

oh dear your names got my mind working in over time lol
very interesting wink
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Each to there own...personally like to chat first via mail, MSN or phone until comfortable then go in for the kill.....mind you if a lady just wanted to shag then who am i to argue!! :P

oh dear your names got my mind working in over time lol
very interesting wink

calm down.... :lol:
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Each to there own...personally like to chat first via mail, MSN or phone until comfortable then go in for the kill.....mind you if a lady just wanted to shag then who am i to argue!! :P

oh dear your names got my mind working in over time lol
very interesting wink

calm down.... :lol:
do u need 2 men to do that then or do u..........oh dear having hot sweats now redface surprisedops:
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Each to there own...personally like to chat first via mail, MSN or phone until comfortable then go in for the kill.....mind you if a lady just wanted to shag then who am i to argue!! :P

oh dear your names got my mind working in over time lol
very interesting wink

calm down.... :lol:
do u need 2 men to do that then or do u..........oh dear having hot sweats now redface surprisedops:
quick, somebody get round to naughty's...sounds like she needs help :twisted: