Hi to anyone who cares to read this
I’m sorry to put a dampener on the site. I’m not a saddo, I’m not a fucking weirdo but why is my world falling in on me. I know this post should be on the Samaritans or something like that but I’ve become quite attached to some of the names and people who I speak to on here, they’re friendly welcoming and don’t judge you I know everyone’s got problems but mine are getting me well down my ex-wife stopped me seeing my beautiful daughter, I split up with my partner a couple of months ago with whom I’m still in love with, work is depressing and the people who I hang around with seem superficial am I depressed? Too fucking right I am I apologise for my language but I feel this is the only place I can let a little frustration out I’m not a bad person I just fuck things up for myself and no I don’t feel sorry for myself I know I’ve only got myself to blame……… fucking BOL-- LOCKS please feel free to have a dig at me for being a tosser……
Ps sorry for depressing rant
Yours truly, DJ
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Sh1t happens mate, but it's how you cope with it that matters.
If it helps, I've been where you are and now I'm back on top again. It just takes a bit of stamina. Like the song says:
"The Only Way Is Up"
and remember what the old Romans used to say:
"Illegitimus non tatum carborundum"
Or, as they once said in Pompeii:
"Oh Shit!"
If it helps, I've been where you are and now I'm back on top again. It just takes a bit of stamina. Like the song says:
"The Only Way Is Up"
and remember what the old Romans used to say:
"Illegitimus non tatum carborundum"
Or, as they once said in Pompeii:
"Oh Shit!"
Sex God
Aw..... feel free to rant away, it's kind of nice that you (as a newbie) feels comfortable enough on here to do this sort of post.
There's been a few people this week who've expressed their feelngs on the cafe and the support has been nice.
It's horrid you can't see your daughter any more :(
Not sure what else to say, but I'm sure there are others on here that will identify with your situation :(
I think everyone on here has had a rant sometimes and the only advice Ive ever seen on here are messages of support and people who basically at least care enough to think about posting something nice/thoughtful to try and help make the other person a bit better!!
Life is shit, last year was the shittest time I have had for such a long long time but have now over the past few months felt much much better!!
Only thing I can say is "chin up" it can only get better and if it does get worse then again it can only get better from there. It is hard when youre having bad times and feel like shit its amazing how much our emotions can makes us feel ill and horrible then at other times feel so amazing.
Hope things get better for you soon! ;) X
Life is shit, last year was the shittest time I have had for such a long long time but have now over the past few months felt much much better!!
Only thing I can say is "chin up" it can only get better and if it does get worse then again it can only get better from there. It is hard when youre having bad times and feel like shit its amazing how much our emotions can makes us feel ill and horrible then at other times feel so amazing.
Hope things get better for you soon! ;) X
Quote by djswinger
...........my ex-wife stopped me seeing my beautiful daughter........
Been there done that and you have my sympathies. My ex wife used our daughter as a weapon against me for years. Fight it people said so I tried but it didn't work. It's a long story that involves judges, social workers, legal expenses and the CSA but in the end I had to give up, I just couldn't afford the fight. I'm sure I was married to the wicked witch of the South.
I can only recommend that you do whatever you can to have an amicable relationship with your ex where your daughter is concerned. My daughter is 18 now so she can choose who she wants to see and I now have a relationship with her but there's a huge hole in what it should be.
My apologies if I've just made that cloud above your head look blacker but it's a very emotive subject. All I can recommend is that you try to be as reasonable as possible and hope that your ex-wife will do the same.
Steve
Im sorry to hear about your problems. I Hope you both can come to some agreement where you can see your daughter.
I find it so sad that people use their children in this way at times. I can understand the hurt, anger and emotions of why it happens......its not always the best solution for the children though.
I lost contact with my children for a year..... due to something similar (long painful story). Yes, I suffered and hurt a lot....but, it was my children that it had the lasting impact on. We as *adults* have a lot to answer for at times.....
Hope you feel better for the rant an knowing that others understand the hurt your going through.
xanaisx
I find it so sad that people use their children in this way at times. I can understand the hurt, anger and emotions of why it happens......its not always the best solution for the children though.
I lost contact with my children for a year..... due to something similar (long painful story). Yes, I suffered and hurt a lot....but, it was my children that it had the lasting impact on. We as *adults* have a lot to answer for at times.....
Hope you feel better for the rant an knowing that others understand the hurt your going through.
xanaisx
Hi we are new to the site....sorry to hear you are having a tough time.....my mate was in a similar poaition and he just kept on fighting to see his child his ex gave up in the end and he now has full access to his son......when he could not see him he wrote letters which he kept and will give him when he is older...you could try for some advice from CAB or CAFCAS (which I think is based in 31 Albert Road)
Orgasminator
I have an ex and two daughters but i can see them when ever i want, its been difficult for me and i can sympathise with you. I hope it all works out in the end.
after seeing everyone whos posted, in a way I feel like I have nothing to say, but although the years I have spent on this earth may be fewer than most of you guys, my trials and experiences have been plenty, and the thing I always say to myself, well two things really, first is that What dont kill ya makes you stronger, simple I know, but true enough, and the second thing is just something I always just remember when feeling down, no matter what it is that happened to make me sad, vexed or blue, it isnt a shade on the poor little african girl who had her village pillaged, got and watched her parents killed in front of her, and then still has to get on with her life to raise her two younger orphaned siblings.
Maybe, that was a little strong, but theres no denying that every day theres a situation like that, somewhere else, which to me is a real reality check, and makes me remember my life aint that bad.
Maybe, that was a little strong, but theres no denying that every day theres a situation like that, somewhere else, which to me is a real reality check, and makes me remember my life aint that bad.
Hey djswinger,Dont worry about ranting on here.I've done much the same in the last couple of weeks,my life has taken a violent downward turn and I am just about functioning as a person,just,so I have an inkling of what your going site and some of the people on here have been a ifesaver for just keep talking you will always get a positive response.
Hope you feel better soon mate.
Hope you feel better soon mate.
