This really is an excellent string of messages.
The interesting thing I've noticed is that, as Heather said, women talk to each other on here and exchange ideas on guys and couples etc. They find out quickly who are the pests and the timewasters and tend to know the score. Guys never ever do that. This is I think the first time I've seen some frank messages from guys who are sharing their experiences. Apart from the odd, awkward conversation in a club or at a gangbang, blokes tend to feel that it is not normal to share experiences of swinging.
Maybe that's where people go wrong. Newcomers do not know what to expect and sending out what does amout to spam, is their way of desperately trying to get noticed.
I've been on the scence for a few years now (although maintaining my youthful exuberance!) and in my experience the best way to meet nice genuine people is to A) be yourself, be totally honest and down to earth, and B) stand out from the crowd. The second one is surprisingly easy because if you are polite, genuine and respectful you tend to get noticed easily because you are standing out from the crowd of nuisences. There really is a small percentage of guys with a sensible, patient approach to the scene.
So my advise to other guys is to just slow down, be honest, read things properly, choose your females/couples carefully, be considerate and you will have a lot of fun.
My advise to females or couples looking for a straightforward young man is simply to get in touch with me!
Be good everyone!
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) - amd oooohhh, please share - I promise to be very nice to Kat in future!!!! 
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