why is it that when you send messages to other members on here even they cant reply to you surely its not that difficult to say yes or no is it come on folks lets try to all get on and have fun no one minds even if its just to say no thanks this is just not on the photo ads its from forum members as well
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Quote by lipsucker
why is it that when you send messages to other members on here even they cant reply to you surely its not that difficult to say yes or no is it come on folks lets try to all get on and have fun no one minds even if its just to say no thanks this is just not on the photo ads its from forum members as well
As said in so many other threads, some people get so may messages that they dont have the time to reply to each and every one. if i pm someone i like to write a bit more than thanks or no thanks otherwise that feels rude. If i dont get a reply from someone i just think oh well nevermind and carry on. Why would you let it affect you to the point where you feel you have to post it here. Why is there such a hang up lately about forum "members". Every single person whos joined to this site could be a forum member, but because some people choose not to, the ones that do get constant critisism. If people dont reply to you, then forget about them and just get to know the ones that do reply. I hope that you can overcome this problem and still have fun.
Louise xx
Based on posts I've seen here - it seems some people have had abuse when they have replied with 'no thanks'. Also some feel that the person posting hasn't even read their profile (i.e. male sending posts to a gay female).
It's easy for me to reply to everything I get as I get hardly anything - but if I had 10 mails to reply to everyday and if a small number abused me when I did reply or a small percentage clearly hadn't read my profile then I too would stop replying to all of them.
It's easy for me to reply to everything I get as I get hardly anything - but if I had 10 mails to reply to everyday and if a small number abused me when I did reply or a small percentage clearly hadn't read my profile then I too would stop replying to all of them.
Quote by lipsucker
why is it that when you send messages to other members on here even they cant reply to you surely its not that difficult to say yes or no is it come on folks lets try to all get on and have fun no one minds even if its just to say no thanks this is just not on the photo ads its from forum members as well
why do you need a reply saying no
if you don't get a reply it's obvious that the answer is 'No'
what i can't understand is so many post's on here are about not getting a reply
you're obviously not asking how they are,or trying to strike up some meaningfull conversation and if you are i apoligise in advance,but you're probably trying to get a shag like a lot of us on here.
note i've even included us in that statement because sometime's, we're also looking for a shag(ladies and cpls please take note
) we have sent pm's and not had replies, we just fucking get over it with out whinging
if you are so desperate for a pm,why don't you get yourself a penpal
fil
Quote by 36openminded
Based on posts I've seen here - it seems some people have had abuse when they have replied with 'no thanks'. Also some feel that the person posting hasn't even read their profile (i.e. male sending posts to a gay female).
It's easy for me to reply to everything I get as I get hardly anything - but if I had 10 mails to reply to everyday and if a small number abused me when I did reply or a small percentage clearly hadn't read my profile then I too would stop replying to all of them.
I agree with above except the numbers received is in the 100s not 10s. If you send 1 Minute answering each of 100 PMs you would be there for 100 mins which is 1 hour and 40 mins. I guess a no reply is no thanks. If you send PMs you have to be philosophical about the chances of getting a reply
Quote by lipsucker
why is it that when you send messages to other members on here even they cant reply to you surely its not that difficult to say yes or no is it come on folks lets try to all get on and have fun no one minds even if its just to say no thanks this is just not on the photo ads its from forum members as well
Well it depends on why your sending them a pm in the first place, If its just because you liked their profile and thought you'd chance your luck, then that kinda gives you your answer, on the other hand if someone has an ad posted whether they be a couple or single and you fit their requirements and are everything they are looking for. so you then take the time to write them a nice detailed pm about yourself then get no response then yes i tottaly agree it's rude, they should take the time to reply to the said pm, although from experience 50% don't read the ads or profile fully and decide to send a pm anyway as an example a couple might be looking for a bi male in their add and their straight but send a pm "just in case" or they might be looking for someone aged between 25 to 45 and they might be 57 and send a pm "just in case" so to be honest in these cases people should and have a right to ignore them because if they aren't what the person/s are looking for then why send pm's in the first place. then the same people come on here and moan about it. and lipsucker this reply isn't aimed at you its just a general reply to these type of posts :P
Just to add a little perspective, I'm a 'single female' on here and guess what??
Sometimes I get no reply at all, sometimes I get told thanks but no thanks, sometimes I come into contact with timewasters. Last week I got told "Thanks but I'm looking for someone nearer my own age". AND I read profiles very carefully, taking my time to write relevant messages etc etc etc.
In edit: I just read my post back and it sounded like I was agreeing with the original poster - quite the opposite.
Feeling sorry for ones self is not an attractive quality in anyone.
Im very humble opinion the differences between single males who do get on and do get meets and the single men who don't are:
Attitude
Expectation
Effort
Being able to take a knock or two.
Sometimes I get no reply at all, sometimes I get told thanks but no thanks, sometimes I come into contact with timewasters. Last week I got told "Thanks but I'm looking for someone nearer my own age". AND I read profiles very carefully, taking my time to write relevant messages etc etc etc.
In edit: I just read my post back and it sounded like I was agreeing with the original poster - quite the opposite.
Feeling sorry for ones self is not an attractive quality in anyone.
Im very humble opinion the differences between single males who do get on and do get meets and the single men who don't are:
Attitude
Expectation
Effort
Being able to take a knock or two.
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What is it with the negative waves man?
Theres been a few negative posts recently hasn't there?
Have to be honest, why does anyone think that joining a swinging site entitles them to anything?
If people dont reply to messages, that probably means its a no! Thats how we look at it anyway.
Our profile for example, says no single guys clearly, also has the usual line about winks, we read profiles thouroughly, we dont send messages to people who's criteria we dont fit and we sure as hell dont send winks, therefore any message we do send is handwritten and not sent on an off chance that someone, despite saying they dont want people like us, just this once may change their minds and you know what? We still get no response at times...but so what? Obviously the people we sent the message to dont want to know us, or are busy, or are taking a break, or are looking for something other than stated on their profile, any of which is ok with us. Were not gonna sulk about it, but one thing we will do is send more messages to people we like the look of.
We still get messages from people we ask not to, fine they can waste as much of their time as they want, dont expect us to do the same though. We cant make it any clearer than that. A little thought put into a message goes a loooooong way, but ill ask again, why should we take the time to respond to messages we dont solicit, from people we will never want to play with, just to make them feel better?
Rant over.............
:giveup:
What is it with the negative waves man?
Theres been a few negative posts recently hasn't there?
Have to be honest, why does anyone think that joining a swinging site entitles them to anything?
If people dont reply to messages, that probably means its a no! Thats how we look at it anyway.
Our profile for example, says no single guys clearly, also has the usual line about winks, we read profiles thouroughly, we dont send messages to people who's criteria we dont fit and we sure as hell dont send winks, therefore any message we do send is handwritten and not sent on an off chance that someone, despite saying they dont want people like us, just this once may change their minds and you know what? We still get no response at times...but so what? Obviously the people we sent the message to dont want to know us, or are busy, or are taking a break, or are looking for something other than stated on their profile, any of which is ok with us. Were not gonna sulk about it, but one thing we will do is send more messages to people we like the look of.
We still get messages from people we ask not to, fine they can waste as much of their time as they want, dont expect us to do the same though. We cant make it any clearer than that. A little thought put into a message goes a loooooong way, but ill ask again, why should we take the time to respond to messages we dont solicit, from people we will never want to play with, just to make them feel better?
Rant over.............
:giveup:
Orgasminator
dont know about not getting reply,s but hate it when we get a mail from some one saying like your add ect ect..........and we take the time to reply saying yes your add is really nice aswell ....................only to get ignored.....what the fook lol
Quote by 36openminded
Based on posts I've seen here - it seems some people have had abuse when they have replied with 'no thanks'. Also some feel that the person posting hasn't even read their profile (i.e. male sending posts to a gay female).
It's easy for me to reply to everything I get as I get hardly anything - but if I had 10 mails to reply to everyday and if a small number abused me when I did reply or a small percentage clearly hadn't read my profile then I too would stop replying to all of them.
:thumbup:
Spot on. Except for some of the females get more than 100 a day :shock:
Orgasminator
Well I've sent dozens of PM's to couples & ladies whose ads I have carefully read to ensure I might be what they're looking for. Only to be given a great big, fat nothing in return. :cry:
But so what?
They're obviously busy people with better things to do than write back saying "Piss off you ugly git" to the likes of me. :upset:
I'll get over the humiliation of rejection and the over-whelming loss of self-confidence & self-esteem eventually. :violin:
And when my oh-so fragile ego is suitably bolstered to allow me another attempt at winning the affections of another fun-seeking partner I'll be back compiling another witty & entertaining PM for someone to ignore!!! :notes:
In the meantime could someone pour me another hefty JD & ice and keep me amused with some outrageous flirting & gratuitous sexual innuendos please. :cheers: :thumbup:
I think it's only this that's keeping me sane!!! :crazy:
But so what?
They're obviously busy people with better things to do than write back saying "Piss off you ugly git" to the likes of me. :upset:
I'll get over the humiliation of rejection and the over-whelming loss of self-confidence & self-esteem eventually. :violin:
And when my oh-so fragile ego is suitably bolstered to allow me another attempt at winning the affections of another fun-seeking partner I'll be back compiling another witty & entertaining PM for someone to ignore!!! :notes:
In the meantime could someone pour me another hefty JD & ice and keep me amused with some outrageous flirting & gratuitous sexual innuendos please. :cheers: :thumbup:
I think it's only this that's keeping me sane!!! :crazy:
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far 
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
Must admit that I haven't answered any pm's lately .... but then I have stated in my profile and my signature that we aren't looking for anybody right now. If people can't read then I'm not going to reply
If people don't take the time to read and see if they match, then they can hardly complain about people not reading/replying to their pm.
Cx
If people don't take the time to read and see if they match, then they can hardly complain about people not reading/replying to their pm.
Cx
Orgasminator
Quote by T_cra
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
:doh: So it's just me then!!!
:cry: :cry: :cry:
I'll just sit in this corner and let you lot get on with it then.
Just ignore me :upset: I'll be OK :upset:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :thumbup: T_cra and happy
:cheers:
Sex God
Quote by Calista
Must admit that I haven't answered any pm's lately ....
Cx
That's only cos I've not sent you any :P
Quote by T_crahey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Quote by T_crahey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Quote by lipsuckerhey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Common decency doesnt come into it and yes you are asking too much. So is someone puts an advert in and recieves 100 replys per day as some of the ladies do get, are you suggesting that they have to reply to each and every one. Its nearly impossible for people to find the time to do that. ok if only a couple of replies are gained and they have read you requirements and fit the bill but you still dont want them then maybe you should reply to them, but most people recieve far too many to do be able to reply to them all.
Louise xx
Quote by lipsuckerhey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
And all I as a female is asking for is for people to READ MY PROFILE PROPERLY.
As has already been stated by several people, if a guy can't be bothered to do any more than look at the pics, and can't be bothered to read the text to find out what I am actually interested in, why the Hell should I bother to reply?
Quote by louise_and_joehey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Common decency doesnt come into it and yes you are asking too much. So is someone puts an advert in and recieves 100 replys per day as some of the ladies do get, are you suggesting that they have to reply to each and every one. Its nearly impossible for people to find the time to do that. ok if only a couple of replies are gained and they have read you requirements and fit the bill but you still dont want them then maybe you should reply to them, but most people recieve far too many to do be able to reply to them all.
Louise xx
if your so busy and that popular then how come your on here so much as said decentcy deserves an answer or in this case obviously not
Quote by louise_and_joehey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Common decency doesnt come into it and yes you are asking too much. So is someone puts an advert in and recieves 100 replys per day as some of the ladies do get, are you suggesting that they have to reply to each and every one. Its nearly impossible for people to find the time to do that. ok if only a couple of replies are gained and they have read you requirements and fit the bill but you still dont want them then maybe you should reply to them, but most people recieve far too many to do be able to reply to them all.
Louise xx
if your so busy and that popular then how come your on here so much as said decentcy deserves an answer or in this case obviously not
Quote by lipsuckerhey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Common decency doesnt come into it and yes you are asking too much. So is someone puts an advert in and recieves 100 replys per day as some of the ladies do get, are you suggesting that they have to reply to each and every one. Its nearly impossible for people to find the time to do that. ok if only a couple of replies are gained and they have read you requirements and fit the bill but you still dont want them then maybe you should reply to them, but most people recieve far too many to do be able to reply to them all.
Louise xx
if your so busy and that popular then how come your on here so much as said decentcy deserves an answer or in this case obviously not
What the hell is your problem. I didnt say that im so busy or that i get hundreds of replies i said that some people do and i certainly do not claim to be popular. I gave an honest answer and all i get is some twat who twist everything that i say, havent you got anything better to do. Btw its none of you bloody business how long or when im on here.
Louise
Quote by lipsuckerhey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Common decency doesnt come into it and yes you are asking too much. So is someone puts an advert in and recieves 100 replys per day as some of the ladies do get, are you suggesting that they have to reply to each and every one. Its nearly impossible for people to find the time to do that. ok if only a couple of replies are gained and they have read you requirements and fit the bill but you still dont want them then maybe you should reply to them, but most people recieve far too many to do be able to reply to them all.
Louise xx
if your so busy and that popular then how come your on here so much as said decentcy deserves an answer or in this case obviously not
Sorry, Lipsucker, but just who the hell are you to query how much time someone chooses to spend on here?
You're obviously just feeling hard done by because you haven't had your quick shag yet.
Well, I've got news for you. With an attitude like yours you're unlikely to get one either.
You single guys can be a fucking nightmare. You seem to assume that all you've got to do is PM someone and they will be so desperate for your wonderful cock that they'll throw themselves at your feet. Wake up....................you are one of thousands...............accept that, change your attitude, change your approach and you might just luck out.
Sex God
Lipsucker, i've just had a look at your previous posts and most of them come across as negative or just plain rude. if your ad replies are similar to your posts this might explain the lack of replies
Sex God
Quote by Lissa
Sorry, Lipsucker, but just who the hell are you to query how much time someone chooses to spend on here?
You're obviously just feeling hard done by because you haven't had your quick shag yet.
Well, I've got news for you. With an attitude like yours you're unlikely to get one either.
You single guys can be a fucking nightmare. You seem to assume that all you've got to do is PM someone and they will be so desperate for your wonderful cock that they'll throw themselves at your feet. Wake up....................you are one of thousands...............accept that, change your attitude, change your approach and you might just luck out.
errr!
so it dont work like that then :doh: ( new i was doin somethin wrong )
Quote by Lissahey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Common decency doesnt come into it and yes you are asking too much. So is someone puts an advert in and recieves 100 replys per day as some of the ladies do get, are you suggesting that they have to reply to each and every one. Its nearly impossible for people to find the time to do that. ok if only a couple of replies are gained and they have read you requirements and fit the bill but you still dont want them then maybe you should reply to them, but most people recieve far too many to do be able to reply to them all.
Louise xx
if your so busy and that popular then how come your on here so much as said decentcy deserves an answer or in this case obviously not
Sorry, Lipsucker, but just who the hell are you to query how much time someone chooses to spend on here?
You're obviously just feeling hard done by because you haven't had your quick shag yet.
Well, I've got news for you. With an attitude like yours you're unlikely to get one either.
You single guys can be a fucking nightmare. You seem to assume that all you've got to do is PM someone and they will be so desperate for your wonderful cock that they'll throw themselves at your feet. Wake up....................you are one of thousands...............accept that, change your attitude, change your approach and you might just luck out.
hi firstly i am not a single guy we are a couple and for your information we have had and still do get regular meets sorry to dissapoint you this is gone far enough now so wont bother with any more replys to you obviously this forum seems to run by certain members or are they all mods do you remember it said when people join that it was a decent thing to do to reply ask the proper mods if you are uncertain now get lost
Quote by Lissahey all we are asking is for a bit of common decenty to answer peoples replys
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice
Stay safe & have Fun
T
but then i guess its asking a bit much
Common decency doesnt come into it and yes you are asking too much. So is someone puts an advert in and recieves 100 replys per day as some of the ladies do get, are you suggesting that they have to reply to each and every one. Its nearly impossible for people to find the time to do that. ok if only a couple of replies are gained and they have read you requirements and fit the bill but you still dont want them then maybe you should reply to them, but most people recieve far too many to do be able to reply to them all.
Louise xx
if your so busy and that popular then how come your on here so much as said decentcy deserves an answer or in this case obviously not
Sorry, Lipsucker, but just who the hell are you to query how much time someone chooses to spend on here?
You're obviously just feeling hard done by because you haven't had your quick shag yet.
Well, I've got news for you. With an attitude like yours you're unlikely to get one either.
You single guys can be a fucking nightmare. You seem to assume that all you've got to do is PM someone and they will be so desperate for your wonderful cock that they'll throw themselves at your feet. Wake up....................you are one of thousands...............accept that, change your attitude, change your approach and you might just luck out.
hi firstly i am not a single guy we are a couple and for your information we have had and still do get regular meets sorry to dissapoint you this is gone far enough now so wont bother with any more replys to you obviously this forum seems to run by certain members or are they all mods do you remember it said when people join that it was a decent thing to do to reply ask the proper mods if you are uncertain now get lost
Sex God
Quote by sercher01
Sorry, Lipsucker, but just who the hell are you to query how much time someone chooses to spend on here?
You're obviously just feeling hard done by because you haven't had your quick shag yet.
Well, I've got news for you. With an attitude like yours you're unlikely to get one either.
You single guys can be a fucking nightmare. You seem to assume that all you've got to do is PM someone and they will be so desperate for your wonderful cock that they'll throw themselves at your feet. Wake up....................you are one of thousands...............accept that, change your attitude, change your approach and you might just luck out.
errr!
so it dont work like that then :doh: ( new i was doin somethin wrong )
You Pillock, i suggest you try reading this
