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Talking about smelly things (I believe the "smelly trainers" are one of the offshoots of the foot worship fetish - along with giantess-ism, where one of the ultimate goals is to be miniaturised and squashed under a lady's shoe) but the one I cant get my head around is the "farting fetish" - there are websites dedicated to all aspects of this.
But, as you say Varca, each to their own, it all makes the world a more interesting place.
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but the one I cant get my head around is the "farting fetish" - there are websites dedicated to all aspects of this.

I bet Dawnie is their goddess :giggle:
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Excellent topic Varca
I remember seeing a documentary a while ago about a guy who had a balloon fetish.
I know someone who had a FB who liked to make her wear a swimming cap & dunk her in the bath.
My weirdometer rated that 100% !
I however, have no fetishes at all. Apart from maybe the fantasy that I switch on my computer- and it works rolleyes
Disclaimer, winchy has just taken a nasty kick to the ribs, and as a consequence is pished.
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but the one I cant get my head around is the "farting fetish" - there are websites dedicated to all aspects of this.

I bet Dawnie is their goddess :giggle:
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Look, I farted once in public, admittedly it was a ripper but I was pissed and laughing, I couldn't help myself redface
Actually there was this time I farted on Shireen's bed surprisedops:
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shoes i have 93 pairs they have their own cupboard all in boxes with their pics on front
oh and recently noticed i have a handbag fetish too when i made them their own cupbaord and have over 5o handbags
redface
ok am going now
Ok i think you all know i like a certain style of ladies footwear but its not just that.
The footwear is in addition to other things she wears that make me go :twisted: and the thought of sex whilst she is still wearing them also :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Dont ask me for a deep explanation tho cos i dont know why i like it i just do lol
Anyway as much as i like the footwear i hate feet with a passion :lol:
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I have a very responsible role and sometimes it is nice to give that all up and be "in control of being out of control" I guess only fellow BDSM'ers will really understand smile

Perfectly! wink
however...... :uhoh: 'fetishes' on the whole to me do not. I just dont get it, any of it dunno Of course each to their own, but even after long interesting conversations with my mind wide open to various things with people who have one particular fetish or another (and sometimes being sat there a bit like this >>>> blink) I dont 'get' even the basic stuff like rubber, feet and worn knickers...and heavy fetish such as hoods/ masks and similar paraphanalia scares the living shit outta me lol
:shock:
My god I've led a sheltered life
<note to self ... DO RESEARCH ...>
<<< Strolls off wondering about all the possibilities he's missed................
innocent
Though i have things that turn my head or arouse me in some fashion, i dont feel i have any. I sort of wish i did it must be nice to be so focussed on something for gratificatiom pleasure.
I have a knicker fetish. NOOOOOOOO not that recently-banned panty room thing!!
I collect knickers - my own!! I'm obsessed with buying knickers. I have every colour and design imaginable from he skimpiest of be-jewwelled g-strings to frilly chiffon frenchies right up to WonderWoman girl boxers and polka dot Bridgets.
I love knickers!
Men have to wear nice undies too. I prefer the nicely fitted jockey-shorts type. (just for your reference!)
I enjoy a very broad spectrum of sexual shenanigans, but I wouldn't say that I have, or know of many people who have, a fetish for something. A fetish is generally considered a fixation with an inanimate object and something that you really can't get your rocks off without. (some people would also argue that this includes a fization with a body part.)
Ok maybe I have a woman fetish. lol
There are some things that just don't do anything for me at all, like rubber or feet (shoes are a different story!) but I know I'm into some things that others wouldn't really get a kick out of.
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and the thought of sex whilst she is still wearing them also :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

I always keep mine on :rascal:
pink x
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a fetish for something. A fetish is generally considered a fixation with an inanimate object and something that you really can't get your rocks off without.

Yep this is correct..
"The basic idea of sexual fetishism is sexual arousal and satisfaction through an inanimate object, the fetish. The concrete definitions are not only differing but even contradictory:
In psychology, fetishism is a paraphilia, a sexual psychological disorder"
I've just been looking at this as part of my 'disorder' assignment.
The only fetish I have is that of a certain body part of my other half! lol
maybe the way in which some may interpret the word fetish could be putting others off saying what may or may not turn them on?
in a broader church, fetish can mean virtually anything, be it an activity, or indeed an object/objectification which may be considered slightly (or grossly) out of the ordinary...
there are other fetish/bdsm/kink sites with a community base similar to this one, and even there, you may see long discussions over what is/isn't a fetish, and what indeed it actually means....
some of us >maybe myself included...maybe< might be affraid to mention a turn-on activity, for fear of it all being lumped together with the rubber gimp, shyte smeered urine-drinker.... know what I mean?
>and, errrm... no... I don't!< :shock:
and of course... an activity, for some of us, may depend on whom we're playing with, and indeed where we're playing...
fixation may not come into it.... just a bit of fun, at a certain time...
anyone for custard?
lp
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and the thought of sex whilst she is still wearing them also :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

I always keep mine on :rascal:
pink x
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Rubber has always been one that I couldn't understand. P'raps a certain RF could visit and explain it?
On the more general question I would say that a fetish is, by definition, not shared or understood by the majority - otherwise it would be mainstream sex.
I presume the myth of the teenage bicycle seat sniffer is a myth?? dunno lol
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I have a sort of fascination with the whole furry/plushy thing.
It intrigues me although I just can't see what the attraction is.
May be I need to go to a plushy party this year and find out...
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Anyway as much as i like the footwear i hate feet with a passion lol

Goose I'm with you on that one i just love to see a lady in a pair of CFM Boots but don't like the feet hate feet yuk.
I admit i do have some strange likes don't know if you would call them fetishes redface
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Anyway as much as i like the footwear i hate feet with a passion lol

Goose I'm with you on that one i just love to see a lady in a pair of CFM Boots but don't like the feet hate feet yuk.
I admit i do have some strange likes don't know if you would call them fetishes redface
Im with you i wouldnt call it a fetish as such more a liking but its a big liking :lol:
Quote by goose35

Anyway as much as i like the footwear i hate feet with a passion lol

Goose I'm with you on that one i just love to see a lady in a pair of CFM Boots but don't like the feet hate feet yuk.
I admit i do have some strange likes don't know if you would call them fetishes redface
Im with you i wouldnt call it a fetish as such more a liking but its a big liking :lol:
Yep and I'm sure i can pin point the reason why i like them too
I think hands can be sexy. Like a face they are exposed to life's demands, and they have experience written on them.
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I think hands can be sexy. Like a face they are exposed to life's demands, and they have experience written on them.

just Wow!
Earthy xx
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I can identify with those who enjoy the BDSM lifestyle, I have a facet of me that loves to indulge occasionally. I have a very responsible role and sometimes it is nice to give that all up and be "in control of being out of control" I guess only fellow BDSM'ers will really understand smile

totally understand that, Domination is about controlling the mind, rather than just spanking someone and calling them names IMO
as for fetish, i do like women in leather , preferably boots and gloves, also other garments, but the gloves have a certain erotic attraction for me
there is nothing like the smell, feel and look of leather
but PVC has its attraction too....
& Jelly
lp
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& Jelly
lp

What - together??? :shock: :giggle:
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Ive always had a thing for anal sex. Giving not taking lol. Does that count as a fetish? I dont know why I like it. Might be the catholic upbringing I guess or the fact that previous partners would only try it occasionally. Understandable. I know its not every ladies cup of tea. And yes I do have an inkling what it must feel like. I once had a colonic!
Friday x
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...struggle with understanding...

Personally I think those three words can be used by others to define what a fetish is!
at what stage does the fetish become a norm???
...is it when we no longer struggle with understanding?
leather & PVC was once considered a fetish
Can it still be now that is so mainstream fashion in the High St?
Hey we will never change... tastes come & go
There will always be some fetish or weird practice & goings on someone will never get their head around wink
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at what stage does the fetish become a norm???
...is it when we no longer struggle with understanding?

Once upon a time being homosexual was considered a fetish!
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at what stage does the fetish become a norm???
...is it when we no longer struggle with understanding?

Once upon a time being homosexual was considered a fetish!:giggle: so was shaggin a black guy!
A fetish will always be a fetish, by definition, however our use of the term in a broader sense changes it. For example if it was normal for everyone to use a pair of black high heels to get off with, it would be normal but it would still be a fetish because it's the use of an object. We use the word 'fetish' to describe something unnusual even though that's not what the word actually means. Did any of that make sense?
H.x