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Quote by Argt05
How about..... Hi, wanna meet today! will suck, wank and love swallowing. let me know(insert mobile)
FFS, do i look like a fucking man whore!!
Just call me Mr Bigalo.... :cry:
shit... i don't do i? please tell me i dont.
Personally, i think its the butt pics that are doing it for em :grin:
Quote by Juniper_couple
How about..... Hi, wanna meet today! will suck, wank and love swallowing. let me know(insert mobile)
FFS, do i look like a fucking man whore!!
Just call me Mr Bigalo.... :cry:
shit... i don't do i? please tell me i dont.
Personally, i think its the butt pics that are doing it for em :grin:
That's them gone then
i like my bum tho
probably nicest asset i got! i think, well apart from my lovely personality. hmmm scratch that
its just me bum!
Sex God
I can understand that people ignore a message from a single guy when thier profile clearly states that they arent looking for single guy but it really pisses me off when i get no reply back (or the message doesnt even get read) when there is nothing on their profile that states what they are looking for. we arent all mind readers so at least have the common courtesy to reply even if its just a short *no thanks* it takes a matter of seconds to write that message.
Quote by Drewxcore
I can understand that people ignore a message from a single guy when thier profile clearly states that they arent looking for single guy but it really pisses me off when i get no reply back (or the message doesnt even get read) when there is nothing on their profile that states what they are looking for. we arent all mind readers so at least have the common courtesy to reply even if its just a short *no thanks* it takes a matter of seconds to write that message.
And times those few seconds byt 50 100? 200? 500? Depending on how often the person logs in.
Also a lot of people see it as an 'in' in my experience and you end up replying to your polite reply.
I can see how that would be annoying when you've gone to the effort to send something a bit more original than a wink. A 'thanks but no thanks would be nice'. I guess that people feel empowered on here to ignore you as it's annonymous and others just don't have any empathy or are embarrassed to say 'no'.
It's on our profile that we'd at least say 'no' if we're not interested. If someone has gone to the effort of writing a genuine enquiry (and I mean genuine), then it's the least we can do to reply. Winks are ignored though.
With single guys, it's easy to stereotype them all, i've seen that a lot in the chat rooms. Some are really in-your-face but equally, i've made some nice male friends on here that whilst aware that I don't play apart from Mr TN, have still given me advice and had a good gossip.
It's on our profile that we'd at least say 'no' if we're not interested. If someone has gone to the effort of writing a genuine enquiry (and I mean genuine), then it's the least we can do to reply. Winks are ignored though.
With single guys, it's easy to stereotype them all, i've seen that a lot in the chat rooms. Some are really in-your-face but equally, i've made some nice male friends on here that whilst aware that I don't play apart from Mr TN, have still given me advice and had a good gossip.
Well I wasn't I really wasn't but this came this morning.....
X's are of course edits lol......
hi guys how are u?
me and xxxx are very interested in u xxxx has big tits and is bi and im athletic and well hung would love to hear from u
love xxxx n xxxx
our email is xxxxxxxxxxx and its our msn messenger address
Ad has 1 Line asking for a Bi fem to come and play with 2 Pics one of his cock the other of her tits....
I mean ff's lol.......
Mike xx
X's are of course edits lol......
hi guys how are u?
me and xxxx are very interested in u xxxx has big tits and is bi and im athletic and well hung would love to hear from u
love xxxx n xxxx
our email is xxxxxxxxxxx and its our msn messenger address
Ad has 1 Line asking for a Bi fem to come and play with 2 Pics one of his cock the other of her tits....
I mean ff's lol.......
Mike xx
Quote by Thinkingnaughty
I can see how that would be annoying when you've gone to the effort to send something a bit more original than a wink. A 'thanks but no thanks would be nice'. I guess that people feel empowered on here to ignore you as it's annonymous and others just don't have any empathy or are embarrassed to say 'no'.
It's on our profile that we'd at least say 'no' if we're not interested. If someone has gone to the effort of writing a genuine enquiry (and I mean genuine), then it's the least we can do to reply. Winks are ignored though.
I wonder if you would feel that way if you found over 100 PM's in your inbox one Monday morning.
Orgasminator
Quote by PoloLady
I set out to answer every PM (once upon a time)…… the novelty soon wears off.
I don't know what the problem is.
I can honestly say I have answered every single PM I have received..........
both of them!!!
:cry: 
Sex God
Quote by littlemee
I set out to answer every PM (once upon a time)…… the novelty soon wears off.
I don't know what the problem is.
I can honestly say I have answered every single PM I have received..........
both of them!!!
:cry: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: .........sorry couldn't resist :roll: 
Sex God
This is a very enlightening thread. I just hope that I am not guilty of too many of these mistakes. Normally I err on the side of being over polite and verging on the apologetic
My checklist of what not to do in a PM is now so long I am not sure I will ever get round to sending PMs again! :shock:: :scared:
Will
My checklist of what not to do in a PM is now so long I am not sure I will ever get round to sending PMs again! :shock:: :scared:
Will
Quote by mdr2000
Plain old bone idle winks..... Sorry but ff's!!
I HATE THEM!
:banghead: :banghead: but i found out that they are sometimes coz the person isn't a full member ...only way of contact!
i delet them a.s.a.p!
iv also had ...like your profile a lot i think im what your looking for :shock:
....mmm ..i was not a wear that i had much on my profile 
i don't really look these days! Sex God
Quote by PoloLady
I can see how that would be annoying when you've gone to the effort to send something a bit more original than a wink. A 'thanks but no thanks would be nice'. I guess that people feel empowered on here to ignore you as it's annonymous and others just don't have any empathy or are embarrassed to say 'no'.
It's on our profile that we'd at least say 'no' if we're not interested. If someone has gone to the effort of writing a genuine enquiry (and I mean genuine), then it's the least we can do to reply. Winks are ignored though.
I wonder if you would feel that way if you found over 100 PM's in your inbox one Monday morning.
Well, the average single guy isnt lucky enough to get 100 pm's ! x
Casanova
Quote by Sassy-Seren
How about the ones from 21 year old guys when my profile clearly states NO GUYS !
you are a little vague in portraying what you want and always sit on the fence though
Quote by LondonPlaything
I had a wink the other day!
blimey!
mind you.. Ive been lucky enough as a single chap to recieve a couple of very nice *propper* PM's...
I guess the "ffs" arent really all that common for the single chap... not this one.
ffs!
lp
Probably the wrong place to post this but I love the new atavar LP! :lickface:
Sex God
Quote by willxx69
This is a very enlightening thread. I just hope that I am not guilty of too many of these mistakes. Normally I err on the side of being over polite and verging on the apologetic
My checklist of what not to do in a PM is now so long I am not sure I will ever get round to sending PMs again! :shock:: :scared:
Will
:smackbottom::smackbottom:Don't you dare stop sending PMs - I'll have them all if nobody else wants them :twisted:
Quote by Drewxcore
I can see how that would be annoying when you've gone to the effort to send something a bit more original than a wink. A 'thanks but no thanks would be nice'. I guess that people feel empowered on here to ignore you as it's annonymous and others just don't have any empathy or are embarrassed to say 'no'.
It's on our profile that we'd at least say 'no' if we're not interested. If someone has gone to the effort of writing a genuine enquiry (and I mean genuine), then it's the least we can do to reply. Winks are ignored though.
I wonder if you would feel that way if you found over 100 PM's in your inbox one Monday morning.
Well, the average single guy isnt lucky enough to get 100 pm's ! x
Then you will have time to reply to any you get then
It just annoys the crap out of me when people (anyone but no one in particular) implies/suggests/states that people just decide not to bother replying to PM's on a whim or just because they can.
Sometimes it is just not possible - not without giving up other parts of your life. I read a comment somewhere about time not being the issue as they have seen the people posting or chatting (or words to that effect) - that really does make me laugh. To suggest someone should not continue to post or go into chat whilst they have unanswered PM's from total strangers - there is a big FFS!
But even if it is possible - why should they all have to get a PM back? Do you reply to all of the junk mail through your letter-box saying "thanks but no thanks", do you reply to all of the spam and junk emails that go to your email address with "thanks, but no thanks"?
It has been said that if a PM was genuine it would be answered - but what is genuine? I am sure all of the people who cut n paste think they are 'genuine', all the one liners think they are 'genuine', all of the people who ask you to look at their profile (only to find it is pretty much blank) think they are genuine, all of the people that write e few lines and ask for a decision there and then..... the list goes on and all deserve a FFS!
Apologies if I offended.
I class anything that has gone into detailed comment about my profile or themselves as a genuine enquiry. I do not reply to junk mail or blatant cut & paste jobs, I don't respond to winks either. Enquiries, other than one liners about wanting to wank over me etc... I respond to be polite. It doesn't hurt me and takes me just a few seconds but might save that person from watching their inbox all day.
No-one should be made to feel they have to respond - it's an individual thing. If I ever get as many as 100 enquiries a day - I suspect 1% of them would fall into my 'genuine' catagory and the other 99 would be deleted. As for expecting people to stop chatting to respond to a PM... that is sheer lunacy. No-one should expect a reply, I just like to send one if I deem the person to have genuinely been interested.
Anyway, that's just me!
xx
I class anything that has gone into detailed comment about my profile or themselves as a genuine enquiry. I do not reply to junk mail or blatant cut & paste jobs, I don't respond to winks either. Enquiries, other than one liners about wanting to wank over me etc... I respond to be polite. It doesn't hurt me and takes me just a few seconds but might save that person from watching their inbox all day.
No-one should be made to feel they have to respond - it's an individual thing. If I ever get as many as 100 enquiries a day - I suspect 1% of them would fall into my 'genuine' catagory and the other 99 would be deleted. As for expecting people to stop chatting to respond to a PM... that is sheer lunacy. No-one should expect a reply, I just like to send one if I deem the person to have genuinely been interested.
Anyway, that's just me!
xx
Sex God
Quote by Thinkingnaughty
Apologies if I offended.
I class anything that has gone into detailed comment about my profile or themselves as a genuine enquiry. I do not reply to junk mail or blatant cut & paste jobs, I don't respond to winks either. Enquiries, other than one liners about wanting to wank over me etc... I respond to be polite. It doesn't hurt me and takes me just a few seconds but might save that person from watching their inbox all day.
No-one should be made to feel they have to respond - it's an individual thing. If I ever get as many as 100 enquiries a day - I suspect 1% of them would fall into my 'genuine' catagory and the other 99 would be deleted. As for expecting people to stop chatting to respond to a PM... that is sheer lunacy. No-one should expect a reply, I just like to send one if I deem the person to have genuinely been interested.
Anyway, that's just me!
xx
And yet your profile wording says:
Quote by Thinkingnaughty
We will reply to all messages even if it's a 'thanks, but no thanks'. (unless you are a single male or a wink).
Doesn't that rather contradict what you've stated in this thread? Single males and others (as PL pointed out) can also be genuine in what they seek. Winks might be an easy way for a genuine person to make initial contact.
No, I don't think it contradicts. As the profile reads, I ignore anything that is a wink or a single male basically cutting and pasting.
As I stated before - my definition of genuine is when someone makes an enquiry that shows they have read my profile and clearly stated why they are interested - something personal and not just cut and pasted. That is of course, just my definition made for the purposes of this thread. I do not count winks as genuine enquiries in my definition here.
The profile specifically states I will not reply to single males and winks to deter these people. Single males that contact me in error or with a view to possible future requirements - I reply to, but I am not going to put that on there and invite loads fo them!
Hope that explains it clearer XX
As I stated before - my definition of genuine is when someone makes an enquiry that shows they have read my profile and clearly stated why they are interested - something personal and not just cut and pasted. That is of course, just my definition made for the purposes of this thread. I do not count winks as genuine enquiries in my definition here.
The profile specifically states I will not reply to single males and winks to deter these people. Single males that contact me in error or with a view to possible future requirements - I reply to, but I am not going to put that on there and invite loads fo them!
Hope that explains it clearer XX
Having read the whole thread, I agree it needs a humour warning LMAO....
Don't think I have ever laughed so much... But I then came across where Thinking Naughty was merely expressing an opinion about winks and mail etc.... I have to say I'm probably biased she is a very close friend. But What i have witnessed by at least 2 members of the forum is down and outright bad manners.
Ask yourself this?.... How would you feel If you were a fairly new member to this site, trying to find your way around and found comfort within the forum setting and merely added/expressed an opinion on a thread and you found yourself being mouthed at by so called regulars? Correct me if im wrong and I would so like for someone to point out that I am; But the last page or so of this thread I have witnessed what appears to be aggression towards another member of an excellent and well run site.
It really does not set a good example of behaviour amongst like minded adults does it?
Don't think I have ever laughed so much... But I then came across where Thinking Naughty was merely expressing an opinion about winks and mail etc.... I have to say I'm probably biased she is a very close friend. But What i have witnessed by at least 2 members of the forum is down and outright bad manners.
Ask yourself this?.... How would you feel If you were a fairly new member to this site, trying to find your way around and found comfort within the forum setting and merely added/expressed an opinion on a thread and you found yourself being mouthed at by so called regulars? Correct me if im wrong and I would so like for someone to point out that I am; But the last page or so of this thread I have witnessed what appears to be aggression towards another member of an excellent and well run site.
It really does not set a good example of behaviour amongst like minded adults does it?
