Hi All
I am in need of some advice, hopefully someone can help
Tonigh I am having my first 3-some with a couple I have known for years but just found out they were swingers as well.
She (J) has been flirting with me on MSN for days now leading up to this and some one the barriers have been broken down by this.
Where I need help is in not feeling the third wheel with people i know and being able to let go as i do when with other couples I have not met before.
I never pretend in any way when meeting but my friends know only one side of me how do I know get this other side out without shocking them to much.
The main prob is I have wanted (J) for years and now how do I not look like a kid in teh candy shop
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Sorry Rob, I'm not in a position to give you any advice but I'd love to know how you found out they were swingers?
And good luck for tonight. I hope you all enjoy each other.
And good luck for tonight. I hope you all enjoy each other.
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Sorry Rob, I'm not in a position to give you any advice but I'd love to know how you found out they were swingers?
And good luck for tonight. I hope you all enjoy each other.
Its funny really, they went away for the weekend and I looked after there dogs, As they had told me to make myself at home i turned on teh computer to take a look at this site.
Not thinking anything about it, a few days later I popped in and was confronted by (J) with a list of the web-sites ii had visited from the PC history.
A bit silly really as i worked in Computer Ops for years and should have remembered that.
anyway a few beer later and it was all out that they were swingers as well and were looking for a 3rd and so i was in.
But all this still dont change my original prob, thats if it is a prob
Quote by Rob1961
Sorry Rob, I'm not in a position to give you any advice but I'd love to know how you found out they were swingers?
And good luck for tonight. I hope you all enjoy each other.
Its funny really, they went away for the weekend and I looked after there dogs, As they had told me to make myself at home i turned on teh computer to take a look at this site.
Not thinking anything about it, a few days later I popped in and was confronted by (J) with a list of the web-sites ii had visited from the PC history.
A bit silly really as i worked in Computer Ops for years and should have remembered that.
anyway a few beer later and it was all out that they were swingers as well and were looking for a 3rd and so i was in.
But all this still dont change my original prob, thats if it is a prob
Be very very careful with this, remember that you'll be % unlikely to sway her to you if you like her that much,
in fact, if the emotions are too strong from you, i'd recomend pulling out of this. I know it may seem like a sacrilage, but you could end up messing your mind up if you do it!
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Sorry Rob, I'm not in a position to give you any advice but I'd love to know how you found out they were swingers?
And good luck for tonight. I hope you all enjoy each other.
Its funny really, they went away for the weekend and I looked after there dogs, As they had told me to make myself at home i turned on teh computer to take a look at this site.
Not thinking anything about it, a few days later I popped in and was confronted by (J) with a list of the web-sites ii had visited from the PC history.
A bit silly really as i worked in Computer Ops for years and should have remembered that.
anyway a few beer later and it was all out that they were swingers as well and were looking for a 3rd and so i was in.
But all this still dont change my original prob, thats if it is a prob
You sound a bit creepy.
Not sure I would want to swing with a creepy guy who snoops through other peoples computers.
Best of luck, creepy.
Doesnt sound creepy to me at all - he logged on to their computer to look at swingers sites, forgot to clear the history, they found out he was interested in swinging and now he is having a 3some with them.
From what I have read, he hasnt snooped around their system.
Whats creepy about that??
:? I agree, the way I read it Rob wasn't snooping at all and definately didn't deserve the rude reply. No wonder us newbies are reluctant to post new topics.
Not sure what you should do Rob but I guess don't ruin a good friendship for the sake of a threesome. But if your friendship can survive it and grow go for and fill ya boots!!
T and K xx
Not sure what you should do Rob but I guess don't ruin a good friendship for the sake of a threesome. But if your friendship can survive it and grow go for and fill ya boots!!
T and K xx
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You sound a bit creepy.
Not sure I would want to swing with a creepy guy who snoops through other peoples computers.
Best of luck, creepy.
I think you are out of order there !!
I would remind you to look at the AUP regarding abusive or aggressive behaviour towards other people on here.
:? :? :? First Thanks for teh support on the Computer Front. I
would point out to Dr Doo Doo it was my friends that found I had been on the computer if they had not been happy about it do you think they would have invited me into their home again let alone there bedroom.
As for last night well its now just past and i have been in abot 30 minutes, and though I would let you know everything was ok between us all, no tension, No strange feeling , great fun and still good friends, justa bit closer now.
A few beer and a great massage from (J) sorted that out with hubby amd good mate (C) more than happy to sit and watch the action before joining in.
I was never with (J) alone and would not want that, I left this morning closer friends than before with (C) dropping me off as he normally does after a saturday night out.
(C) even mentioned getting together again sometime, I wil put that thought on hold for a while untill I have seen them both again on monday night at the local pub quiz, if thngs are frosty then it will end with a one and only night of fun and then we have to sort out the friends thing.
If all is ok on Monday which I will find out soon enough as I dont drive and they give me a lift.
So Great Night was had by all, Im not giving anymore details, and if im walking on monday to the quiz. its was a totally bad idea, but remember it was theirs to start with not mine. They made the first approach.
would point out to Dr Doo Doo it was my friends that found I had been on the computer if they had not been happy about it do you think they would have invited me into their home again let alone there bedroom.
As for last night well its now just past and i have been in abot 30 minutes, and though I would let you know everything was ok between us all, no tension, No strange feeling , great fun and still good friends, justa bit closer now.
A few beer and a great massage from (J) sorted that out with hubby amd good mate (C) more than happy to sit and watch the action before joining in.
I was never with (J) alone and would not want that, I left this morning closer friends than before with (C) dropping me off as he normally does after a saturday night out.
(C) even mentioned getting together again sometime, I wil put that thought on hold for a while untill I have seen them both again on monday night at the local pub quiz, if thngs are frosty then it will end with a one and only night of fun and then we have to sort out the friends thing.
If all is ok on Monday which I will find out soon enough as I dont drive and they give me a lift.
So Great Night was had by all, Im not giving anymore details, and if im walking on monday to the quiz. its was a totally bad idea, but remember it was theirs to start with not mine. They made the first approach.
