Looking for some comments on the following.
I have always been a straight guy and just recentley have been thinking about having my cocked sucked by another guy.I would try and give my first BJ if I enjoyed it, But would love some feed back from ne guys that have done this for the 1st time.
1)Would wanna know who you felt after doing ur 1st BJ
2)Have you done it since the 1 st time
Thanks for reading the above and comments would be greatly help.
Paul
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First Bi time 4 a guy
If you want to try just go for it .. pick someone you feel comfortable with and if you don't like it you at least know that and can move on .. if you do well great.
I met a man over 5 yrs ago who swore blind he was str8 as they come. Well as time went on he got more adventurous as we met with other fellas for 3 somes together and about 2 yrs ago he gave a bloke his first bj ... it was one of the most amazing experiences for me ever and I was only watching. Both men developed their sexual experience in leaps and bounds. I don't think anyone lost out over that meet, but gained loads.
Good luck and have fun
DD
I met a man over 5 yrs ago who swore blind he was str8 as they come. Well as time went on he got more adventurous as we met with other fellas for 3 somes together and about 2 yrs ago he gave a bloke his first bj ... it was one of the most amazing experiences for me ever and I was only watching. Both men developed their sexual experience in leaps and bounds. I don't think anyone lost out over that meet, but gained loads.
Good luck and have fun
DD
Sex God
Quote by paulgray4
1)Would wanna know who you felt after doing ur 1st BJ
pretty shit actually, and i beat myself up stupid for the best part of 15 years!
though i was only 19 at the time, plied with alcohol, so i maybe wasn't quite in the right place or ready for it. ;)2)Have you done it since the 1 st time
yes! and have to say, it's been rather better than i remembered the first time round.
just wish i was better at it! 
as the old saying goes . . . 'suck it and see!' ;)
so long as you can look yourself in the eye the next morning, go for it. maybe pick someone who's in a similiar place, and exploring too. make it a mutual thing, and then maybe you can get something mental out of it, knowing you've both played a part in eachothers little discovery of male on male sex, as well as the purely physical and mechanical aspects of the whole thing?
that particular little voyage of discovery has been immensely valuable, for me, but then i've always known i was a repressed bi-male.
;) i don't know where you're at, or what your motivations are, but exploring this stuff is no bad thing. kinda the whole point of the place is that it enables that kind of personal exploration, and allows you to get comfy with it! 8-) it may turn out that you hate it, and fantasy and reality don't quite match up? that's a valuable lesson in it's own right.
neil x x x ;)
You can only try it and see. If you don't like it, you don't do it again - it's no biggy. I've had a couple of experiences that i never wish to repeat and actually make me cringe thinking about them - so i avoid thinking about them but I'm glad i tried.
I also think it's not a bad idea to find someone who is at the same level as you. I know when i was still curious, I felt a bit intimidated by people who appeared to have more experience than me.
Good luck x
I also think it's not a bad idea to find someone who is at the same level as you. I know when i was still curious, I felt a bit intimidated by people who appeared to have more experience than me.
Good luck x
Master of Sex
I've done it out of curiosity and haven't ever felt bad about it. I much prefer women though and couldn't be cuddly and affectionate with a man like I love to be with women. A cock is more like an interesting toy. I remember the strange sensation of the rubbery like texture in the mouth and feeling the head against the roof of the mouth. I have done it again and probably will do it in future.
I did once get an ejaculation in the mouth which was a surprise. It made me gag I'm afraid but I don't mind trying again. Try anything 3 times I say.
I did once get an ejaculation in the mouth which was a surprise. It made me gag I'm afraid but I don't mind trying again. Try anything 3 times I say.
Warming the Bed
I will never forget the first time i sucked a cock. It took me a few months before I finally got up the courage to chat on line with a guy who made no secret of the fact that he was bi. We eventually arranged to meet in a nearby pub car park. When he drove in I thought he looked ok and clean. This was the most important thing for me, cleanliness.
He followed me back to mine, I got on my knees and unzipped his fly. He pulled this massive cock out, far larger than mine and I just put it straight in my mouth. He was only semi-hard at that point but rapidly grew very stiff. I was able to enjoy the experience and really grew to want the feel and taste of a stiff cock in my mouth. It took me ages to make him cum, but again I really enjoyed tasting his cum and licking him dry as he slowly subsided.
I have never looked back and now wish that I hadn't waited so long before trying it.
Go ahead enjoy
He followed me back to mine, I got on my knees and unzipped his fly. He pulled this massive cock out, far larger than mine and I just put it straight in my mouth. He was only semi-hard at that point but rapidly grew very stiff. I was able to enjoy the experience and really grew to want the feel and taste of a stiff cock in my mouth. It took me ages to make him cum, but again I really enjoyed tasting his cum and licking him dry as he slowly subsided.
I have never looked back and now wish that I hadn't waited so long before trying it.
Go ahead enjoy
Paul I have to say that Neil pretty much summed it up nicely, great answer Neil. The only thing I can offer in addition to the excellent feedback you have already recieved is, don't get hung up on 'criteria'.
By that I mean don't have a wish list of qualities you percieve the guy should have i.e. age, experince bi gay etc etc, in my experience it's best to go with a guy your are comfortable with or 'click' with. I know this is difficult to ascertain on first meeting but go with your instincts, chat first maybe. Hope this helps so go enjoy yourself. Don't get hung up on the bi,gay, str8 label ..... you just enjoy Variety thats all
Hey there should be a new term Vsexual - best of luck
By that I mean don't have a wish list of qualities you percieve the guy should have i.e. age, experince bi gay etc etc, in my experience it's best to go with a guy your are comfortable with or 'click' with. I know this is difficult to ascertain on first meeting but go with your instincts, chat first maybe. Hope this helps so go enjoy yourself. Don't get hung up on the bi,gay, str8 label ..... you just enjoy Variety thats all
Hey there should be a new term Vsexual - best of luck i would like to offer my assistance to watch you all
lol
god i love seeing guys together.
i hope you have fun. one thing to remember is ,that im sure its hard to imagine, but even i wasnt skilled at bj's when i first started out. So even if your first experience isnt mind blowing i would say practice practice practice lol
find someone whos clean and you click with.
do guys out there who are bi think they give recieve better bj,s with guys cuse they know how it feels?
does that make any sense?
xxx fem xx
lol
god i love seeing guys together.
i hope you have fun. one thing to remember is ,that im sure its hard to imagine, but even i wasnt skilled at bj's when i first started out. So even if your first experience isnt mind blowing i would say practice practice practice lol
find someone whos clean and you click with.
do guys out there who are bi think they give recieve better bj,s with guys cuse they know how it feels?
does that make any sense?
xxx fem xx
Sex God
Quote by bjbri69
in my experience it's best to go with a guy your are comfortable with or 'click' with. I know this is difficult to ascertain on first meeting but go with your instincts, chat first maybe. Hope this helps so go enjoy yourself. Don't get hung up on the bi,gay, str8 label ..... you just enjoy Variety thats all.
excellent advice! :thumbup: it is much, much easier if the thing kind of happens naturally, with someone you are already comfortable with. difficult to find situations like that unfortunately, let alone plan for them
i would NOT recommend a random meet with a stranger for a first time, though it has it's advantages inasmuch as you can walk away from it knowing you never have to look this guy in the eye again. ;) Quote by fem-4-
do guys out there who are bi think they give recieve better bj,s with guys cuse they know how it feels?
not really. knowing how it feels, and knowing how to give that feeling to another guy? different fishes and kettles altogether? i can pretty much read women's responses, if i'm doing something right, cos i'm used to them. not nearly so clued up with guys. i like slow and gentle, a lot of guys like something rather harder? as you say, it's practice, and being experienced enough to vary your particular repertoire. i'm still crap at 'em!
Quote by fem_4_taboo
i would like to offer my assistance to watch you all
sorry fem_4_taboo, but gem has first dibs on that one. i've kept her waiting long enough for the whole shebang! :lol: she has a little wish list we just ain't been able to fulfill just yet, mainly cos i'm a fussy bugger and insist on fit, buff guys with a pretty, pretty cock! :lol: ;)
neil x x x ;)
ohhh dark hope your not behind me with a strap on in this queue lol :shock:
all this talk of bi guys has got me to organising a bit of fun, if all goes to plan should be having a mmmf with 3 bi guys tuesday evening :twisted:
i know what you mean neil about being unsure, and not knowing just cuse yor a guy. i guess i was like this my first time with a female. this may sound odd but i think this was partially due to the fact the ladies moo moos are all sooo different where by cocks kinda all look the same to me.
the best oral i think i give is when the other party is verbal in some way, gives me more clues if what im doing is hitting the spot.
xxx fem xx
all this talk of bi guys has got me to organising a bit of fun, if all goes to plan should be having a mmmf with 3 bi guys tuesday evening :twisted:
i know what you mean neil about being unsure, and not knowing just cuse yor a guy. i guess i was like this my first time with a female. this may sound odd but i think this was partially due to the fact the ladies moo moos are all sooo different where by cocks kinda all look the same to me.
the best oral i think i give is when the other party is verbal in some way, gives me more clues if what im doing is hitting the spot.
xxx fem xx
What great comments!
I've never sucked a guy to completion or even been sucked to completion by a guy. My only bi experience sooo far as i have mentioned to 1 or 2 in chatrooms was last summer on a nudist beach.
I wasn't planning to do anything other than try going naked on beach first time. I was at ease in 5 mins and getting naked was no big deal.
I went into the dunes.....whoa! Lots of naked guys, didn't see any women some just standing like those statues in easter island just scanning horizon. Most walking around some wanking as guys walked past.
To cut long story short walked up and down bloody dunes for ages getting quite turned on. Saw older guy standing he looked at me i said hi we started small talk, i ...don't ask me how i managed to say, said what was he here for...he threw question back at me and i said some petting nothing heavy.
we lay down kissed (never kiised a man before), didn't rock my boat but he was sooo turned on by it i carried on as he was clean polite n gentle.
anyway we rubbed up against each other massaging rubbing cocks...he started to suck me a little then returned to kiissing so i asked if i cud try sucking him for a little well i gave it a go it wasn't such a big deal he said he enjoyed it but then he wanked me off....i froxze as it dawned on me what i did and couldn't wank him but he was very understanding.
In summary try to find the right bloke...i'm still nervous about meets and chat only on here hopefully i'll gain more confidence and who knows.
I would say if theres such athing i'm 90/10 straight preferring women, only getting the occasionally itch with guys and hetting turned on seeing them naked
sorry to waffle!
I've never sucked a guy to completion or even been sucked to completion by a guy. My only bi experience sooo far as i have mentioned to 1 or 2 in chatrooms was last summer on a nudist beach.
I wasn't planning to do anything other than try going naked on beach first time. I was at ease in 5 mins and getting naked was no big deal.
I went into the dunes.....whoa! Lots of naked guys, didn't see any women some just standing like those statues in easter island just scanning horizon. Most walking around some wanking as guys walked past.
To cut long story short walked up and down bloody dunes for ages getting quite turned on. Saw older guy standing he looked at me i said hi we started small talk, i ...don't ask me how i managed to say, said what was he here for...he threw question back at me and i said some petting nothing heavy.
we lay down kissed (never kiised a man before), didn't rock my boat but he was sooo turned on by it i carried on as he was clean polite n gentle.
anyway we rubbed up against each other massaging rubbing cocks...he started to suck me a little then returned to kiissing so i asked if i cud try sucking him for a little well i gave it a go it wasn't such a big deal he said he enjoyed it but then he wanked me off....i froxze as it dawned on me what i did and couldn't wank him but he was very understanding.
In summary try to find the right bloke...i'm still nervous about meets and chat only on here hopefully i'll gain more confidence and who knows.
I would say if theres such athing i'm 90/10 straight preferring women, only getting the occasionally itch with guys and hetting turned on seeing them naked
sorry to waffle!
Just so you know about feeling bad to go with another bloke for sex, you shouldn't!
It's only the Christian puritanism that made homosexuality/bisexuality something . To cut a long story short for the last 2000 years we are told to think it's evil while for ever since men are men bisexuality is in our habits.
I love women, I love their pussy juice and I love the texture inside their vagina, but that doesn't prevent me from enjoying sucking a man to completion, tasting his cum in my mouth or taking it up my arse.
To be very honest, it actually completes my life, with a woman I'm on the giving end, with a man, at the receiving end.
And last it, helped me understand how to properly give anal sex to my gf and that shooting sperm in the eye can be painful...
Many people mentioned it already, try it and learn from it, that can only be good experience for you.
Good luck
It's only the Christian puritanism that made homosexuality/bisexuality something . To cut a long story short for the last 2000 years we are told to think it's evil while for ever since men are men bisexuality is in our habits.
I love women, I love their pussy juice and I love the texture inside their vagina, but that doesn't prevent me from enjoying sucking a man to completion, tasting his cum in my mouth or taking it up my arse.
To be very honest, it actually completes my life, with a woman I'm on the giving end, with a man, at the receiving end.
And last it, helped me understand how to properly give anal sex to my gf and that shooting sperm in the eye can be painful...
Many people mentioned it already, try it and learn from it, that can only be good experience for you.
Good luck
Quote by bicuriousuncut
I went into the dunes.....whoa! Lots of naked guys, didn't see any women some just standing like those statues in easter island just scanning horizon. Most walking around some wanking as guys walked past.
Where is this beach please?
Gem, Fem and Darkfire....are you coming with me?
Wow! What a great thread ... I've renewed my sub to SH so that I can join in!
Straight or bi ... I dunno ... but I do know that I'm really jealous of all you ladies sucking cock. I love sucking pussy ... and I'm told I'm good at it ... but, hey, a lovely cock ... what it must be like to tease and please one till it erupts ... you lucky girls!
Anyone got a lovely cock? Any of you girls wanna cum and watch? In the dunes? In the woods? On the downs? On the beach? ... or simply 'chez moi'?
Phil
Straight or bi ... I dunno ... but I do know that I'm really jealous of all you ladies sucking cock. I love sucking pussy ... and I'm told I'm good at it ... but, hey, a lovely cock ... what it must be like to tease and please one till it erupts ... you lucky girls!
Anyone got a lovely cock? Any of you girls wanna cum and watch? In the dunes? In the woods? On the downs? On the beach? ... or simply 'chez moi'?
Phil
He he, had to reply again, Neil ur on the money once more - "knowing how it feels, and knowing how to give that feeling to another guy? different fishes and kettles altogether?" and SDMan "To be very honest, it actually completes my life, with a woman I'm on the giving end, with a man, at the receiving end." I would just like to add that two guys playing together is like playing like with like, in that sense we have an advantage but it's also about what SDman said as well, giving urself over to another guy - takes courage but is very fulfiling. Phil ur right it is very thrilling teasing a cock until it erupts - different challenge alltogether, but one that is fun to meet ! :twisted:
Quote by Hungrypussy69
I went into the dunes.....whoa! Lots of naked guys, didn't see any women some just standing like those statues in easter island just scanning horizon. Most walking around some wanking as guys walked past.
Where is this beach please?
Gem, Fem and Darkfire....are you coming with me?
the beach is morfa dyffryn nr harlech north wales.
Master of Sex
I can remember my first time sucking a guy very well. I'd been out around the town centre, and got chatting to a guy in one of the local "gay" pubs. He offered me a lift home and whilst driving started to rub his hand up and down my leg. I suggested we go back to his home where we spent the evening enjoying each others bodies.
I had no hesitation in taking his cock into my mouth, no nerves, no apprehension, and no guilt or bad feelings about it afterwards. I'd had girlfriends before but had always felt that being with a guy was just another variation of my sexuality. Beating myself up or feelings of guilt never happened because it was a natural thing for me to do.
Now with Vicky, we enjoy my bi side together. She gets massive pleasure out of watching me and another fella playing and is eager to join in too. For me, the joy of being able to share this side of my sexuality with her is just awesome.
I would say that if you want to try something sexually, then go for it. Its the only way to know if something is for you or not. It could open up a whole new way of life for you.
Wasn't it Woody Allen who said that being bi doubles your chances of a date on a Saturday night?
I had no hesitation in taking his cock into my mouth, no nerves, no apprehension, and no guilt or bad feelings about it afterwards. I'd had girlfriends before but had always felt that being with a guy was just another variation of my sexuality. Beating myself up or feelings of guilt never happened because it was a natural thing for me to do.
Now with Vicky, we enjoy my bi side together. She gets massive pleasure out of watching me and another fella playing and is eager to join in too. For me, the joy of being able to share this side of my sexuality with her is just awesome.
I would say that if you want to try something sexually, then go for it. Its the only way to know if something is for you or not. It could open up a whole new way of life for you.
Wasn't it Woody Allen who said that being bi doubles your chances of a date on a Saturday night?
Master of Sex
I am always gladdened to hear women say they enjoy watching men play with each would be the biggest attraction for me; doing it as a turn-on for the woman.
What a great thread.
femme_4_taboo said,
"do guys out there who are bi think they give recieve better bj,s with guys cuse they know how it feels?
does that make any sense? "
Well just putting a slightly different perspective on things, being a TV and also bi, when I am receiving a BJ from a girl or a guy, when I am in male mode, I just couldn't tell you how I feel. I am lost in my thoughts and ecstasy, but, when I am in femme mode it is completely different.
I am very concious of what I am doing and am constantly trying to read the guy and make him as 'lost' as I am when I am on the receiving end.
I don't think a guy can give a bj any better than a girl. Up until a few weeks ago though the best I had ever had was from a guy, but that has now been surpassed (he he)
Basically though, getting back to the main thread, if you want to do it so much, then just do it. There comes a point I think when you can no longer hold out so just go with your own feelings and do not, ever, feel ashamed. If it is good for all concerned, how can it be bad??
Debs x
femme_4_taboo said,
"do guys out there who are bi think they give recieve better bj,s with guys cuse they know how it feels?
does that make any sense? "
Well just putting a slightly different perspective on things, being a TV and also bi, when I am receiving a BJ from a girl or a guy, when I am in male mode, I just couldn't tell you how I feel. I am lost in my thoughts and ecstasy, but, when I am in femme mode it is completely different.
I am very concious of what I am doing and am constantly trying to read the guy and make him as 'lost' as I am when I am on the receiving end.
I don't think a guy can give a bj any better than a girl. Up until a few weeks ago though the best I had ever had was from a guy, but that has now been surpassed (he he)
Basically though, getting back to the main thread, if you want to do it so much, then just do it. There comes a point I think when you can no longer hold out so just go with your own feelings and do not, ever, feel ashamed. If it is good for all concerned, how can it be bad??
Debs x
Quote by Bazza64
I can remember my first time sucking a guy very well. I'd been out around the town centre, and got chatting to a guy in one of the local "gay" pubs. He offered me a lift home and whilst driving started to rub his hand up and down my leg. I suggested we go back to his home where we spent the evening enjoying each others bodies.
I had no hesitation in taking his cock into my mouth, no nerves, no apprehension, and no guilt or bad feelings about it afterwards. I'd had girlfriends before but had always felt that being with a guy was just another variation of my sexuality. Beating myself up or feelings of guilt never happened because it was a natural thing for me to do.
Now with Vicky, we enjoy my bi side together. She gets massive pleasure out of watching me and another fella playing and is eager to join in too. For me, the joy of being able to share this side of my sexuality with her is just awesome.
I would say that if you want to try something sexually, then go for it. Its the only way to know if something is for you or not. It could open up a whole new way of life for you.
Wasn't it Woody Allen who said that being bi doubles your chances of a date on a Saturday night?
It hasn't for me.....yet :lol:
But as many have said - always do things only if you feel comfortable with it. Never rush into something that you don't feel 100% sure about - a case in point for any situation let alone a situation like this
Well thanks every one that has replied.
After thinking about what every one has said I am going to go for it.
I will feel much easier if its with a couple, That will be gentle with me.
So hopefully if I find the right couple I will def give it a go.
Like any thing in life you always have to try things once.
I will let you all know how it goes.
After thinking about what every one has said I am going to go for it.
I will feel much easier if its with a couple, That will be gentle with me.
So hopefully if I find the right couple I will def give it a go.
Like any thing in life you always have to try things once.
I will let you all know how it goes.
Yey excellent Paul go for it m8 - let us all know how you get on. Debs great perspective, taught me something new - thanks. I sort of enjoy it just because I'm playing with and sharing something we both have. Few days ago me mate asked if we cud play together while a female friend watched and I was thinkin what is she going to get out of it ?, apologies if thats sounds shortsighted girls, it's not meant that way, this thread has certainly got me thinking differently as well. Oh and note to Dlep I'm not sure wether you have tried it or not, but if not hopefully you will when the time and circumstance is right
I'm not sure whether I think men or women are better at the whole nosh thing. I'd have to compare and contrast at a single sitting, so to speak.
It has been such a long time since I bothered playing, though, that I doubt I'd even know where to start in a mmf situation - it'd be like an all you can eat buffet with all my favourite things there, but i wouldn't want to appear greedy.
It has been such a long time since I bothered playing, though, that I doubt I'd even know where to start in a mmf situation - it'd be like an all you can eat buffet with all my favourite things there, but i wouldn't want to appear greedy.
Quote by fem_4_taboowas ur first girl on girl
i would like to offer my assistance to watch you all
lol
god i love seeing guys together.
i hope you have fun. one thing to remember is ,that im sure its hard to imagine, but even i wasnt skilled at bj's when i first started out. So even if your first experience isnt mind blowing i would say practice practice practice lol
find someone whos clean and you click with.
do guys out there who are bi think they give recieve better bj,s with guys cuse they know how it feels?
does that make any sense?
xxx fem xx
experience the same because a girl knows just what it feels like & on the whole a lot more gentle than a guy? Quote by Muffinman_1
was ur first girl on girl
can I answer this please ?
it is easy to say that a woman knows another woman better than a man could. But that is like saying all men are /great/crap/brilliant/awful etc in bed.. it is a generalisation.
I have only just recently had sex with men and enjoyed it. (december 06) until then I idetified as gay. I can safely say now that there are people I have great sex with and people that I don't. This is not gender specific. Women (generally) are no better at oral than men (generally) Everyone really is unique.
watching two bi-men have sex is my ultimate fantasy.. and is something that I imagine quite frequently when running scenarios through my head. I am sure it is the same sort of fantasy as the typical fem/fem scenario that will feature in a mans list of things to do (generally)
splendid
Quote by splendid_
was ur first girl on girl
can I answer this please ?
it is easy to say that a woman knows another woman better than a man could. But that is like saying all men are /great/crap/brilliant/awful etc in bed.. it is a generalisation.
I have only just recently had sex with men and enjoyed it. (december 06) until then I idetified as gay. I can safely say now that there are people I have great sex with and people that I don't. This is not gender specific. Women (generally) are no better at oral than men (generally) Everyone really is unique.
watching two bi-men have sex is my ultimate fantasy.. and is something that I imagine quite frequently when running scenarios through my head. I am sure it is the same sort of fantasy as the typical fem/fem scenario that will feature in a mans list of things to do (generally)
splendid
It features in my list of things to do (specifically)
