First meet

4 Jul 2005

After the disappointment of a fake last week, this week we have a time and hotel arranged for a meet.
Both of us are looking forward to meeting the guy we have picked but are both still concerned about std's.
He'll wear a condom for sex but what about blowjobs.
Some advice please.

4 Jul 2005

Advice about what?
confused

4 Jul 2005

don't take a chance use a condom even for a blowjob.

4 Jul 2005

so u can catch std's from blowjobs

4 Jul 2005

Quote by farkuen
don't take a chance use a condom even for a blowjob.

Or maybe don't take a chance at all - stay in and watch Big Brother! :twisted:

4 Jul 2005

Quote by nick & paula
so u can catch std's from blowjobs

:shock: :shock: Debs rushes off to washes her mouth out with soap!

4 Jul 2005

i have never used a condom for a blow job, to be fair if u expect him to put a condom on surly u should cover up b4 he goes down on u? other wise its a bit onesided dunno

not sure how that would work to be honest lol
Its each to their own i suppose but i have never cought anything from giving unprotected oral, if u that nervous just don't do it or tell him to cover up but as i said b4 if u ask him to cover up u can't expect him to go down on u unprotected wink

4 Jul 2005

so what was wrong with the last week i love them cocnut shys tombola all that sort of thing and the weather was great ice cream rides

4 Jul 2005

Quote by nick & paula
After the disappointment of a fake last week, this week we have a time and hotel arranged for a meet.
Both of us are looking forward to meeting the guy we have picked but are both still concerned about std's.
He'll wear a condom for sex but what about blowjobs.
Some advice please.

Blowing is ok, but dont suck too hard, knew a gal who nearly choked on 2 extra marbles in her mouth once :shock:

4 Jul 2005

Quote by nick & paula
so u can catch std's from blowjobs

Yes you can.
And if you need to ask advice about this sort of thing IMHO you are not ready for meeting people - you need to do some more homework so you can make informed decisions about something that could seriously effect your life.
You only have choices if you are aware of the options!

4 Jul 2005

Ignorance is not always bliss! :shock:

5 Jul 2005

I have to agree with Polo Lady on this one..... you do seem a little unprepared..... take your time... read up on std's.... types and how they are contracted.....
I would think that you've probably done a lot of talking and thinking about this first meet.... make sure that you have set your boundaries and that you stick to them.... and if anyone isn't enjoying the experience..... stop....
Only my opinion.... for what its worth.....
equi-princess xxx

5 Jul 2005

If you have doubts about blow jobs ask him to wear a condom if he's genuine & wants to play with the pair of you he will except your wishes wink

At the end of the day its your game & your rules :P
Hope you have fun .

5 Jul 2005

If in any doubt at all...
put 2 condoms on his little man
to be sure to be sure

5 Jul 2005

Nick n Paula -
Firstly to say good luck and have fun but secondly I completely agree with Polo and Equi - check out for some useful tips. People on SH have a broad spectrum of opinion on use of condoms etc etc so although its great that u'r seeking advice you really ought to use your own judgement.
have fun,
HertsGuy30s

5 Jul 2005

Quote by nick & paula
After the disappointment of a fake last week, this week we have a time and hotel arranged for a meet.
Both of us are looking forward to meeting the guy we have picked but are both still concerned about std's.
He'll wear a condom for sex but what about blowjobs.
Some advice please.

Best not run before you can walk.

5 Jul 2005

Not a worry now. I think we had another timewaster. We had the time and place sorted and he's just email to say he can't make it, we've sorted everything out and we're really looking forward to it.
i did read the 'information' section on the site about sexual health and that has answered a lot of our questions.
Thanks everyone for your advice.
Now we just need advice on avoiding timewasters.

5 Jul 2005

Everyone comes across timewasters guys but do bear in mind that some people do have genuine reasons for calling off meets, and as someone once said to me in our lifestyle you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince and/or princess.
Good luck with your search though guys

6 Jul 2005

Quote by SXBOY
If in any doubt at all...
put 2 condoms on his little man
to be sure to be sure

i think you may find the 2 condoms are not as safe as one,if you were meant to use two they would but it on the box

6 Jul 2005

Quote by steveup4itinberks
If in any doubt at all...
put 2 condoms on his little man
to be sure to be sure

i think you may find the 2 condoms are not as safe as one,if you were meant to use two they would but it on the box
You are definitely not supposed to use 2 condoms. They will rub against each other, causing friction and increasing risk of breakage.