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FIRST THREESOME........EVER!!!

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We're about to have our first "swinging" session......a 3sum......but need you.....?
Can anyone help me, I'm looking for a music track from the film Eyes Wide Shut.
The scene is where Tom Cruise's character goes to the mansion for the first time. He goes in, hands his coat in to the butler and wanders into the main hall. All the male members are cloaked and standing in a circle, the young "maidens" are in the centre of this circle waiting for the ceremony to begin. A guy with a fantastically strong voice is chanting. The track starts off really softly, but grows in volume and tension..........I would love to use this track this week......so can anyone help me out......please.
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Netsuke
Maybe you could look see if there is a soundtrack for the film and find out what it's called (rent dvd from a shop)?
If you find out what it's called, then you could either go out and byt it or download it.
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Maybe you could look see if there is a soundtrack for the film and find out what it's called (rent dvd from a shop)?
If you find out what it's called, then you could either go out and byt it or download it.

Great idea, but I tried that, the dvd doesn't say was it's called, although it is a classical piece and I have heard it elsewhere....on Classic FM.
Thanks anyway
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Netsuke
byt it...bugga confused
Sorry that didn't help then Bignetsuke
Try posting here:

Also check this list out in case it rings a bell:

I am so excited about your 3some. Do tell us all about it once it's taken place!
Quote by Tania
Try posting here:

Also check this list out in case it rings a bell:

I am so excited about your 3some. Do tell us all about it once it's taken place!

Tania, sweetheart what can I say :happy: :happy: :happy:
I love you, I love you, I love you
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Netsuke
I love you too!
Hope you have the best time of your life.
Hugs
It's called "Masked Ball" by Jocelyn Pook. It's one of the items on the second link from Tania, the "soundtrack" one.
Good luck with your threesome :P
Mike.
Quote by MikeNorth
It's called "Masked Ball" by Jocelyn Pook. It's one of the items on the second link from Tania, the "soundtrack" one.
Good luck with your threesome :P
Mike.

Thank you so much, I found it, I found it :happy:
We're so excited can hardly sleep at night, so have your fingers crossed for us.
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Netsuke
Hiyah Netsuke
Have a great time with your threesome
Love Cicero
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Hiyah Netsuke
Have a great time with your threesome
Love Cicero

Thank you Cicero for your kind wishes.
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Netsuke
OK....so now you all know that our first ever 3sum is about to happen.
You've provided the links to find the music I wanted.....now I need some more advice.
This is all going to happen on Friday evening...and I'm getting really worried/apprehensive....not sure what to expect nor what is expected of us either.
So if there any kind Sh'ers out there that would like to offer some advice to us.....please do. All advice would be gratefully read...
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Netsuke
Firstly, before anything happens, set your ground rules, what you are comfortable or not comfortable with and get it clear between you, your partner and your swinging pal.
Then, have fun biggrin
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Firstly, before anything happens, set your ground rules, what you are comfortable or not comfortable with and get it clear between you, your partner and your swinging pal.
Then, have fun biggrin

Thank you for your reply but.....
could you please give me some idea what "ground rules we should be laying down.....we're complete novices.
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Netsuke
Quote by Bignetsuke bird
could you please give me some idea what "ground rules we should be laying down.....we're complete novices.

Well not that I'm an expert but some ground rules to set might be the following:
Kissing or no kissing
Anal play or not
Condoms or not (although unless you know them EXTREMELY well I would advise 'yes')
Also, as the universal Swinging rule, explain that 'no' always means 'no' and so if anyone is uncomfortable at any point then you all stop with no recriminations on anyone.
That's my advice anyway for what it's worth...... smile
Only advice I can give you is not to use spray deodorants/body sprays as they taste bloody awful! A roll on deo and some perfume behind the ears should suffice. LOL
Hey girl, enjoy your big night. I'll be thinking about you! ;)
hi there, we're new to the site and just wanted to say hello to you all. we have got some good tips, we can't wait to find the person to have some fun with.
nobby &angel biggrin
thanks for the advice. plan on getting to know them first talk then meet up for a drink and make sure everyone is relaxed. i'm excited but won't anything biggrin
I'll go along with all the other top tips here, but in addition, I'd add these:
a) Be yourselves. Let your personality come out, and don't try to be some false porn stars.
b) Relax, it's only a sex session. It's NOT love-making. You're not going to fall in love with Mr. 3, or go home with him, so don't worry about the emotional angles too much. To take the pressure off, think of it as more like a bit of sport, like you would if you were off to play tennis for the first time...only tennis doesn't burn up 500 calories an hour.
c) It doesn't matter if mistakes are made, or if you think your bum looks big, or whatever else you are worrying about. At the end of the night you two still have each other, and nothing else really compares to that.
Hope that this might help a bit. Best of luck and HAVE FUN!
Quote by Bignetsuke bird
Firstly, before anything happens, set your ground rules, what you are comfortable or not comfortable with and get it clear between you, your partner and your swinging pal.
Then, have fun biggrin

Thank you for your reply but.....
could you please give me some idea what "ground rules we should be laying down.....we're complete novices.
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Netsuke
We both thought about this BEFORE we decided to meet anyone and we talk about it with the other parties BEFORE it gets to the stage where we are having a meet. Personally I think you might have wanted to consider those things before even thinking about setting up a meet. Unless it's only a social meet, in which case, there's no need for you to worry, just be yourselves.
Just to let you know......Friday night was great.
We did it, we did it..... :happy: :happy: :happy:
The night was a success, so many thanks to everyone for their advice. Now we're just looking forward to a repeat performance.
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Netsuke
Quote by Bignetsuke bird
Just to let you know......Friday night was great.
We did it, we did it..... :happy: :happy: :happy:
The night was a success, so many thanks to everyone for their advice. Now we're just looking forward to a repeat performance.

Some details would be nice... :wanker: How did it go? Your fans are waiting! wink
She's already said it was a success, don't think details ought to go in the forum really confused
She came, he came, I came.....we all came together
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Netsuke and Jensen
Your guest was FEMALE?!!!!!!!
LOL
Oh you are even more wicked than I thought ;)
OK time for you to write a story for the Swingers Stories section. Let us know when it's up.
Tania
Sorry babes, did I forget to mention that the third party was female? Ooops! How remiss of me.
Jensen, fickle creature that he is, didn't fancy a mmf 3sum as a first taste of things to cum......lol
Me, I didn't care one way or another.......but Jensen if you're reading this one day we WILL have a 3sum and I WILL choose the permuatation.
So Tania, my darling, a great time was had by all 3 of us, but as to whether I write a story about it......we'll see. Maybe the first time has to stay a bit special.......
BTW Jensen says you look like a gorgeous girl and loves your avatar.
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Netsuke and Jensen
Jensen has good taste! biggrin
Jensen may have good taste....but I also like a good taste......
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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Netsuke
Only taste you are gettting from me is a good spanking when you are naughty girl! :twisted:
Quote by Tania
Only taste you are gettting from me is a good spanking when you are naughty girl! :twisted:

Tania,
It was all Jensen's idea the mff thingy, man's fantasy and all that.
But he would like the smackbottom if you're offering........ rotflmao
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Netsuke