My partner and I are dying to swing with another couple for the first time. The only thing really getting in our way is nerves, mostly worried about jealousy.
Any advice?
We are both bi and both want to swap with the same and opposite sex
Talk, talk and talk some more until you know what you're both OK with and what you're not!
I second what Lapua says, talk and talk more. Then arrange a meet then talk about what you liked and didn't like after the event. It worked well for us.
Good luck x
I don't get it. What's the rush with all of this? Does anyone need to give eveything on day/meet 1 within a few hours of first contact with a complete stranger? Surely the most sensible way forward is to get to know the person(s) you're considering and see how things progress organically, over time. That's how we build our relationships isn't it? If not, then why not just hire a faceless pro for the evening? The worst thing to do is embark on a course of action which you immediately regret whether having felt pushed into it or simply having acted rashly. Anyone who disrespects you for taking your time to decide if you're comfortable is really no different from the sort of person who coerces their partner into sex when they're not ready for it. It's really not good.
