Ok so I have a regular playmate have been seeing him about once a week for the last 6 months, he is not my first playmate from here and I wouldn't consider myself a shy novice, but yesterday something happened that has never happened to me before, while having our second session of the day, we had used some toys and he had been gently and not so gently using a doft whip on my pussy I wad very excited, I lay on my front and he started to finger fuck me (quite hard) I was building up to my 4th or 5th orgasm (I lost count tbh) I started to "squirt" he flipped me over and started thrashing his cock against my squinting pussy and came almost straight away.
Well I was mortified thinking I had pissed myself. We talked about it and he said it was not the first time a woman had "gushed or squirted" over him and it turned him on.
Well I have to ask as it has never happen to me before and the thought of pissing myself again fills me with dread.
is this kind of reaction normal? Will it happen again? Is iy really such a turn on or was he just being nice because I felt bad?
any idea's?
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first time squirt,
The first time can certainly be a bit of a shock if you arent expecting it, you definitely didnt pee yourself or you would have stopped it from happening.
once you get your head around the fact its not you peeing yourself it becomes easier
I had never squirted till last year, now i can do it by myself using my wand and i thoroughly enjoy it, and its a major turn on for sexual partners.
just enjoy it and go with the flow :bounce:
once you get your head around the fact its not you peeing yourself it becomes easier
I had never squirted till last year, now i can do it by myself using my wand and i thoroughly enjoy it, and its a major turn on for sexual partners.just enjoy it and go with the flow :bounce:
Warming the Bed
its one of my party tricks making women squirt for the first time and yes the reaction can be very different from pure euphoria to very embarrassed ive had a girl run away and hide in the toilets at a club due to being embarrassed anyone need lessons?
Sexpert
Can I offer a point of view from the male perspective?
The first encounter I had with a lady who "squirted" (not the word I would personally picked) was just over a year ago when we were playing with a lovely couple in a club.
The lady half of the other couple and I were enjoying some prolonged oral sex. suddenly from nowhere as she reached climax (actually just before) I felt a large amount of warm liquid flood over my face. It caught me by surprise but she encouraged me to carry on. It happened several more times and once I got my head round what was happening I found it so erotic.
I thought this was just a myth and a porn stunt! It is not a stunt, it is not pee and for me at least it is incredibly horny!
In a more relaxed moment later on the lady told me it is when she looses herself in what is happening, her mattress has to be replaced every 12 months and they sleep some nights with bin bags under the sheets in an attempt to protect it.
The first encounter I had with a lady who "squirted" (not the word I would personally picked) was just over a year ago when we were playing with a lovely couple in a club.
The lady half of the other couple and I were enjoying some prolonged oral sex. suddenly from nowhere as she reached climax (actually just before) I felt a large amount of warm liquid flood over my face. It caught me by surprise but she encouraged me to carry on. It happened several more times and once I got my head round what was happening I found it so erotic.
I thought this was just a myth and a porn stunt! It is not a stunt, it is not pee and for me at least it is incredibly horny!
In a more relaxed moment later on the lady told me it is when she looses herself in what is happening, her mattress has to be replaced every 12 months and they sleep some nights with bin bags under the sheets in an attempt to protect it.
Warming the Bed
hi I find a woman who squirts so horny it makes me think I am doing something right whether I am or not is not for me to say but give me a woman who squirts every time especially if I am licking her out at the time mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
The first time I did it was with much rejoice as we had been working on it for some time! It then became a bit of an obsession for him to always make me do it but I started to get fed up with all the laundry (although I found bed mats like they use for toddlers helpful for damage limitation).
'He' has since bitten the dust but I still enjoy a good squirt. It usually takes me (and who I am with) by surprise but I've yet to receive a complaint. If you think about it, how often do you meet a man who considers his 'output' of paramount importance... imagine his delight when he can measure the female output too! :thumbup:
Happy squirting Kitten45
'He' has since bitten the dust but I still enjoy a good squirt. It usually takes me (and who I am with) by surprise but I've yet to receive a complaint. If you think about it, how often do you meet a man who considers his 'output' of paramount importance... imagine his delight when he can measure the female output too! :thumbup:
Happy squirting Kitten45
Orgasminator
the first time this happened to me i was mortified as well thinking i had pee'd myself, and went the loo about 4 times during the session and to prove a point he made me squirt after every visit telling me it wasn't pee but a gush. it wasn't until i had gotten my head around what had gone on and after i had calmed down that i realised what had happened and have enjoyed the effect quite a few times now. i have also had the horror faces from a couple of male partners who didn't realise what was happening either and even 1 guy hit the roof when he thought i had peed on him and he ran out of the room calling me all the names under the sun with the other participants giggling at him as he ran
Warming the Bed
Personally I can't think of anything sexier than when a woman squirts on my face 'cos I know I'm getting it right and really turning her on!
I have seen, in a club, one man run in horror from a squirter but that just showed his lack of experience and as with the above post everyone just laughed at him and his lack of understanding!
Unfortunately I'm not squirter but there's a challenge to anyone who would like to try and make me
:wink:
I have seen, in a club, one man run in horror from a squirter but that just showed his lack of experience and as with the above post everyone just laughed at him and his lack of understanding!
Unfortunately I'm not squirter but there's a challenge to anyone who would like to try and make me
:wink: 
Sex God
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Unfortunately I'm not squirter but there's a challenge to anyone who would like to try and make me
Challenge accepted
Orgasminator
i would also like to add that just because i have squirted does not mean i have cum and i dont squirt every time i cum either. i dont squirt when i am at home or at someones house i can control it enough that i only gush at clubs when i know i am not the one cleaning up/sleeping in the wet patch hehehehehe... i can squirt/gush when i am in the right frame of mind. i have dribbled when totally aroused but have managed to stop myself from totally letting go when am in an environment when its not appropriate or appreciated.
i have seen guys bolt from the play areas in clubs from disgust thinking its a watersports trick, without understanding what is happening, but i have giggled at them am still had a great time. i hope that all is enjoyed and all have had a good time
i have seen guys bolt from the play areas in clubs from disgust thinking its a watersports trick, without understanding what is happening, but i have giggled at them am still had a great time. i hope that all is enjoyed and all have had a good time
Sex God
Have any of you lovely ladies been reduced to tears when squirting?
Orgasminator
Welcome to the world of squirters xx
Orgasminator
I love making a pussy squirt for the first time, the look of shock on a girls face as she is left panting cross eyed in a puddle! :rascal:
Nothing to be embarrassed about - most guys find it hot as hell ;)
Nothing to be embarrassed about - most guys find it hot as hell ;)
Warming the Bed
I love making women squirt and gush especially when I'm inside them mmmmmmm
My Mrs is a major Squirter now, She had never done it until I git Her to do it ..
No, She nearly does it every time (or quite a few times with me!) and She was still embarrassed by it , so when She read this Thread and saw I wasn't taking the piss out of Her by saying it's Natural .. She was relieved ..
Personally, I love making a Woman squirt, either with my fingers, tongue or cock .. in my mind, it's the only time the Woman can't fib about Enjoying what we're doing!
So, thanks for putting this thread up
No, She nearly does it every time (or quite a few times with me!) and She was still embarrassed by it , so when She read this Thread and saw I wasn't taking the piss out of Her by saying it's Natural .. She was relieved ..
Personally, I love making a Woman squirt, either with my fingers, tongue or cock .. in my mind, it's the only time the Woman can't fib about Enjoying what we're doing!
So, thanks for putting this thread up
Ohhhhhhh wish I was a squirter!!
BF was trying for ages and in the end just gave up
Frustrated was the word of the day that day! I do think he is just too impatient and expects me to just do it with very little effort... in fact i made him read through a thread on another forum and he was rather astounded at how long it could take first time lol
so if anyone wants a challenge
BF was trying for ages and in the end just gave up
Frustrated was the word of the day that day! I do think he is just too impatient and expects me to just do it with very little effort... in fact i made him read through a thread on another forum and he was rather astounded at how long it could take first time lolso if anyone wants a challenge
Warming the Bed
Here are a few tips that may help and that I find useful - I'm no expert so only my humble opinion and not by any means the only way to achieve it of course...
Don't forget, not every woman can squirt so don't be too frustrated if it don't happen.
1. Must be patient with techniques and don't rush
2. the more you think of it the less chance it will happen as you will get anxious
3. Two fingers inside, pointing upwards, rubbing along the top/front moving in a 'walking motion with the longest strokes possible so that the stimulation is nice and constant. This is hard for a man to do without tiring so every now and then, alternate a few fast hard thrusts nice and deep. The speed is what seems to finally tip you over the edge.
4. Keep the tingles up by touching anywhere and everywhere all over the body..the aim is to be lost in the moment not both concentrating so hard on one thing. So whatever normally arouses nipps, clit, inner thighs, whispering in her ear that you are actually Brad Pitt etc etc lol
5. If you feel ANY desire to pee... try your best to ignore it. Learn to accept that this is actually the build up to the squirt.
6. Above all, relax and lose yourself in the moment. Make sure the speed and top/front pressure is constant so the feeling can build. Let the pee feeling overcome you don't suppress it.
7. I tend to go for prolonged foreplay which usually leads to both parties being seriously 'horned up' but especially the 'squirtee'. I think being very aroused plays the biggest part in managing to achieve a squirt. Having said that, some women squirt almost instantly, some during penetration (a very nice feeling round your cock) some only with fingers etc etc... So no hard and fast rules.
Good luck all. Oh and you will know if this all worked cause you will need to set up an account at the local bed-linen supplier!
Don't forget, not every woman can squirt so don't be too frustrated if it don't happen.
1. Must be patient with techniques and don't rush
2. the more you think of it the less chance it will happen as you will get anxious
3. Two fingers inside, pointing upwards, rubbing along the top/front moving in a 'walking motion with the longest strokes possible so that the stimulation is nice and constant. This is hard for a man to do without tiring so every now and then, alternate a few fast hard thrusts nice and deep. The speed is what seems to finally tip you over the edge.
4. Keep the tingles up by touching anywhere and everywhere all over the body..the aim is to be lost in the moment not both concentrating so hard on one thing. So whatever normally arouses nipps, clit, inner thighs, whispering in her ear that you are actually Brad Pitt etc etc lol
5. If you feel ANY desire to pee... try your best to ignore it. Learn to accept that this is actually the build up to the squirt.
6. Above all, relax and lose yourself in the moment. Make sure the speed and top/front pressure is constant so the feeling can build. Let the pee feeling overcome you don't suppress it.
7. I tend to go for prolonged foreplay which usually leads to both parties being seriously 'horned up' but especially the 'squirtee'. I think being very aroused plays the biggest part in managing to achieve a squirt. Having said that, some women squirt almost instantly, some during penetration (a very nice feeling round your cock) some only with fingers etc etc... So no hard and fast rules.
Good luck all. Oh and you will know if this all worked cause you will need to set up an account at the local bed-linen supplier!
