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Quote by whiplash
how typical of the regular forumites to welcome an old face instead of welcoming a new one!!!! now i know why i tend to keep my opinions to myself n not post..talk about clique
One member welcomed back an old member and one took the mick out of him........not a big clique then?
Did I miss your welcome to the new member? Must not just be reserved to the clique then
:welcome: Hamma to the friendly Cafe
From the content of your post I am unsure if it is a hello or an advert. If it is an advert and you want me to move it to the LMU then give a shout on here or by PM
Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts
how typical of the regular forumites to welcome an old face instead of welcoming a new one!!!! now i know why i tend to keep my opinions to myself n not post..talk about clique
One member welcomed back an old member and one took the mick out of him........not a big clique then?
Did I miss your welcome to the new member? Must not just be reserved to the clique then
:welcome: Hamma to the friendly Cafe
From the content of your post I am unsure if it is a hello or an advert. If it is an advert and you want me to move it to the LMU then give a shout on here or by PM
Dave_Notts
just an observation but ty regular formunite for replyin......echoes my sentiments exactlty
Quote by whiplash
just an observation but ty regular formunite for replyin......echoes my sentiments exactlty
In the first part of my post I added to the thread to point out your hypocrisy, as you failed to add a welcome either. Just an observation too.
My second part of the post was a welcome and to ask a new member if he would want his post to be moved, as this is my role to faciltate as a site moderator. Now if this means that being a moderator means I am in a clique, then you could be right. As there is ten of us who work closely together.
If you wish to debate "cliques" then you can add to the numerous ones that have been started in the past or start a new one yourself.
Dave_Notts
Sex God
Quote by hamma_1
Hi everyone I'm very new to the scene I'm a straight male looking to meet single females and couples, I haven't met any one yet and looking for genuine people who knows how to treat a newbie, I await your responses
Hi Hamma, welcome to the site and just ignore these lot, they are all suffering from pmt (but dont tell them I told you)
The best advise I can give you on here is to get yourself known and let people get used to seeing you around. There are a lot more single males looking for meets than there are couples and single females, so you need to stand out in the crowd. I havent checked your profile, but some tasteful pictures and a decent profile often helps.
Also, try nipping into the chatroom and have a look for any local rooms which are open and have a chat with some of the regulars. The Lets Meet Up part of the forum often as social events (drinks etc) advertised and that can help.
Good luck and have fun
Edit - just checked your profile and the cock pic is not a lot of help. Most of the guys on here do have a cock so unless yours can do something spectacular, like go to the bar on its own and get a round in, most people want to see what the cock belongs to (ie a nice body, or possibly a face photo left privately if necessary). Also your profile says absolutely nothing about you, it does not sell you and shows nothing of your personality. If I was you, I would work on the profile first :wink:
i didnt expect to be shouted down by a mere observation... obviously i've said the wrong thing as peeps often do who dont post often......i myself did not offer a welcome as i'm not a regular poster n my sentiments dont mean sod all unless of course i'm having a pop...(present post included)
Kaznkev ty
Kaznkev ty
Quote by whiplash
i didnt expect to be shouted down by a mere observation... obviously i've said the wrong thing as peeps often do who dont post often......i myself did not offer a welcome as i'm not a regular poster n my sentiments dont mean sod all unless of course i'm having a pop...(present post included)
Kaznkev ty
It doesn't matter whether you a regular poster or not, your sentiments are as valid as any other posters'. Quantity is never a measure of quality.
Sex God
:welcome: to the site, or back to the site
Now I'm off back to the relative safety of CA where it can be much more friendly..........:giggle:
Now I'm off back to the relative safety of CA where it can be much more friendly..........:giggle:
Quote by flower411
n there was me thinkin as a site mod u was supposed to remain impartial ....dave notts u surprise me ..you seem to want to carry this on..like I Said it was a mere observation
So make your observation and move on !!!
You didn`t even bother to acknowledge the thread starter ....
If you have an issue, why hijack a newcomers thread ?
I don't even think the newcomer has even noticed he has caused a stir
BTW if you come back hamma welcome to the forums I echo what others have said, something on your profile is always a good start.
Sex God
PMSL
Amazing. In one page of threads.
Try to play down the issue
Blame the poster who raised awareness of the issue
Change the subject
Claim the original post is in the wrong location
Belatedly try to do the right thing
Sure you are not all a bunch of politicians?
Sorry to everyone in the thread as I think the above covered you all but thats how it came across to me. Still gave me alaugh though
Ohh and welcome to the forums (ass covered)
Amazing. In one page of threads.
Try to play down the issue
Blame the poster who raised awareness of the issue
Change the subject
Claim the original post is in the wrong location
Belatedly try to do the right thing
Sure you are not all a bunch of politicians?
Sorry to everyone in the thread as I think the above covered you all but thats how it came across to me. Still gave me alaugh though
Ohh and welcome to the forums (ass covered)
Sex God
Quote by hamma_1
Hi everyone I'm very new to the scene I'm a straight male looking to meet single females and couples, I haven't met any one yet and looking for genuine people who knows how to treat a newbie, I await your responses
:welcome:
I hope you have fun here... seems like your post has started some so good work to you! Enjoy!
Quote by markz
looks like your in for along wait......
You want him don't you?
Hello stranger! :kiss:
*throws in knicker untwister for those who need it* :mrgreen:
Warming the Bed
Why would he be in for a long wait..
Hi, I'm also a newcomer (the word newcomer having a particular resonance on a site like this ) and have quickly discovered that there's a lot of other blokes out there. It's a bit like swimming in a shoal of fish (or a shoal of cocks if you like) which makes it very hard to stand out.
Any practical advice, therefore, would be welcome.
) and have quickly discovered that there's a lot of other blokes out there. It's a bit like swimming in a shoal of fish (or a shoal of cocks if you like) which makes it very hard to stand out.Any practical advice, therefore, would be welcome.
Sex God
Quote by bloggs32
Hi, I'm also a newcomer (the word newcomer having a particular resonance on a site like this
Any practical advice, therefore, would be welcome.
Have a look to see if there are any chatrooms for your area, if you 'do' chat rooms. Other than that, maybe post on this forum, get yourself known a bit. maybe go to a munch or social near to you if you can.
Nice profile too
Sex God
Quote by bloggs32
Hi, I'm also a newcomer (the word newcomer having a particular resonance on a site like this
Any practical advice, therefore, would be welcome.
Hi Bloggs, welcome to the madhouse :wink: and as Freckedbird says below, have a nosey round the chatroom and see if there is any local ones. Great profile by the way, and nice to see a tastful pic :wink:
The only other advise I can give, is move north :twisted:
Sexpert
Hi ya guys and welcome.
From my point of view....
General advice; Chill, have fun and try not to take it too seriously.
Observations....
There seems to be 3 areas to the site; Adverts, chat rooms and forums. People tend to use one of these and maybe just flit around the others.
Profiles; Read the Profiles as well as look at the pics. Have something interesting on yours.
Treat people as you would in real life, it will set you aside ;o)
From my point of view....
General advice; Chill, have fun and try not to take it too seriously.
Observations....
There seems to be 3 areas to the site; Adverts, chat rooms and forums. People tend to use one of these and maybe just flit around the others.
Profiles; Read the Profiles as well as look at the pics. Have something interesting on yours.
Treat people as you would in real life, it will set you aside ;o)
Wouldn't it be lovely to join a site for swingers and find ourselves inundated with offers of sex from the most goregous women on the planet.....and then there is real life.
Based on averages you are one of many thousand single guys and as such your chances of cuccess are in the region of 1 in 10,000. Posting a look at me thread, which this probably is, is unlikely to get you the attention you seek.
You comment on a lack of success after only 2-3 weeks...are you this impatient in real life?
Here is little different to the real world ...you will only succeed if you are prepared to put effort, personality and patience into it.
As others have commented, post regularly in the forums, use te chat rooms wisely ....not .....anyone want a fuck in Grimsby in 10 minutes...type approach and best of all attend social events as advertised in the lets meet up threads...these are by far the best way to get your face and personality known and from that your personailty will earn you all the success it deserves.
Iwish you the very best of good luck.
The very reason I joined this site and persevered with it for so long is becuase I was inspired by the divergence of views, the open mindedness and tolerance of its members. Nowadays it seems to me that too many are too quick to jump on the backs of others and make cheap personal points.
I wholly understand where Ms Whiplash is coming from and feel she was trying to be constructive in influencing this thread to be generally positive in its response to a new member . For her to be damned for making this her personal priority is a pretty poor and narrow minded show in my opinion, an it comes acoross to me tat others are trying to be personal and score cheap shallow points.I hope we as a site are beyond that.
Ndge
Based on averages you are one of many thousand single guys and as such your chances of cuccess are in the region of 1 in 10,000. Posting a look at me thread, which this probably is, is unlikely to get you the attention you seek.
You comment on a lack of success after only 2-3 weeks...are you this impatient in real life?
Here is little different to the real world ...you will only succeed if you are prepared to put effort, personality and patience into it.
As others have commented, post regularly in the forums, use te chat rooms wisely ....not .....anyone want a fuck in Grimsby in 10 minutes...type approach and best of all attend social events as advertised in the lets meet up threads...these are by far the best way to get your face and personality known and from that your personailty will earn you all the success it deserves.
Iwish you the very best of good luck.
The very reason I joined this site and persevered with it for so long is becuase I was inspired by the divergence of views, the open mindedness and tolerance of its members. Nowadays it seems to me that too many are too quick to jump on the backs of others and make cheap personal points.
I wholly understand where Ms Whiplash is coming from and feel she was trying to be constructive in influencing this thread to be generally positive in its response to a new member . For her to be damned for making this her personal priority is a pretty poor and narrow minded show in my opinion, an it comes acoross to me tat others are trying to be personal and score cheap shallow points.I hope we as a site are beyond that.
Ndge
