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It's utterly lovely for all concerned if everybody plays nicely! x
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Just arranged a 4some with my hubby and two men from sh. Not done this before and really looking forward to it. Got a rough idea of what will happen but has anyone done this and can tell me what its like with 3 men inside you at the same time.
Has it happened? How did it go? Was it as good as it seems it should be? We've talked about this but not had it happen yet.
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Just arranged a 4some with my hubby and two men from sh. Not done this before and really looking forward to it. Got a rough idea of what will happen but has anyone done this and can tell me what its like with 3 men inside you at the same time.
Has it happened? How did it go? Was it as good as it seems it should be? We've talked about this but not had it happen yet.
Was invited to same some years back; advice? Take time to get used to each other, guys need to treat lady gently, light touching, compliments-we spent so long doing this we all went flaccid until the action started in earnest. One leveller was that we were all of similar size, no sense of competition with " Cock" dominating. Really important to carry on touching and complimenting after the money shots, nowt worse that "wham, bam, thank you M'am"! And some choccies to leave on the way out. Have a lovely evening!! xxx Jon
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Was invited to same some years back; advice? Take time to get used to each other, guys need to treat lady gently, light touching, compliments-we spent so long doing this we all went flaccid until the action started in earnest.
Yup. Have been there myself.
The lady in question was utterly insatiable in her quest for making her fantasy come true however the three of us suddenly became useless and remained useless until the good lady decided on a different strategy.
It's actually quite embarassing.
When you find yourself in the amazing situation that I and two friends found ourselves in, it seems too good to be true. and that is where the reality and not the fantasy kicks in.
One lady demanding to be fcuked ragged by three blokes and not a hard cock in sight.
Three guys trying to get it up, whilst the lovely lady tried to inspire was an awkward situation to say the least.
How did we get things going?
The lady in question decided to drag one of the guys to the bedroom (not me) and got things going. Once the fire was started she called on the other two, naturally me and to join in. And it worked. I cannot explain why , but it did. I guess that the sight, sounds and atmosphere created was enough to ignite the passions of everyone and we went from full on limp mode, to full on "let's satisfy the desires of the lady as she wants".
And my god, when it got going, it really got going. :twisted:
My lessons learned.
1. The lady was in control and not the guys.
2. Fantasy and reality are two different things.
3. When you learn to let go, sex with multiple people can be amazing.
4. Know the scenario. The girl wanted three cocks. She did not want three cocks in the idiot sense.
5. Previous experience was needed. Ladies need to feel important in the MMMF scenario.
If they do not feel as though they are the centre of attention AND in control of the situation, then it won't work.
6. In MMMF, there will inevitably be, male to male contact. i.e. a leg to an arm, a leg to a leg, even, a cock to a cock. This is something that males have to get over. There are four people in a bed. Only one is female. Male to male contact will happen.
7, Priority is the satisfaction of the woman.
8, Never forget observation number 7.
9, If it all fails, don't take it to heart. Have a laugh about it, have a drink or two together and don't take it personally. People have different rhythms and different wants and needs. If you get lucky and it works out perfectly, then you deserve the gold medal.
10. Don't forget observation number 7.
All the best to you all,
Bell
