My wife are interested in swinging. we both haven't done it before and don't have an idea where to start. any advise
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Talk to her about the things she fantasises about, in particular when she is masturbating, then talk about the fantasies you have, in particular when you are masturbating.
If you have any fantasies that are the same, then you talk about if you want them to become a reality.
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Kat
If you're sure you're BOTH committed to trying all you can do is try. Expect to get your clothes off and to see your partner do the same and to play/be played with by another couple. If you find either of you doesn't like it be prepared to jmake it the first andlast time, an experience to forget but to know that at least you tried. Fortunately for us it worked and we love it but we can imagine it isn't for everyone. It is something you must both want to try.