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At last my wife has agreed to extend our sexual activity but only to the watch and be watched at this time. We would like to know the best place to go where there will be few if any single men. She would like to know what to wear if we go to a club as she is bothered about outside. She also has a scar on her right breast and thinks that everybody would stare at it. How do I deal with that situation.
Any help would be appreciated.
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Why dont you try Partners @ Bury on couples nights?
That way there wouldn't be any single guys & there isn't any pressure to do anything.
You arrive in normal dress & change in to a towel when you get there. I've got to admit the first time I went there I think the comment was that I looked like a rabbit caught up in headlights :shock:
The people there are all shapes & sizes, I thought I would be more self concious than I was, but nobody bats an eye so I'm positive that nobody would stare at a scar.
Give it a try
you never know unless you try
That way there wouldn't be any single guys & there isn't any pressure to do anything.
You arrive in normal dress & change in to a towel when you get there. I've got to admit the first time I went there I think the comment was that I looked like a rabbit caught up in headlights :shock:
The people there are all shapes & sizes, I thought I would be more self concious than I was, but nobody bats an eye so I'm positive that nobody would stare at a scar.
Give it a try
you never know unless you try Hi John 
welcome to you and Mrs John 
What you'll find depends on what you're looking for really. If it's a meet you want to try, then pop along to Let's Meet Up forums and see what's going on there. In here, we get to know each other, make new friends and generally have a great time. The ads and chatrooms may be worth a look for you and also check out any socials/munches in your area that you could pop along to and get to know people.
The only advice I would give to you and the mrs would be to say take it slowly. Don't rush in and arrange meets all over the shop or it might get her running in the other direction! Arrange one meet first ( male/female/couple depending on what your wife wants to try ) and make it a nice relaxing evening, take things as they come and don't be put off by people not turning up.
Hope everything goes ok and you have fun !
welcome to you and Mrs John What you'll find depends on what you're looking for really. If it's a meet you want to try, then pop along to Let's Meet Up forums and see what's going on there. In here, we get to know each other, make new friends and generally have a great time. The ads and chatrooms may be worth a look for you and also check out any socials/munches in your area that you could pop along to and get to know people.
The only advice I would give to you and the mrs would be to say take it slowly. Don't rush in and arrange meets all over the shop or it might get her running in the other direction! Arrange one meet first ( male/female/couple depending on what your wife wants to try ) and make it a nice relaxing evening, take things as they come and don't be put off by people not turning up.
Hope everything goes ok and you have fun !
I can't comment on clubs as its not something I do however I'm more self concious about my body than anyone I know having been in more knocks and scrapes than I care to remember including being sent through the back window of a car in my teens so scars are in an abundance . So I can apriciate her concern and truthfully there is no need to worry We are all differant may it be looks shape or size and quite frankly no person worth anything will find it an issue
We are all differant may it be looks shape or size and quite frankly no person worth anything will find it an issue Quote by radcliffe002000I do hope she's is comfortable with this & not doing it to keep you of her back mate...
At last my wife has agreed to extend our sexual activity
Quote by radcliffe002000I doubt you would have any problem there but please be warned... it's not a quick & easy process!
We would like to know the best place to go where there will be few if any single men.
If you wanna quick shagg then by all means work your way thru all the single guys you can find I just hope you & your wife are very thick skined
Quote by radcliffe002000There is no written law that say just coz you want some extra playmate you have to look like anyway different than you normaly do..
She would like to know what to wear if we go to a club as she is bothered about outside.
If your wife wants to play & she decides to wear patent leather thigh high boots & a belt for a skirt, what will you wear?
Quote by radcliffe002000
She also has a scar on her right breast and thinks that everybody would stare at it. How do I deal with that situation.
Tell her that your the one who is in love with her & if anyone else out there has a problem with that then they don't, never will & as far as your concerned they will always be beneath you if they can judge your wife because of some 'percieved defect'
Quote by radcliffe002000
Any help would be appreciated.
Just be honest... & above all... I'm not saying you ever will... just dont push her
I've heard some disgusting stories where the girl has just cried after an encounter she felt she 'had' go through with.
You will need to & have to look out for you wife ok!
Hope I haven't scarred the bejeezus outta ya both... have fun!
Quote by radcliffe002000I do hope she's is comfortable with this & not doing it to keep you of her back mate...
At last my wife has agreed to extend our sexual activity
Quote by radcliffe002000I doubt you would have any problem there but please be warned... it's not a quick & easy process!
We would like to know the best place to go where there will be few if any single men.
If you wanna quick shag then by all means work your way thru all the single guys you can find I just hope you & your wife are very thick skined
Quote by radcliffe002000There is no written law that say just coz you want some extra playmates you have to look any different than you normaly do..
She would like to know what to wear if we go to a club as she is bothered about outside.
If your wife wants to play & she decides to wear patent leather thigh high boots & a belt for a skirt, what will you wear?
Quote by radcliffe002000
She also has a scar on her right breast and thinks that everybody would stare at it. How do I deal with that situation.
Tell her that your the one who is in love with her & if anyone else out there has a problem with that then they don't, never will & as far as your concerned they will always be beneath you if they can judge your wife because of some 'percieved defect'
Quote by radcliffe002000
Any help would be appreciated.
Just be honest... & above all... I'm not saying you ever will... just dont push her
I've heard some disgusting stories where the girl has just cried after an encounter she felt she 'had' go through with.
You will need to & have to look out for you wife ok!
Hope I haven't scarred the bejeezus outta ya both... have fun!
Quote by redpanthermanI do hope she's is comfortable with this & not doing it to keep you of her back mate...
At last my wife has agreed to extend our sexual activity
Quote by radcliffe002000I doubt you would have any problem there but please be warned... it's not a quick & easy process!
We would like to know the best place to go where there will be few if any single men.
If you wanna quick shagg then by all means work your way thru all the single guys you can find I just hope you & your wife are very thick skined
Quote by radcliffe002000There is no written law that say just coz you want some extra playmate you have to look like anyway different than you normaly do..
She would like to know what to wear if we go to a club as she is bothered about outside.
If your wife wants to play & she decides to wear patent leather thigh high boots & a belt for a skirt, what will you wear?
Quote by radcliffe002000
She also has a scar on her right breast and thinks that everybody would stare at it. How do I deal with that situation.
Tell her that your the one who is in love with her & if anyone else out there has a problem with that then they don't, never will & as far as your concerned they will always be beneath you if they can judge your wife because of some 'percieved defect'
Quote by radcliffe002000
Any help would be appreciated.
Just be honest... & above all... I'm not saying you ever will... just dont push her
I've heard some disgusting stories where the girl has just cried after an encounter she felt she 'had' go through with.
You will need to & have to look out for you wife ok!
Hope I haven't scarred the bejeezus outta ya both... have fun!
Well put my little pussycat.....
If she is doing this begrudgingly you risk wrecking your relationship. Ask yourself if its worth it.
If its really what she wants- good luck. Other than that, listen to RPM- some sound advice there!
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