first timers at party!

11 Jul 2006

Hi,
our apologies if this has already been discussed (which i am sure it has). But we are heading to our first swingers party on saturday at a private house in essex. What can we expect? what is the ruling for approaching people etc. Just any general good advice welcomed. thanks biggrin

11 Jul 2006

There are various 'rules/terms' for Munches and Socials etc but the only person who can really advise you what to expect from a private party is the person throwing the party.

11 Jul 2006

hi,
thanks guys, yesi suppose that makes sense really, sorry for asking a silly question!

11 Jul 2006

You aren't the first and certainly won't be the last!
biggrin

Pull up a chair and have some fun in here, we don't bite!
... with the exception of Meaty of course.....

11 Jul 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
You aren't the first and certainly won't be the last!

Pull up a chair and have some fun in here, we don't bite!
... with the exception of Meaty of course.....

Oh I don't know about that Kiss_Me... you can have a nibble on me! lol

11 Jul 2006

:shock:

11 Jul 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
You aren't the first and certainly won't be the last!

Pull up a chair and have some fun in here, we don't bite!
... with the exception of Meaty of course.....

Oh I don't know about that Kiss_Me... you can have a nibble on me! lol

11 Jul 2006

Quote by wildboo
Hi,
our apologies if this has already been discussed (which i am sure it has). But we are heading to our first swingers party on saturday at a private house in essex. What can we expect? what is the ruling for approaching people etc. Just any general good advice welcomed. thanks

i'd say don't "expect" anything,just go prepared ie. as it's your first visit to a swingers party firstly sort out you and your partners limits b4 you even start to drive there.
both compose a questionaire and chat to the hosts on the phone with any concerns you may have explaining it's your first visit to a party so may need guidance once there.
also don't drink too much, and just in case take some condoms>

11 Jul 2006

Quote by Dollyminx
You aren't the first and certainly won't be the last!

Pull up a chair and have some fun in here, we don't bite!
... with the exception of Meaty of course.....

Oh I don't know about that Kiss_Me... you can have a nibble on me! lol

You want me to nibble on you so much that you posted it twice huh? :rascal:
:lickface:

11 Jul 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
You aren't the first and certainly won't be the last!

Pull up a chair and have some fun in here, we don't bite!
... with the exception of Meaty of course.....

Oh I don't know about that Kiss_Me... you can have a nibble on me! lol

You want me to nibble on you so much that you posted it twice huh? :rascal:
:lickface:
Didn't realise I had!! Obviously the SH posting gizmo is trying to improve my chances!! :lol:

11 Jul 2006

Some things to think about...
If either of you is in any way squeamish about same-sex-fun, then ask the organisers if the party is 100% straight or not. If it's not, then be sure you are mentally prepared so see that sort of thing without expressing any displeasure. Tolerance is rule no.2
"No means no" is of course rule no. 1, do not hesitate to invoke rule 1 where necessary, you must never feel that more experienced party goers can get you to to do anything you are not happy with.
Set your boundaries by agreement between yourselves in advance. Decide your policy on condom usage, playing apart, and everything else you can think of beforehand and stick to it.
I hope you enjoy yourselves :-)

11 Jul 2006

Quote by Mister_Discreet
Some things to think about...
If either of you is in any way squeamish about same-sex-fun, then ask the organisers if the party is 100% straight or not. If it's not, then be sure you are mentally prepared so see that sort of thing without expressing any displeasure. Tolerance is rule no.2
"No means no" is of course rule no. 1, do not hesitate to invoke rule 1 where necessary, you must never feel that more experienced party goers can get you to to do anything you are not happy with.
Set your boundaries by agreement between yourselves in advance. Decide your policy on condom usage, playing apart, and everything else you can think of beforehand and stick to it.
I hope you enjoy yourselves :-)

Spot on, and don't make BIG decisions when your too horny to think!

11 Jul 2006

Well, I wasnâ€™t expecting to sit under the buffet table, armed with a pair of salad servers screaming â€œput some flucking clothes on you sick pervertâ€ every time some poor unfortunate reached for a Val au vent. redface

Stormwalker
Ok, I made it up

11 Jul 2006

We can't pretend to be experts but we have been to a few parties and the only advice we could offer is be yourselves, we mean that in the nicest way possible in that don't be led on to do things your not ok with just because you feel you have to and also never expect anything just because its a party... sounds simple but the ones we have been to have ranged from a simple get together with nice flirty people to a well organised 'lets romp the newbies'..... well thats what they thought lol... poor buggers!!! Just be yourselves and don't have any pre set plan.. have fun, most are just that just pure fun with people just like you who are probably just as nervous!
Mike and Julie xx

12 Jul 2006

Quote by firelizard
Well, I wasnâ€™t expecting to sit under the buffet table, armed with a pair of salad servers screaming â€œput some flucking clothes on you sick pervertâ€ every time some poor unfortunate reached for a Val au vent.
Stormwalker
Ok, I made it up

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