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:? not loose,just well lubricated 
Sex God
Quote by satin
Ah, right... OK...... well lubed it is then...... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
But you will be loose after you've taken two hands
Master of Sex
anyway as nothing has been up my marmite motorway 
for quite sometime now,youll be lucky to get a finger in :shock:
born again virgin :angel:
for quite sometime now,youll be lucky to get a finger in :shock: born again virgin :angel:
Sex God
You should try inserting a bedside lamp as well . Then you could do shadow puppets !
I met a lady last year who warned me before hand that she would only come when fisted. We did lots of other things, fucking vaginally & anally etc, that she loved (& I was rather keen on as well :twisted: ). But when I slid my fingers in & made a fist, she came 3-4 times (we lost count 
), & it was a wonderful sight to see someone so turned on.
She told me that a close friend could put his hand inside her cunt & wank himself off. :shock:
), & it was a wonderful sight to see someone so turned on.She told me that a close friend could put his hand inside her cunt & wank himself off. :shock:
Sex God
i never believed it was possible after MANY failed attempts.
but once it had worked( lots of patience.. and even more lube!) i loved it!!!
it is not something i could do or even want to do all the time, but as a rare "treat" i cant fault it.
but once it had worked( lots of patience.. and even more lube!) i loved it!!!
it is not something i could do or even want to do all the time, but as a rare "treat" i cant fault it.
Orgasminator
i tried fisting the concrete wall by my front door recently out of total frustration,its not to be recomended as the broken bones prove lol....and to get em fixed i had to go into CRWHO?? (crewe) let that be a lesson to all fisters.
never tried anything dirty with my fist though
never tried anything dirty with my fist though
Quote by piercedJon
Being serious, for a moment, a woman died from V fisting a few miles from me, a couple of years ago, the guy nearly went to prison for it.
Died from fisting? Did he use both hands or something? Strange, a womans vagina can pass a babies head through it, but not a fist. He must have been too vigorous then?
but the diffarence between childbirth and fisting is when passing a child your body has gone thro hours of preperation and opened up a whole 10cm to help you thro the ordeal so you cant really compair the two, i have given birth but i can't take a fist and many people have tried
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Being serious, for a moment, a woman died from V fisting a few miles from me, a couple of years ago, the guy nearly went to prison for it.
Died from fisting? Did he use both hands or something? Strange, a womans vagina can pass a babies head through it, but not a fist. He must have been too vigorous then?
but the diffarence between childbirth and fisting is when passing a child your body has gone thro hours of preperation and opened up a whole 10cm to help you thro the ordeal so you cant really compair the two, i have given birth but i can't take a fist and many people have tried
Don't forget though hun that the bit which dilates during childbirth is the Cervix-not the vagina.
The vagina itself though does become stretched by childbirth, so perhaps the more times you've given birth the easier it gets. Having said that, I think I'm tighter now than I was after my first sproglet was born thanks to going overboard with pelvic floor exercises.
It's bound to depend on the individuals level of elasticity & arousal. I've only had it done to me once (you know who you are
) and the sensation was uncomfortable- but in a really horny way! :rascal:BTW-I now can't stop thinking about Borat & the rubber fist!
you have to totally trust your partner.... it can take a few attempts..(and patience!)
we brought this lube called 'fisting gel' and its seriously good stuff.....(so it should be for £20!)i thought mr Minx would never get his fist in there...but this stuff works magic
and it didnt hurt at all (and i am very petite)
good luck!!! x ♥ x
we brought this lube called 'fisting gel' and its seriously good stuff.....(so it should be for £20!)i thought mr Minx would never get his fist in there...but this stuff works magic
and it didnt hurt at all (and i am very petite)
good luck!!! x ♥ x
Quote by jaymar
No matter how many times I read this thread, I'm still getting the 'ouch' factor... sorry girls I just cannot comprehend it!, four fingers is my max! :eeek:
Jaymar, i think that you have to be completly turned on by it for it to feel good. Maybe thats why it hurts some people, because they are afraid of it to start off with.
Louise xx
Ps hence the reason i am yet to post in the thread about anal
. Quote by louise_and_joe
No matter how many times I read this thread, I'm still getting the 'ouch' factor... sorry girls I just cannot comprehend it!, four fingers is my max! :eeek:
Jaymar, i think that you have to be completly turned on by it for it to feel good. Maybe thats why it hurts some people, because they are afraid of it to start off with.
Louise xx
Ps hence the reason i am yet to post in the thread about anal
.think you're probably right, it doesn't tickle my fancy... so to speak!
Sex God
Have done it to another fem did not like it
it was like getting a chicken opening it`s legs and sticking you fist in it that's how i would describe it .
it was like getting a chicken opening it`s legs and sticking you fist in it that's how i would describe it .
Sex God
Quote by jaymar
No matter how many times I read this thread, I'm still getting the 'ouch' factor... sorry girls I just cannot comprehend it!, four fingers is my max! :eeek:
Jaymar, i think that you have to be completly turned on by it for it to feel good. Maybe thats why it hurts some people, because they are afraid of it to start off with.
Louise xx
Ps hence the reason i am yet to post in the thread about anal
.think you're probably right, it doesn't tickle my fancy... so to speak!
it tickles mine!
You definately have to be in the right mood and frame of mind to enjoy it though, and it doesn't hurt if you go sloooooow, but it still hurts a bit- i think that's all part of the reason some enjoy it- pleasure/pain......
:wink: m
Quote by mazandden
No matter how many times I read this thread, I'm still getting the 'ouch' factor... sorry girls I just cannot comprehend it!, four fingers is my max! :eeek:
Jaymar, i think that you have to be completly turned on by it for it to feel good. Maybe thats why it hurts some people, because they are afraid of it to start off with.
Louise xx
Ps hence the reason i am yet to post in the thread about anal
.think you're probably right, it doesn't tickle my fancy... so to speak!
it tickles mine!
You definately have to be in the right mood and frame of mind to enjoy it though, and it doesn't hurt if you go sloooooow, but it still hurts a bit- i think that's all part of the reason some enjoy it- pleasure/pain......
:wink: m
I can honestly say that i always enjoy it when im in a really dirty mood :shock:
.Louise xx
Quote by sparkly_minx
you have to totally trust your partner.... it can take a few attempts..(and patience!)
Couldn't agree more :thumbup:
Mrs C was very uptight (:doh
the first time we tried, and the result was disappointing. But after a couple of attempts she realised I wasn't about to split her in two and she relaxed. That was the magic moment when everything fell into place.It's not something we do a lot, so when we do it can still take a while to stretch her enough to take my shovel-sized hands. But the power of her orgasms is certainly worth the time spent.
One recommendation though: Use disposable latex gloves. They help to prevent infections, cover the fingernails, and save you having to wash all that lube off your hand afterwards.
BTW sparkly... PM us if you ever want to swap notes with some locals
;-) 
Orgasminator
I've just posted on an old 'Anal Sex' thread and now I come across a 'Fisting' thread!!!
Just two of the things near the top of a very long list of "Things A Very Boring Old Git Has Never Done Sexually - But Would Love To Try"!!!
With the right person I am very much into prolonged foreplay (passions allowing, of course!!! ) and the experience of taking the time, care & patience to pleasure a woman from something quite extreme as fisting must be incredibly enjoyable for the man. It would certainly appeal to my nature, to give a lady such intense pleasure and have to work at it to ensure it is enjoyable AND safe for her.
To be that relaxed and secure with a partner must be incredibly intimate & trusting.
Just two of the things near the top of a very long list of "Things A Very Boring Old Git Has Never Done Sexually - But Would Love To Try"!!!
With the right person I am very much into prolonged foreplay (passions allowing, of course!!!
) and the experience of taking the time, care & patience to pleasure a woman from something quite extreme as fisting must be incredibly enjoyable for the man. It would certainly appeal to my nature, to give a lady such intense pleasure and have to work at it to ensure it is enjoyable AND safe for her.To be that relaxed and secure with a partner must be incredibly intimate & trusting.
Master of Sex
Quote by sparkly_minx
you have to totally trust your partner.... it can take a few attempts..(and patience!)
we brought this lube called 'fisting gel' and its seriously good stuff.....(so it should be for £20!)i thought mr Minx would never get his fist in there...but this stuff works magic
and it didnt hurt at all (and i am very petite)
good luck!!! x ♥ x
If you want some recommendations on other good lubes to use for fisting (or other heavier insertion play), here's a few that come up regularly on sites dealing with this side of sex:
Eros/Pjuur - silicon based, odorless, colourless, never dries out
Jlube - originally developed as a vetinary lube. Buy it pre-mixed or as a powder you dissolve into water. Forms extended polymers that stay "wet" for ages. Easy to clean off
Crisco - yes the all-American cooking fat. Not suitable for use with condoms or latex gloves
Lots of shops sell other prioprietary lubes (usually at a considerably higher price). What you need to look for is something that is viscous and doesn't dry out.
If you're doing this (particularly if it's a new experience), you should try to avoid being faceless from drink or other imbibements. The fister and fistee need to be attuned to what is happening and alchohol etc can dull the senses so that you ignore any signals your body may be sending.
Take your time and relax - don't force things. Ensure you're comfortable (particularly important for the fistee). Don't start out for the first time being determined to take it all come what may - it takes most people some time to manage it and it won't happen easily (or at all) on every occasion. Be just as gentle coming out as going in. Make sure your nails are trimmed and filed. No sharp edges and no jewellery (even under gloves).
Taking a fist (vaginally or anally) is partially physical and partially psychological. A gyno friend of mine once remarked that every adult has the potential - both openings are basically muscle. It's about learning the technique and having patience that allows you to practice it successfully.
There are loads of very well informed sites online dedicated to this. Just google it (also trying "handballing" - the American term).
