flasher

11 Sep 2006

Ive just got back from taking the furry flea bag for a walk on the beach, its nice and quiet at this time of the day. Anyway Im wandering along and there is another dog walker further down the beach walking towards me, as they get closer I notice its a lady who Ive seen a few times before. Today though she changed her direction so she would walk straight past me.
As she gets really close I notice she has her top lifted up and is showing her tits, now its a bit nippy at 0630 in the morning they were well hard . so as I manage to take my eyes away from her chest I see her face with a great big smile on .... Shit ! by now she has past me and I did or said nothing!.
But what should I have done?
Nothing ,as happened ?
Stop her to talk ?
grope , sorry sieze the moment ?
drop my pants and flash to her ?
I will be walking the dog from now on every day , but what if she does it again
What do I do ? lol

11 Sep 2006

Quote by mezagog
I will be walking the dog from now on every day , but what if she does it again
What do I do ?

Do nothing but smile or possibly say hello, anything else could risk a swift kick to the knackers :kick:

11 Sep 2006

What Dawnie said. She might just have an exhibitionist streak but that's not an invitation to test the melons, so to speak. Let her make the next move and see how far she wants to take it.
This sort of thing never happens to me banghead

I'm off to buy a dog bolt

11 Sep 2006

Now that's a hard one redface

A small ice breaker would have been called for there. Yes any physical contact would mean you'd be rushing home for a needle and thread to stich them back on as you're not quite sure why she was doing it and it doesn't mean it's an automatic invitation.
Maybe a question of does this girl do this to everyone on the beach would come to mind ?
And which beach ? Just out of curiosity of course !

11 Sep 2006

next time she does that, just smile and say "same time tomorrow?" if she says yes, keep it going for a few days, then say "so when do i see the rest, or is that reserved until the summer"
put the ball in her court so to speak

11 Sep 2006

Quote by blueeyes6969
And which beach ? Just out of curiosity of course !

Barry Island tomorrow. See you then wink

11 Sep 2006

Quote by essex34m
next time she does that, just smile and say "same time tomorrow?" if she says yes, keep it going for a few days, then say "so when do i see the rest, or is that reserved until the summer"
put the ball in her court so to speak

no, no, no, NO! rolleyes

11 Sep 2006

Quote by PoloLady
next time she does that, just smile and say "same time tomorrow?" if she says yes, keep it going for a few days, then say "so when do i see the rest, or is that reserved until the summer"
put the ball in her court so to speak

no, no, no, NO! rolleyes

im simple and naive, what am i doing wrong then?

11 Sep 2006

Acts of exhibitionism are quite often just that â€“ nothing more â€“ not a taster of things to come â€“ not an invite to push for more.
The exhilaration of doing something naughty can be enough.
Even if exhibitionists do consider doing more (under the right circumstances) it is more likely to happen when things evolve at their pace rather than feeling they are being pushed or it is expected.
There are obviously exceptions to this generalisation â€“ but you donâ€™t yet know whether it is or isnâ€™t.
Smile and appreciate what is happening at the timeâ€¦ if it turns out to be more regular than a once in a blue-moon thing, then consider a phrase which expresses your appreciation rather than suggests you are expecting more. Something along the lines of â€œyou certainly brighten up my morningsâ€. How they respond should give you a better indication of their motivation for flashing the norks.
If they do reply to your comment in a friendly manner, it can be a good idea to use a follow-on phrase which will both encourage further conversation and show that in being an exhibitionist you do not think they are just an easy target â€¦ such as â€œI sure do admire you.. it must feel quite liberating?â€
If they tell you to â€œpiss offâ€ â€“ it means they are not interested in taking thing further. lol

11 Sep 2006

thats me told ;)

11 Sep 2006

?
And which beach ? Just out of curiosity of course !
I would tell you but I bet tomorrow there would be hundreds of dogs down there that have never even seen the sea before and all with male owners.
some great advice there , Im just hoping that was not just a one off. Think it best to see what develops ,,,,, but then again :twisted:

11 Sep 2006

It's funny though to think if this was a bloke flashing his todger at a woman, she would be dialling 999 while swiftly applying knee pressure to his squidgy bits. A woman does it to a guy and he wants to go back for more.
Funny old world dunno

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Dawnie

I will be walking the dog from now on every day , but what if she does it again
What do I do ?

Do nothing but smile or possibly say hello, anything else could risk a swift kick to the knackers :kick:
but then again maybe u ought to explain dogging!!!!!!!!!!!!

:rotflmao:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

11 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
It's funny though to think if this was a bloke flashing his todger at a woman, she would be dialling 999 while swiftly applying knee pressure to his squidgy bits. A woman does it to a guy and he wants to go back for more.
Funny old world

Very good point! Maybe whats good for the goose is not always good for the gander!

12 Sep 2006

woooo hooooo !
she did it again, I said something like " hi ,that makes walking the dog a lot more fun in the morning" , she just smiled and carried on.
This time I was able to move up into the dunes and watch her . She flashed to another guy further down the beach ! .
Oh well looks like its something she does for her kicks and not for me :cry:
I`m still going back for more in the morning lol

12 Sep 2006

So do you now put it down to exhibitionism or do you think it's her kind of ice breaking chat / introduction - would go down quite well at a munch surprised

12 Sep 2006

Quote by blueeyes6969
So do you now put it down to exhibitionism or do you think it's her kind of ice breaking chat / introduction - would go down quite well at a munch

Depends how nice her breasts are! :rascal:
bolt

12 Sep 2006

Quote by blueeyes6969
do you think it's her kind of ice breaking chat / introduction - would go down quite well at a munch

you try it and I'll tell you :twisted:

12 Sep 2006

Quote by Kiss
So do you now put it down to exhibitionism or do you think it's her kind of ice breaking chat / introduction - would go down quite well at a munch

Depends how nice her breasts are! :rascal:
Exhibitionism most likely as she did it to another guy as well
but it wont stop me going back for another flash.
as for her breasts ,well very nice and pert and as I said its nippy at that time in a morning so very nice nipples as well
: lol

:lol: :lol:

12 Sep 2006

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Quote by PoloLady
Something along the lines of â€œyou certainly brighten up my morningsâ€. :

What? So "Nice tits!" silly

hwoar: wouldn've been the right thing to say then. It's fairly passive! lol

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12 Sep 2006

I suppose this would have been one of those times when it would be useful to have a simple business card type thing with your SH name on one side and the SH url on the other?
Hey Admin..... now there's an idea :idea:

12 Sep 2006

Quote by cu3b4ll
I suppose this would have been one of those times when it would be useful to have a simple business card type thing with your SH name on one side and the SH url on the other?
Hey Admin..... now there's an idea :idea:

Ummmm,,, now theres an Idea.
wheres that WORD icon gone?

12 Sep 2006

Quote by mezagog
I suppose this would have been one of those times when it would be useful to have a simple business card type thing with your SH name on one side and the SH url on the other?
Hey Admin..... now there's an idea :idea:

14 Sep 2006

Although it sounds as though this woman gets a thrill out of doing this (and fair play to her), it's also true that she could well be a victim before the week's out.
Flashing to strange guys, no-one around so early in the morning, sand dunes......sounds like a recipe for her disaster....it only takes the wrong type of guy to walk past her sad

I don't mean to look on the negative side, but I really hope this woman stays safe and uninjured while satisfying this thrill.

14 Sep 2006

Quote by picoNblue
Although it sounds as though this woman gets a thrill out of doing this (and fair play to her), it's also true that she could well be a victim before the week's out.
Flashing to strange guys, no-one around so early in the morning, sand dunes......sounds like a recipe for her disaster....it only takes the wrong type of guy to walk past her
I don't mean to look on the negative side, but I really hope this woman stays safe and uninjured while satisfying this thrill.

Good point..
And guess who would end up as a suspect . She has not been down anymore since then but maybe an Idea to keep a wider berth when I see her next :shock:

14 Sep 2006

Quote by mezagog
Although it sounds as though this woman gets a thrill out of doing this (and fair play to her), it's also true that she could well be a victim before the week's out.
Flashing to strange guys, no-one around so early in the morning, sand dunes......sounds like a recipe for her disaster....it only takes the wrong type of guy to walk past her
I don't mean to look on the negative side, but I really hope this woman stays safe and uninjured while satisfying this thrill.

Good point..
And guess who would end up as a suspect . She has not been down anymore since then but maybe an Idea to keep a wider berth when I see her next :shock:
Maybe she's been reading this thread dunno

Good point there picoNblue. There is a thrill in exhibitionism ( done a little myself but from a safe distance ) but I imagine it can send out the wrong signals to some people.

14 Sep 2006

personally i think it is wrong.
If a man flashed at a woman he would risk arrest for indecent exposure and quite rightly so. it shoud be the same for women.
she might get a thrill out fo flashing, but it does not mean the person she does it to will get the same thrill.
personally i am not offended by any nudity but i know a lot of people who are.
i myself can get a thrill by being naked sometimes but there is a place for it.
all sexual activity should be about consent, and the " victim" of flashing has not given consent.
maybe she should take herself to a naturist/nudist beach or otherwise keep her clothes on.

14 Sep 2006

I often wondered about that. If my female neighbour sunbathed naked in the garden I'd probably get into trouble for looking over the fence. However, if I was sunbathing naked in my garden and she looked over the fence.... who'd be in trouble? dunno

14 Sep 2006

Quote by cu3b4ll
I often wondered about that. If my female neighbour sunbathed naked in the garden I'd probably get into trouble for looking over the fence. However, if I was sunbathing naked in my garden and she looked over the fence.... who'd be in trouble?

Her - when she got splinters in her bits from trying to climb over to get to you wink

15 Sep 2006

Quote by lavabubble
I often wondered about that. If my female neighbour sunbathed naked in the garden I'd probably get into trouble for looking over the fence. However, if I was sunbathing naked in my garden and she looked over the fence.... who'd be in trouble?

Her - when she got splinters in her bits from trying to climb over to get to you wink

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I was speaking metaphorically (sp?). You obviously ain't seen my neighbour... she'd probably chuck her zimmer at me. If you saw her naked sunbathing you'd probably just think her leather coveralls needed ironing :shock: