Its very interesting watching or listening to two people flirting.......
They can be giving off signals via body language....... the most common one for a woman is to touch or twist her hair in her fingers... thus drawing the man's eyes to her... a man is more likely to mirror the womans posture and stance.... e.g she bends her arm to the right... he will do the same... indicating a common harmony...
They can be chatting quite innocently but using code words or double entendres to one another...
They could be flirting via a medium like text or chatroom.... again watch the responses and if you're next to the person receiving the texts.... their breathing alters and their face colour changes..... heightened body temperature.....indicating excitement..
Me..... i'm a body language and carefully chosen words flirt......
Which are you??????
Or maybe you have another method of flirting altogether............lol
equi-princess xxx
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erm...ok...bugger...who've I been flirting with subconsciously in the chatroom? <eek>
I seem to find that I often use flirtation as a defence mechanism to hide an inner shyness.
Maybe it's because I need reassurance that I am accepted and maybe admired by the opposite sex to boost my own self esteem.
I'm often called a flirt by my partner, even though I am not actually aware that I am flirting, even whenm it comes to talking to the check-out girl at Sainsburys.
Maybe it's because I need reassurance that I am accepted and maybe admired by the opposite sex to boost my own self esteem.
I'm often called a flirt by my partner, even though I am not actually aware that I am flirting, even whenm it comes to talking to the check-out girl at Sainsburys.
I'm definately a people watcher - fascinating what some folks will say or do.
What could start out with just words and/or looks is often punctuated with gentle touches; a hand laid softly on the forearm of the recipitent, removing a tiny piece of fluff from the jacket, a hand laid on the shoulder as one moves off. The pleasure received from these tiny things is usually evident on the faces of those playing the flirting game.
If engaging in flirtation I tend to use looks, flutter eye lashes (oldie but goodie still), a beaming smile.
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What could start out with just words and/or looks is often punctuated with gentle touches; a hand laid softly on the forearm of the recipitent, removing a tiny piece of fluff from the jacket, a hand laid on the shoulder as one moves off. The pleasure received from these tiny things is usually evident on the faces of those playing the flirting game.
If engaging in flirtation I tend to use looks, flutter eye lashes (oldie but goodie still), a beaming smile.
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I am an admitted flirt, always have been. I generally find myself mirroring a lot but I am really a master of the double-entendre, just trying to push the boudries a bit to see where they break. 
I do have a tip though, when you feel a bot of a spark, reach out and do the knee-touch thingy. If she replies by touching your knee later on in the conversation, you are in with a chance.
if she replies by grabbing your dick, you are alread in. :twisted:
I do have a tip though, when you feel a bot of a spark, reach out and do the knee-touch thingy. If she replies by touching your knee later on in the conversation, you are in with a chance.
if she replies by grabbing your dick, you are alread in. :twisted:
I'm often called a flirt by my partner, even though I am not actually aware that I am flirting, even whenm it comes to talking to the check-out girl at Sainsburys.
my now ex used to say that about me too,i just thought iw as being friendly i tend to be the aware flirt,ive done heaaaaaaaaaps of management courses and they all talk about body language i find i ofeten over anaylise things now and dont enjoy the moment which is when all the best flirting happens,
im a guy and ive just been told walking about with your dick in your mouth aint flirting its just showing off.
my now ex used to say that about me too,i just thought iw as being friendly i tend to be the aware flirt,ive done heaaaaaaaaaps of management courses and they all talk about body language i find i ofeten over anaylise things now and dont enjoy the moment which is when all the best flirting happens,
im a guy and ive just been told walking about with your dick in your mouth aint flirting its just showing off.
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I got told the other day I was a flirt, as if 
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Next munch you can practice on with me
Sex God
I never flirt!
Sexpert
Flirting is sooooo much fun.. Wasn't all that long ago I was writing in another thread about it, but I'd have to say I tend to use various levels of innuendo and looks with the eye, the cheeky daring-you-to-reply and raise the level one and starting from quite innocent chat that someone with a dirty mind would have to make an effort with, to blatant he-could-only-be-implying-sexual-stuff lines (but still with a hint of innocence).. It's fun going more and more sexual but still pretending like you're completely innocent most of the time (or if asked) while obviously meaning more. I'm smiling and getting a little flushed even writing about doing it... Flirting, I mean... (of course... yeah yeah...)
Flirting, I mean... (of course... yeah yeah...) 
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I am not much of a one for flirting, but I do occasionally pick up on and then respond to, the very subtle, almost indistinguishable body language flirting, especially facial expression, but it is only those tiny little flirty changes in the face that I enjoy. The more vigerous flirting that includes innuendo etc. I find all rather 'Terry Thomas' to the point of being ridiculous and embarasing....each to their own, but for me I simply don't do flirting in the sense that I think most folk are talking about.
Sexpert
You mention the "vigorous" flirting. There is actually a point where it gets too obvious and overdone, and at that point it isn't sexy or attractive anymore - it's just desparate. To me anyway.
I remember having a conversation about flirting with a girl a few years ago and saying that the playing with the hair thing is sexy, and she started to do it way too much and too obviously. At which point it was an instant turn-off. Even with being a fully-signed-up fan of hair (on the head, before you twist my meaning ;) ).
Fluttering the eyelids is probably most prone to being overdone, cos it's more obvious and takes special effort whereas you can tend to do the other physical things without thinking about them or realising you are. It is quite entertaining watching a couple's body language and working out whether and how much they're into each other. Much easier to see from outside than as one of them.
I remember having a conversation about flirting with a girl a few years ago and saying that the playing with the hair thing is sexy, and she started to do it way too much and too obviously. At which point it was an instant turn-off. Even with being a fully-signed-up fan of hair (on the head, before you twist my meaning ;) ).
Fluttering the eyelids is probably most prone to being overdone, cos it's more obvious and takes special effort whereas you can tend to do the other physical things without thinking about them or realising you are. It is quite entertaining watching a couple's body language and working out whether and how much they're into each other. Much easier to see from outside than as one of them.
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I do the old 'charm 'em with humour' followed by the classic 'brushing against them gently with a sly smile' and finishing with the crafty 'hand up the skirt' for a quick feel' move..........
....but I still don't understand why my bosses fired me?
Classy! :lol2:
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I do the old 'charm 'em with humour' followed by the classic 'brushing against them gently with a sly smile' and finishing with the crafty 'hand up the skirt' for a quick feel' move.....
....but I still don't understand why my bosses fired me?
Purely on an academic point of technique you understand - d'you maintain the sly smile as you slide the hand up the skirt? Works fer me every time I want a smack in the kisser
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I do the old 'charm 'em with humour' followed by the classic 'brushing against them gently with a sly smile' and finishing with the crafty 'hand up the skirt' for a quick feel' move.....
....but I still don't understand why my bosses fired me?
Purely on an academic point of technique you understand - d'you maintain the sly smile as you slide the hand up the skirt? Works fer me every time I want a smack in the kisser
It depends on what I find up the skirt!!! :shock:
Damd I hate Scotsmen..... :twisted:
flirting is a natural part of life, people can do it without even realising it, its part of the human mind linked to all living creatures in a way, its a courting ritual of sorts, trying to find a mate and it can be expressed in so many ways as many of you have mentioned already, from a glance, to a slight touch, to a well placed compliment, i flirt all the time and always have
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Its very interesting watching or listening to two people flirting.......
They can be giving off signals via body language....... the most common one for a woman is to touch or twist her hair in her fingers... thus drawing the man's eyes to her... a man is more likely to mirror the womans posture and stance.... e.g she bends her arm to the right... he will do the same... indicating a common harmony...
They can be chatting quite innocently but using code words or double entendres to one another...
They could be flirting via a medium like text or chatroom.... again watch the responses and if you're next to the person receiving the texts.... their breathing alters and their face colour changes..... heightened body temperature.....indicating excitement..
Me..... i'm a body language and carefully chosen words flirt......
Which are you??????
Or maybe you have another method of flirting altogether............lol
equi-princess xxx
Not too sure how to answer this one equi, though it does make me think, you don't really sit there and notice your own reactions whilst flirting with a woman, well i don't. If you were to sit there noticing the slightest movement would you not purposely be trying to build up a rapor with someone? Being manipulative with the tricks of flirtation? Nah, I just go with the flow and let it all go naturally rather than thinking "ooo, she's got her legs crossed so i best mimic her by crossing my feet". Maybe i'm tired and this isn't coming out right? Betcha your going to make me think of this next time i'm in a bar hitting it off with a woman and it'll throw me off cursing all of my chances of actually getting a number, yeah thanks! :P
Eye contact is also important... if flirting face to face....the eyes should remain fairly locked onto yours.... a conversation with someone whose eyes constantly slide away from you is a non-starter..... normally implies they can't wait to end the conversation !!!
Also if the flirting is exciting one or both parties.... the pupils dilate as the pleasure increases...
Blinking a lot.... unless your contact lenses are slipping.... usually means that the person talking to you is lying.....
So..... little flirtatious glances..... long lingering looks and long eye contact are all signs that the meeting is going well....
People watching is fascinating..... watch some of the people around you today.... what will their body language subconsciously reveal.......?????
equi-princess xxx
Also if the flirting is exciting one or both parties.... the pupils dilate as the pleasure increases...
Blinking a lot.... unless your contact lenses are slipping.... usually means that the person talking to you is lying.....
So..... little flirtatious glances..... long lingering looks and long eye contact are all signs that the meeting is going well....
People watching is fascinating..... watch some of the people around you today.... what will their body language subconsciously reveal.......?????
equi-princess xxx
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It's that look across a room, straight to the eyes, that says, I'm so going to shag you later.
