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For the women How long should it be in for
Orgasminator
Quote by rotundman
It might be asking how long is a piece of string
This is a simple one to answer:
Twice the distance from it's middle
The WHOOSH Man
Honest answer.
I don't need that much foreplay, but we like it. I lube up pretty quick - I mean the other night my two willing male victims both seemed shocked, with cries of "you're wet already?!" FFS... didn't hear me say "oooh, you have hard-on's already?!" But I digress.
IMHO I hate it when some guy says "I could do this all night". Who told men that it is better to just keep pumping away for hours? Sheesh that's boring.
Once I have cum it can be quite uncomfortable if a guy keeps thrusting away. If he knows what he's going, or lets me take the lead, then he can just wait a mo, nice and still, feel my 'aftershocks' die down and we can slowly start again.
That kind of 'all night' I love.
Also, like a quickie, mind.
HTH
I don't need that much foreplay, but we like it. I lube up pretty quick - I mean the other night my two willing male victims both seemed shocked, with cries of "you're wet already?!" FFS... didn't hear me say "oooh, you have hard-on's already?!" But I digress.
IMHO I hate it when some guy says "I could do this all night". Who told men that it is better to just keep pumping away for hours? Sheesh that's boring.
Once I have cum it can be quite uncomfortable if a guy keeps thrusting away. If he knows what he's going, or lets me take the lead, then he can just wait a mo, nice and still, feel my 'aftershocks' die down and we can slowly start again.
That kind of 'all night' I love.
Also, like a quickie, mind.
HTH
Sex God
Let's re-phrase the question a mo:
To the guys: how long do you like to fuck for?
Now (hopefully) you realise what a stupid question this is
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To the guys: how long do you like to fuck for?
Now (hopefully) you realise what a stupid question this is
:roll: :roll: No it's not!! Like I said, a lot of guys really think that as long as they keep it hard for hours and keep pumping away, then therir women will be happy.
I think that just discussing this is great. TBH not many people would be happy saying "I've had enough" or "You're boring me" or to be happy to chuck their muck straight away, then start again, which is ok, too.
The only stupid question is one you wanna ask but don'T!
I think that just discussing this is great. TBH not many people would be happy saying "I've had enough" or "You're boring me" or to be happy to chuck their muck straight away, then start again, which is ok, too.
The only stupid question is one you wanna ask but don'T!
Sex God
OK. Honest answer...
5mins and 43 seconds exactly. Any more or any less and it just ain't good enough
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5mins and 43 seconds exactly. Any more or any less and it just ain't good enough
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Sex God
As Judy says, if it were the same every time it would be boring, so there can't really be an optimum can there? I think though for most women there's probably a minimum and a maximum, and the range between the two is usually enough to provide plenty of variety and scope for a bloke to demonstrate his repertoire of techniques, or in my case, having never actually developed a technique, just read the signals and make it up as he goes along. 
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From a bloke's perspective - specifically mine - I'd say the optimum duration is about 3 nanoseconds after she's had enough, and that's going to be different every time I think. Some women orgasm during vaginal intercourse, some don't, and for those who do, some have to stop immediately whereas some need time to slow down and build up again, which again varies a lot, while others just carry on full steam ahead. Women who don't orgasm during intercourse obviously need to be kept interested or they'll dry up, and when they do, that's your signal to stop.
Personally I have only ever once been in a situation where it went on too long for me, I think she was going for some kind of olympic record or something, and while a lot of blokes might imagine that it would be great to be with a woman who just goes on and on and on and on, let me tell you the pain in your bollox has to be experienced to be believed!
Ice
.From a bloke's perspective - specifically mine - I'd say the optimum duration is about 3 nanoseconds after she's had enough, and that's going to be different every time I think. Some women orgasm during vaginal intercourse, some don't, and for those who do, some have to stop immediately whereas some need time to slow down and build up again, which again varies a lot, while others just carry on full steam ahead. Women who don't orgasm during intercourse obviously need to be kept interested or they'll dry up, and when they do, that's your signal to stop.
Personally I have only ever once been in a situation where it went on too long for me, I think she was going for some kind of olympic record or something, and while a lot of blokes might imagine that it would be great to be with a woman who just goes on and on and on and on, let me tell you the pain in your bollox has to be experienced to be believed!
Ice
Sex God
Ah, but how long is TOO long? :shock: . With some folk, 2 seconds would be a day too long
Definatley stupid question,It depends on your mood,foreplay or not,length of time since your last shag,how knackered you are before,etc,etc,etc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To be quite honest i always enjoy it sooo much im not sad enough to look at the clock before and after!!!
Or maybe ill set my stopwatch each time for the next week and make an average :roll: :roll:
Clare,xxx
To be quite honest i always enjoy it sooo much im not sad enough to look at the clock before and after!!!
Or maybe ill set my stopwatch each time for the next week and make an average
:roll: :roll: Clare,xxx
Hard to answer this one i think, i know wife aint fussed so long as ive enojoyed it...Some nights i last 5-10 mins, other nights 1-2 hours...Also depends what postion, doggy ALWAYS make me come quick and the wife!!!! She dont seem to mind solong as its not wham bam thank you mam type of fuck....
Berto
Berto
kinda quickie is as satisfying as a long drawn "make luuuuuurrrrrrrvvvvvvvveeeee" 
session!.
then it doesn't really matter ....Yep, I'm definitely a foreplay girl ........ if a bloke spends too long 'pounding' away then I just lose sensation and end up either counting cracks in the ceiling/bits of fluff on the floor (delete as appropriate)
But then I do like to do it then stop for a while, back to foreplay, then back to sex again could do that for hours
So long as I don't cum, otherwise I want to stop :shock: Is that unusual? Most people seem to be able to cum, then get right back on that brink again. I seem to cum really violently which wipes me out for ages afterwards
But then I do like to do it then stop for a while, back to foreplay, then back to sex again could do that for hours
So long as I don't cum, otherwise I want to stop :shock: Is that unusual? Most people seem to be able to cum, then get right back on that brink again. I seem to cum really violently which wipes me out for ages afterwards
Sounds like a male orgasm, the powerful ones knock me for six, cant even walk for 5 mins after while I wait for the colours to fade away.. anyway I digress, and no I not suggesting you a man mischief 
IMHO it is not that silly a question, just because the answer is depends on mood, person, and situation doesn't mean a guy might want to improve his technique by asking, you all too hard on him. In Mrs TnH case we often give up on the pure penetrative sex after she has finished off and I let her come back down in my arms, we may go back to me with hands later...
But as was said different partners, different ways. Be gentle and let em guide you and focus on them, when they had their fun it only fair to turn the focus back on you...
IMHO it is not that silly a question, just because the answer is depends on mood, person, and situation doesn't mean a guy might want to improve his technique by asking, you all too hard on him. In Mrs TnH case we often give up on the pure penetrative sex after she has finished off and I let her come back down in my arms, we may go back to me with hands later...
But as was said different partners, different ways. Be gentle and let em guide you and focus on them, when they had their fun it only fair to turn the focus back on you...
Sex God
Quote by MISSCHIEF
Yep, I'm definitely a foreplay girl ........ if a bloke spends too long 'pounding' away then I just lose sensation and end up either counting cracks in the ceiling/bits of fluff on the floor (delete as appropriate)
But then I do like to do it then stop for a while, back to foreplay, then back to sex again could do that for hours
Fancy a drink?
So long as I don't cum, otherwise I want to stop :shock: Is that unusual? Most people seem to be able to cum, then get right back on that brink again. I seem to cum really violently which wipes me out for ages afterwards
I suspect that female claims of multiple orgasms are about as exaggerated as male claims of equine dimensions. Most people need time to recover and that can be anything from a few minutes to a few hours. Those who just carry on without missing a beat are in the minority I assure you.
Ice
Orgasminator
Quote by bohemian1
variaty are the spices of good looooooooove life.
mmmmm Heinz 57 is mine
The WHOOSH Man
Thank God Misschief, I was begining to think I was abnormal. For me - when I orgasm, its a long time - could even be 12 hours!!! until I fancy another go, but if I am persuaded I would not orgasm again! Looking for offers to prove me wrong though!
I don't like carrying on for more than 5-10 minutes after the event as it gets uncomfortable, but how long before is anyones guess!
I don't like carrying on for more than 5-10 minutes after the event as it gets uncomfortable, but how long before is anyones guess!
