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Quote by freckledbird

There are members here whose sole purpose of being on the site seems to be to dissect other people's posts with their 'critical analysis' inorder to make the poster look foolish, and themselves look superior.

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Sorry Serge - you are saying what exactly? Or are you - like so many - not taking what these guys are saying seriously? Don't you think perhaps we ought? I certainly dislike and am embarrassed by the way some people have been treated here recently.
Jezzay.
Erm, Jezzay, I think the Sarge was just taking the piss out of Venus?
Sorry Venus, I don't mean 'just' to be derogatory or anything. redface
or possibly sarge was making a point in an ironic kinda way highlighting the spelling mistake in "inorder" a la certain grammarians and critical analysts on here? dunno
n x x x :P
I was in the Dogging forum last night and made an off the cuff remark about shagging a copper to avoid arrest while dogging being tantamount to , then they would have something to nick you for. Granted, not up to my usual comedic standard and maybe not the best choice of comment for my first posting but I was tired and, truth be known, a little low.
I got this snotty post in return that certain people wouldnt want to meet me out dogging because of my attitude, narrow mindedness, yadayadayada. Essentially they tried to make out that I was an uncultured grunt. This from people who had read two lines of print. That was it, I went off on a rant and told them what I thought and questioned their judgement. If in the course of venting my annoyance, anyone saw this as me flaming a regular poster then I can only apologise. This was not the case. I was standing my ground.
Funnily enough the culprit, rather than apologise and get on with it, tried to change the subject. Which I also pointed out. Needless to say, she stopped posting on that thread.
If anyone thinks I go on a bit, tell me, I'll try to be more concise in my postings but I do have a thing about explaining myself clearly (I'm doing it right now!)
The truth often hurts but I'd rather be hurt than lied to and I'm sure many others feel the same. It seems to have become the norm for people to lie to each other and tell each other what they think the other person wants to hear. The world would be a better place if we all told each other the truth, however harsh. Usually the truths that hurt us the most are tthose which are personal to us. If we all told each other the absolute truth about how we felt about each others ac ions, then in the long run we would all raise our game and be better people ( after a teething period of general bloodshed and violence...)
Go on then, tell me...lol
honestly, stay, i did and im glad i did, i felt intimidated at first but once people get to know you, you will realise we are all mates and get on. theres lots of banter.
aw i love you all. mwah mwah. (thats so out of character for me)
regards
Orph
Quote by Libra+Love
worship @ davej
Give the man a fucking cigar!

I have a vibrator that's shaped like a cigar but i doubt davej would like that ...
Getting back on topic ... perhaps alongside a bitching thread we need a pat ont he back good vibe thread to life the spirit of things ....
oh dear that's twice I mentioned vibe's ... fuck I think I'm frustrated .. It's all that fruit in the GFZ!!!!!
Calista xx
Quote by jezzay
Sorry Serge - you are saying what exactly?

Jezzay
My reply was an attempt to endorse Venus' point with humour - obviously wasted!! confused lol :lol:

Quote by jezzay
Or are you - like so many - not taking what these guys are saying seriously? Don't you think perhaps we ought?

No I'm not taking it seriously. I come here for a break from the seriousness of life. I come here to enjoy myself and have a break from real life. I have made about five and a half thousand posts on here and I bet you would struggle to find a hundred that are serious.
So, with your permission, I shall carry on doing what I do best!! wink :undecided: :undecided: :undecided:
Oh fuck.......anyone got a spare finger!
Quote by neilinleeds

There are members here whose sole purpose of being on the site seems to be to dissect other people's posts with their 'critical analysis' inorder to make the poster look foolish, and themselves look superior.

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Sorry Serge - you are saying what exactly? Or are you - like so many - not taking what these guys are saying seriously? Don't you think perhaps we ought? I certainly dislike and am embarrassed by the way some people have been treated here recently.
Jezzay.
Erm, Jezzay, I think the Sarge was just taking the piss out of Venus?
Sorry Venus, I don't mean 'just' to be derogatory or anything. redface
or possibly sarge was making a point in an ironic kinda way highlighting the spelling mistake in "inorder" a la certain grammarians and critical analysts on here? dunno
n x x x :P
Quite possibly Neil, quite possibly. :dunno:
Quote by freckledbird

There are members here whose sole purpose of being on the site seems to be to dissect other people's posts with their 'critical analysis' inorder to make the poster look foolish, and themselves look superior.

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Sorry Serge - you are saying what exactly? Or are you - like so many - not taking what these guys are saying seriously? Don't you think perhaps we ought? I certainly dislike and am embarrassed by the way some people have been treated here recently.
Jezzay.
Erm, Jezzay, I think the Sarge was just taking the piss out of Venus?
Sorry Venus, I don't mean 'just' to be derogatory or anything. redface
Sarge was just taking the piss out of the fact I typed 'inorder' as one word instead of two......so he could look superior :giggle:
Dunno what the fuck MOMF was on about, I just got back from the pub!
guitly conscience maybe dunno
I'm easy :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by VenusnMars
I'm easy :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

We've heard bolt
Calista xx
Quote by Calista

I'm easy :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

We've heard bolt
Calista xx rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: blink behave cali!!! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Quote by bailiffs

I'm easy :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

We've heard bolt
Calista xx rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: blink
behave cali!!! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
me???? never ... I like the :smackbottom: too much you obviously don't know me as well as you think :twisted:
C x
Fair enough. I know that really. BUT - there were some guys at the beginning who made a fair and valid point which is being lost in all the bickering which should really go elsewhere.
Can't you see why people are put off? What if Blue, Calista, Mal, Serge, Sappho The Bard oh god - the list goes on for ever - had been put off by this reaction in their early days. What a loss to SH that would have been. Can't we be just a little less judgemental, more considerate and tolerant? We can. It's what we're best at.
Jezzay.
Quote by Calista

I'm easy :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

We've heard bolt
Calista xx rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: blink
behave cali!!! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
me???? never ... I like the :smackbottom: too much you obviously don't know me as well as you think :twisted:
C x
i know u like it thats why i said it :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: wink
Quote by jezzay
Fair enough. I know that really. BUT - there were some guys at the beginning who made a fair and valid point which is being lost in all the bickering which should really go elsewhere.
Can't you see why people are put off? What if Blue, Calista, Mal, Serge, Sappho The Bard oh god - the list goes on for ever - had been put off by this reaction in their early days. What a loss to SH that would have been. Can't we be just a little less judgemental, more considerate and tolerant? We can. It's what we're best at.
Jezzay.

I've been down the pub......
I love you man *sob*
Venusxxx
Hello and welcome sweet and sour , please do stick around for a bit , its not always as its been lately , honest biggrin .Dino,xxxxxxxxx
Quote by VenusnMars
Fair enough. I know that really. BUT - there were some guys at the beginning who made a fair and valid point which is being lost in all the bickering which should really go elsewhere.
Can't you see why people are put off? What if Blue, Calista, Mal, Serge, Sappho The Bard oh god - the list goes on for ever - had been put off by this reaction in their early days. What a loss to SH that would have been. Can't we be just a little less judgemental, more considerate and tolerant? We can. It's what we're best at.
Jezzay.

I've been down the pub......
I love you man *sob*
Venusxxx
I haven't been down the pub,........................................................ but I still love you !! confused :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by jezzay
OK - I give up

lololol now grab a glass of wine and see how long it takes for venus to fall asleep drunk ;)
(hugs)
Calista xx
Quote by Dino.
Hello and welcome sweet and sour , please do stick around for a bit , its not always as its been lately , honest biggrin .Dino,xxxxxxxxx

How would you know NEWBY!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by Calista
OK - I give up

lololol now grab a glass of wine and see how long it takes for venus to fall asleep drunk ;)
(hugs)
Calista xx
Or throw up on Sarge lol
Quote by Sgt Bilko
Fair enough. I know that really. BUT - there were some guys at the beginning who made a fair and valid point which is being lost in all the bickering which should really go elsewhere.
Can't you see why people are put off? What if Blue, Calista, Mal, Serge, Sappho The Bard oh god - the list goes on for ever - had been put off by this reaction in their early days. What a loss to SH that would have been. Can't we be just a little less judgemental, more considerate and tolerant? We can. It's what we're best at.
Jezzay.

I've been down the pub......
I love you man *sob*
Venusxxx
I haven't been down the pub,........................................................ but I still love you !! confused :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
You poor damn fool! rotflmao
Venusxxx
zipidy do dar, zipidy day, my oh may what a wonderfull day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
can we sing some pub songs??? :happy: :happy: :happy:
Quote by freckledbird
OK - I give up

lololol now grab a glass of wine and see how long it takes for venus to fall asleep drunk ;)
(hugs)
Calista xx
Or throw up on Sarge lol
Or both!! confused :? :? :? :lol: :lol:
Quote by freckledbird
OK - I give up

lololol now grab a glass of wine and see how long it takes for venus to fall asleep drunk ;)
(hugs)
Calista xx
Or throw up on Sarge lol
now that would definitely be worth adding to a classic SH moment thread ....
quick find venus some alcohol ;)
C xx
Nonononono get her to dance and jig about a bit, churn it all up :twisted:
Quote by Libra+Love
worship @ davej
Give the man a fucking cigar!

they can make these :shock: jeez and there's me paying nigh on £5 for Embassy filter that havn't evolved in the 30 years I've been smoking them.
Quote by Calista
now that would definitely be worth adding to a classic SH moment thread ....
quick find venus some alcohol ;)

:kick:
Was going to smack your bottom but you'd enjoy it too much!!
ive got a lovely buch of coconuts(av ya?)
there they are all standing in a row...........
big ones small ones, some as big as your head
you give um a flick a twist of the wrist is what the show man said!!!!!!!!!!
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Four and twenty virgins....... got lost and wandered in to SH. Poor girls :twisted:
Quote by Sgt Bilko

now that would definitely be worth adding to a classic SH moment thread ....
quick find venus some alcohol ;)

:kick:
Was going to smack your bottom but you'd enjoy it too much!!
teaser .........
damn you
C xx