I was in the Dogging forum last night and made an off the cuff remark about shagging a copper to avoid arrest while dogging being tantamount to , then they would have something to nick you for. Granted, not up to my usual comedic standard and maybe not the best choice of comment for my first posting but I was tired and, truth be known, a little low.
I got this snotty post in return that certain people wouldnt want to meet me out dogging because of my attitude, narrow mindedness, yadayadayada. Essentially they tried to make out that I was an uncultured grunt. This from people who had read two lines of print. That was it, I went off on a rant and told them what I thought and questioned their judgement. If in the course of venting my annoyance, anyone saw this as me flaming a regular poster then I can only apologise. This was not the case. I was standing my ground.
Funnily enough the culprit, rather than apologise and get on with it, tried to change the subject. Which I also pointed out. Needless to say, she stopped posting on that thread.
If anyone thinks I go on a bit, tell me, I'll try to be more concise in my postings but I do have a thing about explaining myself clearly (I'm doing it right now!)
The truth often hurts but I'd rather be hurt than lied to and I'm sure many others feel the same. It seems to have become the norm for people to lie to each other and tell each other what they think the other person wants to hear. The world would be a better place if we all told each other the truth, however harsh. Usually the truths that hurt us the most are tthose which are personal to us. If we all told each other the absolute truth about how we felt about each others ac ions, then in the long run we would all raise our game and be better people ( after a teething period of general bloodshed and violence...)
Go on then, tell me...lol
honestly, stay, i did and im glad i did, i felt intimidated at first but once people get to know you, you will realise we are all mates and get on. theres lots of banter.
aw i love you all. mwah mwah. (thats so out of character for me)
regards
Orph
Oh fuck.......anyone got a spare finger!
Fair enough. I know that really. BUT - there were some guys at the beginning who made a fair and valid point which is being lost in all the bickering which should really go elsewhere.
Can't you see why people are put off? What if Blue, Calista, Mal, Serge, Sappho The Bard oh god - the list goes on for ever - had been put off by this reaction in their early days. What a loss to SH that would have been. Can't we be just a little less judgemental, more considerate and tolerant? We can. It's what we're best at.
Jezzay.
zipidy do dar, zipidy day, my oh may what a wonderfull day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
can we sing some pub songs??? :happy: :happy: :happy:
Nonononono get her to dance and jig about a bit, churn it all up :twisted:
ive got a lovely buch of coconuts(av ya?)
there they are all standing in a row...........
big ones small ones, some as big as your head
you give um a flick a twist of the wrist is what the show man said!!!!!!!!!!
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Four and twenty virgins....... got lost and wandered in to SH. Poor girls :twisted: