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i dont know if this subject has been discussed before ....why do people who you have never met let alone ever spoken to ask you to add them as friends?
Quote by scorpiolady1
i dont know if this subject has been discussed before ....why do people who you have never met let alone ever spoken to ask you to add them as friends?

Hello smile
Because they are rude and presumptious and would likely be the same with their kit off. I don't like it and take it as a big red 'stop' light :) x
I think that some people want to add you as friends so that they can see when you are online and find out where you are on the site.
I know that you have been spending time in the chatrooms as I have seen you there and chatted to you. If people find you entertaining in any way, (whether they are the people you chat to or the ones who sit at the sidelines and never say a word) they maybe want to see when you are online. I spend a bit too much time in the chatrooms and we get lots of friend requests from people who I have never spoken to. I just delete them.
I think sometimes its done innocently by nice people in a nice way to sort of introduce themselves to you - by no means all of course but some.
What they all said.
Yes, perhaps I was too quick to jump in (for a change) :rascal:
I guess we should analyse who these supposed 'friends' are.. males, females, couples? That might help us decide why they are doing it...
they think they might be able 2 perve the private galleries
We just delete them too, if its someone we have pm`d or chatted to fair enough but sometimes its people we`ve never heard of or from sinlge guys and as we aren`t even looking for guys they get deleted.
The short answer is that "friend" is one of those words that is used as if it has more than one meaning.
Plim :sad:
My policy on the interweb thingy is to accept any and all friend requests....doesn't mean I'll ever acknowledge them in any way...just that if someone can be bothered to ask it is in some small way complimentary and it seems churlish to refuse........
I have one friend on here Kaz'wave'; lol
I like collecting friends, it means i'm popular and cooool... when i see someone with less friends than me a laugh... but if i see someone with more friends than me, i become more nervous than patrick bateman looking at superior business cards.
tl:dr
Having friends is coooool lol
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they think they might be able 2 perve the private galleries

On other sites this is the case, and I reckon this accounts for a large proportion of the unknown friends requests I get.
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i dont know if this subject has been discussed before ....why do people who you have never met let alone ever spoken to ask you to add them as friends?

Have you tried asking them?
We know some people like to gather as many friends as possible for one reason or another, for some they think it makes them look popular, these people tend to have it as the only form of contact with thier friends not mailing them or conversing with them in any way.
Others see it as a way of introducing themselves and getting to know people, often following successfull invites up with mails.
Some do it I think, because it seems the thing to do, the option is there so why not use it.
We personally only add people to our friends list that we have met in person as they are our friends, if we have mailed people they are at this time acquaintences that we hope will become friends in the future.
Each to thier own at the end of the day, send invites, don't send them, accept them, don't accept them the choice is yours.
I must admit I'm a 'Favourites' collector. Whenever I find a profile of interest, I hit the Favourite button.
I have a list of hot men in my favourites... it's fun! :rascal:
I think the friend option is silly so accept anyone that asks!! My 'hot list' is in favourites - where else!