We like to keep our 'friends' to those who are really friends or we're hoping to become friends with. So, every once in a while we clear out those who it becomes obvious over time only ever added us because they're 'friend' collectors.
This morning I was doing just that and when I clicked on remove on the last one I wanted to remove the screen went blank with the message 'Sorry, there was an error.'. Now on the tab at the top of the screen it says Friends (7) but we only have 6.
Will this correct itself or should we put in a support ticket?
Thanks,
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Quote by DM_Couple
We like to keep our 'friends' to those who are really friends or we're hoping to become friends with. So, every once in a while we clear out those who it becomes obvious over time only ever added us because they're 'friend' collectors.
This morning I was doing just that and when I clicked on remove on the last one I wanted to remove the screen went blank with the message 'Sorry, there was an error.'. Now on the tab at the top of the screen it says Friends (7) but we only have 6.
Will this correct itself or should we put in a support ticket?
Thanks,
I've reset the parts of your profile I have authority to clear so take another look. If it's still wrong I'm afraid it will need a support ticket.
Sex God
So what? you all have friends...I bet I could have friends too if I just avoided meetin' people. :cry:
Quote by skinny
So what? you all have friends...I bet I could have friends too if I just avoided meetin' people. :cry:
Don't feel too bad, here's how it goes with us...
Most of the public pics we have are of Mrs DM... so we receive a message...
"Wow, you look fantastic, we'd really love to meet you."
So we exchange a few messages to which we invariably get the response...
"You seem like a really great couple we really would love to meet you. How soon can you meet?" etc. etc.
So we become site 'friends' and then we give them access to our private pics which show both of us including face shots and invariably, we NEVER hear from them again. NOTHING, not a word, they just disappear as if they'd never communicated with us. Now I know Mrs DM is fancied by every straight bloke that ever met her, so you can guess what that does for my (Mr DM) confidence lol.
As we've met some truly beautiful people over the last years we know it's worth persevering but the level of downright rudeness and ignorance is staggering at times.
So, you're not alone - and by the sound of it, at least you get to meet them
Warming the Bed
Quote by DM_Couple
we NEVER hear from them again. NOTHING, not a word
DM you sound like you are attracting a lot of picture collectors (I don't blame them *drool*). Maybe consider limiting your public pictures to a couple/very few, just as a tease/preview, and be stingy with your private photo invites (or indeed put face pics in different folder so there is yet another tier of privacy). Another done thing when actively looking to meet couples is to arrange a phonecall between the women - this requires more commitment than writing a few online messages and often clears out true intentions.
Quote by mincepie
DM you sound like you are attracting a lot of picture collectors (I don't blame them *drool*). Maybe consider limiting your public pictures to a couple/very few, just as a tease/preview, and be stingy with your private photo invites (or indeed put face pics in different folder so there is yet another tier of privacy). Another done thing when actively looking to meet couples is to arrange a phonecall between the women - this requires more commitment than writing a few online messages and often clears out true intentions.
Thanks for the comments. My post was meant a little tongue in cheek to Skinny, but as you make these points let me say...
We've been doing this for quite a few years and have met some wonderful people. To us, very sexy and attractive and strangely, although wonderfully, usually younger than us
Unfortunately we moved in the last year and the distance made it difficult to continue these relationships. Consequently we're starting from square one again.The reason for saying that is that we *think* we know how to play the game and believe me we'll either have a phone call including the women or arrange to meet for a drink or dinner without delay if we think we've found someone. We don't drag things out any longer than the other party feel they need to. We're in this to meet people - not have endless messages/chats/photo viewings etc.
We only ever share our private pics with those who've made us believe we're onto something and of course who appeal to us, and that usually includes seeing them too. We like to think we've got the experience to recognise the time wasters at an early stage. So in that respect we are stingy with them.
Unfortunately the inevitable truth is that I (Mr DM) don't facially appeal to the majority of women (I know for a fact other parts do)
Just being realistic with this statement, not depressive lol. Clearly I appeal to some not least of which is the gorgeous, sexy, fantastic Mrs DM. Now she's a real catch in so many respects but the reality is as stated. I think we've just been unfortunate so far to attract ignorant people who don't know how to conduct themselves in decent society. I don't mean meet us for a sympathy vote, can't imagine anything worse lol. I mean who don't know how to say thanks but no thanks. By the way, I do want to say in case any of our friends are reading this (you'll know who you are), what I'm saying doesn't appear to apply to all, just the vast majority.
We might take a look at our pics and rearrange as you suggest.
Thanks again.
Sex God
Quote by paddy
What are friends :giggle:
We all know friends are people that never speak to you but send you an invite by pressing a button 250 miles away from where you are, then still never speak to you!
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