friends with benefits

Twice in my lifetime had this kind of relationship, first about 6 years and second over a year. Twice failed because of  feelings. Once I want something more and other time she wants to be Mrs.... Question is - is there someone who have   this relationship working for long time and how you menage that? 

that's my problem as well, just have to except women as clingie

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that's my problem as well, just have to except women as clingie

 all women are different, its a little narrow minded to label ALL women as clingy.

Ive had a friend with benefits, it worked brilliantly, dont tar us all with the same brush, just because it didnt work for you doesnt mean it wont work for someone else

Hi, late response but; I've had this kind of relationship for several years; we are both married and neither has any wish to change that, but are good friends and benefits often come along, discreetly, but this is fun.

well I'm looking for friends with benefits here in bucks....

I have had at least three such long term arrangements and all have been fun. Two married females and a single. You have to make it clear from the beginning that it’s only sex and if any feelings come into it, then the fun must end.

I find that hard to call FwB! The whole point is that there are feelings of  (deep) friendship....if it is only sex then it's not FwB. It is really difficult to negotiate long-term precisely because it is easy (unsurprisingly) to cross the very narrow threshold between friendship and 'true love' which then potentially leaves your spouses/partners stranded.

I’ve had several friends with benefits, one with a colleague did become an affair and we ended it, but the others have all benn a lot of fun. One of my husbands friends has been a Fwb for over 5 years now, we love sex with each other but that’s it, no feelings etc 

hello how are u today  have you put stories on here of is this your first time

I've had the same friend with benefits for about 10 years. Although we don't see each other very often but it works for us

I would love FWB long term I wouldn't mind occasional night or out meal ?, after all its all mutual benefit anyway

I WONT A  FWB 

I think possibly deep down we all would like the idea of a fwb, but probably difficult for a lot of people with working lives and maybe families, only few manage this, personally i did some years ago and it was very exciting, new and revived all the hidden emotions that are you almost forgot and then when the children move out you're already in a rut and just go with the flow, but then something happens and then you start looking again,  is it the hot weather recently ?