what does a genuine couple have to do on here for a good bonk and sexy fun we dont get much luck even though we try 
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what does a genuine couple have to do on here for a good bonk and sexy fun we dont get much luck even though we try 
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jane_les_southwest wrote:
Hi jane_les,
You seem to have a similar problem to me, in that we are both fairly isolated from the main Swinging area, i.e. the NW.
In my area (North Durham) there are perhaps 4 or 5 swinging couples who are only looking for other couples, and about a dozen single guys looking for local single females of which there are apparenlty, none. :cry:
I have found from personal experience, the only way to have some success is be willing to travel. That's not always an option for couples who perhaps have children at home. As a single male with my own transport I have that freedom. My last meeting required a round trip of over 400 miles, a long way to go I agree, but it was worth it.
If you can accomodate others it will be to your advantage, if you can't, then you will have to travel, if you can. One good way to get to know other swingers would be to attend one of the forthcoming 'Munches'. At least that way you will get to meet and speak to many other couples and single folk. Meetings prior to actual swinging at least gives you the chance to see what the others are like, and see if they meet your personal requirements, an important part of the swinging process for both parties. 8)
All of my meetings have been made through contacts made through the Chatroom rather than through 'photo adds' or the 'Lets Meet' section of The Forum. It has often been said with more than a modicum of truth, that there's 'nothing instant' in Swinging. It took me several months to eventually make contact with a like minded lady, since then things have picked up
but even so all my meetings required at least a round trip of 150 miles.
Please don't dispair, it will happen, but probably later rather than sooner.
Stick at it, you will be successful eventually. Best of luck.
Harry0
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what does a genuine couple have to do on here for a good bonk and sexy fun we dont get much luck even though we try
Hi jane_les,
You seem to have a similar problem to me, in that we are both fairly isolated from the main Swinging area, i.e. the NW.
In my area (North Durham) there are perhaps 4 or 5 swinging couples who are only looking for other couples, and about a dozen single guys looking for local single females of which there are apparenlty, none. :cry:
I have found from personal experience, the only way to have some success is be willing to travel. That's not always an option for couples who perhaps have children at home. As a single male with my own transport I have that freedom. My last meeting required a round trip of over 400 miles, a long way to go I agree, but it was worth it.
If you can accomodate others it will be to your advantage, if you can't, then you will have to travel, if you can. One good way to get to know other swingers would be to attend one of the forthcoming 'Munches'. At least that way you will get to meet and speak to many other couples and single folk. Meetings prior to actual swinging at least gives you the chance to see what the others are like, and see if they meet your personal requirements, an important part of the swinging process for both parties. 8)
All of my meetings have been made through contacts made through the Chatroom rather than through 'photo adds' or the 'Lets Meet' section of The Forum. It has often been said with more than a modicum of truth, that there's 'nothing instant' in Swinging. It took me several months to eventually make contact with a like minded lady, since then things have picked up
but even so all my meetings required at least a round trip of 150 miles.Please don't dispair, it will happen, but probably later rather than sooner.
Stick at it, you will be successful eventually. Best of luck.Harry0
__________________________________
Any ladies into extra terrestrial sex please contact me ASAP.
I'm the nearest thing you'll find to an Alien on this site.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: We are amazed when we see posts like this one, we moved from the London area to Devon and we find the swinging scene down here bloody great.
We have made lots of friends (sexual) and we find socialising with other couples to be the best bet.
We regularly go to Extremm in exeter, we have had several conquests there.
Also we are holding a Couples clubnight at the same venue as Extremm in April.
So the southwest lifeless?.......Not in our experience!
We have made lots of friends (sexual) and we find socialising with other couples to be the best bet.
We regularly go to Extremm in exeter, we have had several conquests there.
Also we are holding a Couples clubnight at the same venue as Extremm in April.
So the southwest lifeless?.......Not in our experience!
I guess it must be frustrating swinging as a couple when all the interest seems to come from single males like myself.
From my position I always thought it would be easier to swing if I had a female partner, perhaps not. Wonder what the most successful combination would be?
If it helps in the south west I love extended 4play with a lady and am happy to share the fun with another str8 guy.
Hope you get the fun you deserve though, good luck all couples seeking couples.
From my position I always thought it would be easier to swing if I had a female partner, perhaps not. Wonder what the most successful combination would be?
If it helps in the south west I love extended 4play with a lady and am happy to share the fun with another str8 guy.
Hope you get the fun you deserve though, good luck all couples seeking couples.
