Hi all,
Does any body else feel the same as me ?
I have yet to meet anyone on this site for some action, so I often view the Gallery but with much frustration I would think 9/10 are either suspended accounts or not viewed for over 90 days, why does SH allow these to stay on the gallery why not clear them out.
I see a very nice lady and think she would be nice to meet and hopefully have some fun or take some nice photos of, as that is what I do.
THEN you get that !!!!!!! Who knows maybe one day someone will answer and I will get lucky, but I'm not holding my breath.
If you are Female and live 20 miles from Watford and you want fun let me know lol.
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Orgasminator
Not really bazza no,
I have had my share of fustration here over the years, as I have become more aware of the limitations and got to know a few people from here I understand much more and set my expectations at a more realistic level. These are now being reached and even exceeded on a regular basis.
I have looked at your profile and posts on other peoples, while I believe it to be an honest reflection of your aims, these are unlikely to coincide with those of many other users.
Some couples or fems might be kind enough to offer you advice on what may make them more open to approaching. People interested in getting naked for a complete stranger to take pics are probably easier to find elsewhere.
;)
I have had my share of fustration here over the years, as I have become more aware of the limitations and got to know a few people from here I understand much more and set my expectations at a more realistic level. These are now being reached and even exceeded on a regular basis.
I have looked at your profile and posts on other peoples, while I believe it to be an honest reflection of your aims, these are unlikely to coincide with those of many other users.
Some couples or fems might be kind enough to offer you advice on what may make them more open to approaching. People interested in getting naked for a complete stranger to take pics are probably easier to find elsewhere.
;)
Mod
In order to get success on this site you must have something that the other people want or something that makes you stand out.
You are in the majority section of the site bazza, and that is, the single males section, and you are realistically over most peoples age limits plus your profile states that you are married and lots of females and couples don't go down the attached male road, although there are lots of couples and indeed single females on here who prefer the more mature gent.
You may need to spend less time searching for the unattainable and settle for what you can get, and maybe use the chat and go along to as many socials as you can.
Lots of people change their views towards others when they chat or meet them and sometimes a sense of humour and good manners will get you a meet before a young well hung stud.
Personality counts a lot on SH, so show some of yours and you will get lucky I am sure.
Be truthful in everything you say and do and ffs don't say that you are single when you re profile states married,with someone or nearly single cos the females on here are very astute at finding you out.
Most of them work it out if you say that you can't accommodate, although some guys will have very valid reasons,the ones that take the pish soon make everyone wary.
Good luck Bazza and try and not rush into things.
You are in the majority section of the site bazza, and that is, the single males section, and you are realistically over most peoples age limits plus your profile states that you are married and lots of females and couples don't go down the attached male road, although there are lots of couples and indeed single females on here who prefer the more mature gent.
You may need to spend less time searching for the unattainable and settle for what you can get, and maybe use the chat and go along to as many socials as you can.
Lots of people change their views towards others when they chat or meet them and sometimes a sense of humour and good manners will get you a meet before a young well hung stud.
Personality counts a lot on SH, so show some of yours and you will get lucky I am sure.
Be truthful in everything you say and do and ffs don't say that you are single when you re profile states married,with someone or nearly single cos the females on here are very astute at finding you out.
Most of them work it out if you say that you can't accommodate, although some guys will have very valid reasons,the ones that take the pish soon make everyone wary.
Good luck Bazza and try and not rush into things.
Orgasminator
Quote by Photobazza
I often view the Gallery but with much frustration I would think 9/10 are either suspended accounts or not viewed for over 90 days, why does SH allow these to stay on the gallery why not clear them out.
If they did that then half the single males wouldn't have anything to wank over!!! :giggle:
Quote by Gufuncouple
I often view the Gallery but with much frustration I would think 9/10 are either suspended accounts or not viewed for over 90 days, why does SH allow these to stay on the gallery why not clear them out.
If they did that then half the single males wouldn't have anything to wank over!!! :giggle:
I suppose this sort of comment says it all really about some people who use this site.
If you cant answer sensibly why even bother ?
Mod
Quote by Photobazza
I often view the Gallery but with much frustration I would think 9/10 are either suspended accounts or not viewed for over 90 days, why does SH allow these to stay on the gallery why not clear them out.
If they did that then half the single males wouldn't have anything to wank over!!! :giggle:
I suppose this sort of comment says it all really about some people who use this site.
If you cant answer sensibly why even bother ?
I think you may find out that it's called having a sense of humour Bazza but then again I may be wrong, because, what do I know about humour
Sex God
Quote by Photobazza
I often view the Gallery but with much frustration I would think 9/10 are either suspended accounts or not viewed for over 90 days, why does SH allow these to stay on the gallery why not clear them out.
If they did that then half the single males wouldn't have anything to wank over!!! :giggle:
I suppose this sort of comment says it all really about some people who use this site.
If you cant answer sensibly why even bother ?
Photobaza, to quote Woohoo "Lots of people change their views towards others when they chat or meet them and sometimes a sense of humour and good manners will get you a meet before a young we ll hung stud"Why not graciously take the good advice offered
Mod
lol @ Woohoo and Mr Gufun! You guys are epic! Seriously Bazza, getting to know people at socials and chatrooms is the way forward. Your post does seem a tad negative and we're all here to have a good time. Guys like Woohoo and Mr Gufun are cool and popular because they spend a considerable amount of time nuturing their ever expanding 'fanbase'. I hold both men in high regard for their respective qualities in turning up to socials with really hot chicks on their arms and driving high-performance Japanese sports cars at ridiculous speeds.
Orgasminator
Quote by Mike2mike
I hold both men in high regard for their respective qualities in turning up to socials with really hot chicks on their arms and driving high-performance Japanese sports cars at ridiculous speeds.
It must be Woohoo who drives at ridiculously high-speed, I would never do such a thing....:scared:
Quote by Photobazza
Hi all,
Does any body else feel the same as me ?
I have yet to meet anyone on this site for some action, so I often view the Gallery but with much frustration I would think 9/10 are either suspended accounts or not viewed for over 90 days, why does SH allow these to stay on the gallery why not clear them out.
I see a very nice lady and think she would be nice to meet and hopefully have some fun or take some nice photos of, as that is what I do.
THEN you get that !!!!!!! Who knows maybe one day someone will answer and I will get lucky, but I'm not holding my breath.
If you are Female and live 20 miles from Watford and you want fun let me know lol.
Dear Photobazza
Your profile seems to suggest you want to take pictures of people.
If you're so desperate for a fuck, just ask for one. I've found that usually works best.
Lots of love,
BIoke x
Mod
Naw it's no me as Ah canna drive cos ma feet don't reach the pedals 
So that must mean I'm the one wie the really hot chicks, woohooo, ya dancer :thrilled:
So that must mean I'm the one wie the really hot chicks, woohooo, ya dancer :thrilled:
Quote by bIoke
Hi all,
Does any body else feel the same as me ?
I have yet to meet anyone on this site for some action, so I often view the Gallery but with much frustration I would think 9/10 are either suspended accounts or not viewed for over 90 days, why does SH allow these to stay on the gallery why not clear them out.
I see a very nice lady and think she would be nice to meet and hopefully have some fun or take some nice photos of, as that is what I do.
THEN you get that !!!!!!! Who knows maybe one day someone will answer and I will get lucky, but I'm not holding my breath.
If you are Female and live 20 miles from Watford and you want fun let me know lol.
Dear Photobazza
Your profile seems to suggest you want to take pictures of people.
If you're so desperate for a fuck, just ask for one. I've found that usually works best.
Lots of love,
BIoke x
If I was that desparte for a fuck Bloke I would ask for one, but funny enough I'm not lol
I actually get as much as I want thank you which is more than can be said for a lot.
Mod
Quote by Photobazza
If I was that desparte for a fuck Bloke I would ask for one, but funny enough I'm not lol
I actually get as much as I want thank you which is more than can be said for a lot.
So! Why the moaning post about not getting any meets etc?
Quote by Photobazza
If I was that desparte for a fuck Bloke I would ask for one, but funny enough I'm not lol
Hmmmm... <scratches head>
Quote by Photobazza
If you are Female and live 20 miles from Watford and you want fun let me know lol.
Did I dream this?
Perhaps try here:http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/393314.html
I haven't come on here to have me or my profile judged I appreciate some of you want to, well if it gives you pleasure and you have nothing else to do that’s fine I don't mind, you can think what you want about me or judge all you want but you don’t know me, I am a very genuine and a very honest person as someone pointed out, it has in my profile I'm married, if I wasn't honest that would not appear, how many of you are as honest ?
The point I was actually trying to make was regards to SH about sorting out profiles that are no longer used, why do they leave them on the site is it to make out they have more members than they actually do, I just find it frustrating when you look at local profiles and probably 95% are no longer used, mind you the end of the year there will be another one that's not used, yes mine !!!
Now I will sit back and wait for all the wise cracks, but that’s fine.
The point I was actually trying to make was regards to SH about sorting out profiles that are no longer used, why do they leave them on the site is it to make out they have more members than they actually do, I just find it frustrating when you look at local profiles and probably 95% are no longer used, mind you the end of the year there will be another one that's not used, yes mine !!!
Now I will sit back and wait for all the wise cracks, but that’s fine.
Quote by bIoke
If I was that desparte for a fuck Bloke I would ask for one, but funny enough I'm not lol
Hmmmm... <scratches head>
Quote by Photobazza
If you are Female and live 20 miles from Watford and you want fun let me know lol.
Did I dream this?
Perhaps try here:http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/393314.html
So Bloke to have fun it must include a FUCK ??? Why I can have fun with out a fuck can't you ??
Mod
Quote by Photobazza
I have yet to meet anyone on this site for some action
I just find it frustrating when you look at local profiles and probably 95% are no longer used,
So! if as you say youre not looking for a meet why moan that you havent found one yet and if youre not looking for one why bother if even 99% of profiles were no longer used?
I think I am at confused .com here
Orgasminator
You appear to only focus on the negative Bazza, not one mention of taking on board any of the positive recommendations the forum members have given you.
You want someone to make a wise crack about you - if you did it yourself I would respect you more.
People need to be relaxed to enjoy themselves - you make an appoinment with you sound like as much fun as an hour at the dentist
:evil2:
You want someone to make a wise crack about you - if you did it yourself I would respect you more.
People need to be relaxed to enjoy themselves - you make an appoinment with you sound like as much fun as an hour at the dentist
:evil2:
Quote by Photobazza
So Bloke to have fun it must include a FUCK ??? Why I can have fun with out a fuck can't you ??
Oh keep yer hair on and chill... it's just a bit of fun mate
It always amuses me on here when people suggest there may be something wrong in asking for a fuck
And no, I prefer to fuck a bloke until his toes and eyelashes curl all on their own mate to have had my 'fucking' fun... not.
Are you bi?
Quote by woohoo
I have yet to meet anyone on this site for some action
I just find it frustrating when you look at local profiles and probably 95% are no longer used,
So! if as you say youre not looking for a meet why moan that you havent found one yet and if youre not looking for one why bother if even 99% of profiles were no longer used?
I think I am at confused .com here
Blimey WooHoo you love to dig don't you lol.
As I'm a fully paid up member I'm allowed to visit and look where I want, and like most members I look at local profiles is that OK with you ?
And yes that is correct I have never met any genuine people on this site yet, is that also OK with you ??
Action doesn't have to mean a FUCK does it, or does it in your eyes ??? Maybe that's all the people on here want, but I feel there is a lot more in life than that.
Please don't let me stop you from replying
Mod
Yeah thats fine Bazz enjoy your dinner for one
But if you ask for advice and ppl take the time to reply try at least to take it on board and if you moan, be prepared to take the criticism.
Oh! and I am a paid member too, in fact everyone that CAN post on the forum is.
Have fun on the site, I am sure youll do well and make hundreds of friends. :lol:
But if you ask for advice and ppl take the time to reply try at least to take it on board and if you moan, be prepared to take the criticism.
Oh! and I am a paid member too, in fact everyone that CAN post on the forum is.
Have fun on the site, I am sure youll do well and make hundreds of friends. :lol:
Quote by Big_Fraser
You appear to only focus on the negative Bazza, not one mention of taking on board any of the positive recommendations the forum members have given you.
You want someone to make a wise crack about you - if you did it yourself I would respect you more.
People need to be relaxed to enjoy themselves - you make an appoinment with you sound like as much fun as an hour at the dentist
:evil2:
Don't worry about me Big Fraser my sense of houmour is second to none I know how to enjoy life, if you were ever in my company you would find out, they don't call me Mr Mad for nothing.
I was just trying to make a serious point regarding the profiles no more.
Quote by woohoo
Yeah thats fine Bazz enjoy your dinner for one
But if you ask for advice and ppl take the time to reply try at least to take it on board and if you moan, be prepared to take the criticism.
Oh! and I am a paid member too, in fact everyone that CAN post on the forum is.
Have fun on the site, I am sure youll do well and make hundreds of friends. :lol:
Why thank you for that WooHoo :lol: :lol:
I'm sure I will make loads of friends oh sorry I have loads of friends but not on here, but that's fine not a problem :lol: :lol:
Oh and BTW I had dinner for two I enjoyed it with my lovely wife, have a very nice evening wont you.
Mod
Quote by Photobazza
have a very nice evening wont you.
Why! thank you MR Mad
