I thought I would post this topic after a convo I just had with a friend on msn.
Would it put couples off if they thought that the couple they were meeting didn't want full swap?
We have talked about this and cus of a past experience Kev has said he wouldn't want to full swap with anyone. Touching, kissing and oral is all ok but he would prefer the ultimate with his own partner.
How many couples would this put off?????? :shock:
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Full Swap with a Cpl or Not?
Sexlightened
hi there,
in answer to your question,i think you'll find there are folks on the site who will swing with you, and who wont.
its up to the individuals to look at your profile and see if they want to swing with you or not.
if thats your choice to only soft swing, then others will respect it.
everyone to their own i say..
good luck though and happy swinging
mrs benson xxxx
in answer to your question,i think you'll find there are folks on the site who will swing with you, and who wont.
its up to the individuals to look at your profile and see if they want to swing with you or not.
if thats your choice to only soft swing, then others will respect it.
everyone to their own i say..
good luck though and happy swinging
mrs benson xxxx
Sex God
In our experience, many couples are put off by the fact that we do not go all the way.
So you get a reduced number of replies, but no big deal, its just peoples preferences same as saying "prefer bigger girls" or "don't like hairy men".
If thats your boundary, stick to it, just accept that some people want full swap so therefore won't contact you.
However, you will still meet some great people and have fun within softswing limits!!
John & Shel
So you get a reduced number of replies, but no big deal, its just peoples preferences same as saying "prefer bigger girls" or "don't like hairy men".
If thats your boundary, stick to it, just accept that some people want full swap so therefore won't contact you.
However, you will still meet some great people and have fun within softswing limits!!
John & Shel
When we first set out we were soft swap only and had no intention to change anything... We met a few nice couples and none ever said they wanted more from us as such.. things were fine.. even with the full swap couples we met.
When we decided we wanted to see if we were ok with more we picked one of the couples and found we both enjoyed.. we were never pushed or expected to do more than we had always said we would if comfortable.
Even now.. soft swap can be very horny, no need to feel bad or feel as though you should do more.. Stick with your boundaries no matter what.. Its a disaster waiting to happen if you don't.
Mike x
When we decided we wanted to see if we were ok with more we picked one of the couples and found we both enjoyed.. we were never pushed or expected to do more than we had always said we would if comfortable.
Even now.. soft swap can be very horny, no need to feel bad or feel as though you should do more.. Stick with your boundaries no matter what.. Its a disaster waiting to happen if you don't.
Mike x
In fact its got to be said theres something very erotic about being a full swap couple in a situation with a soft swap couple... where your looking, seeing, tasting and just that close and wanting soooo badly but just know you can't lol...
jeeze... Wheres the shower... :twisted: :twisted:
Mike x
jeeze... Wheres the shower... :twisted: :twisted:
Mike x
Quote by mdr2000
In fact its got to be said theres something very erotic about being a full swap couple in a situation with a soft swap couple... where your looking, seeing, tasting and just that close and wanting soooo badly but just know you can't lol...
jeeze... Wheres the shower... :twisted: :twisted:
Mike x
Awww Mike I didn't know you cared so much babe....lol
Don't you think though its always the forbidden fruit you want?
Quote by naughtynymphos1
i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol
for goodness sake nympho... of course you are
I dislike that too. It is one of the myriad of reasons why I don't meet couples.
splendid
Orgasminator
In fact its got to be said theres something very erotic about being a full swap couple in a situation with a soft swap couple... where your looking, seeing, tasting and just that close and wanting soooo badly but just know you can't lol... well said mdr 2000. and would not put us off meeting soft swap
Quote by naughtynymphos1
i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol
Yeah I agree with that that everyone should be involved....except the guys touching each other Kev would freak lol
Quote by kazandkev
i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol
Yeah I agree with that that everyone should be involved....except the guys touching each other Kev would freak lol
Im the same as Kev on this, but we do love soft swing it's such a turn on. We dont do full swap and that doesn't seem to put full swap couples of us.
Vert2go
Sex God
Hi KazandKev
Again it really is down to preference and as long as everyone's clear and happy that's all that matters. We don't on the whole (always exceptions) pursue cpls only wanting soft swap as we much prefer full swap. But tbh we'd be having that conversation soon after initial contact (if not made clear on profile/ad) and before picture swapping.
Having said that we've not had a soft swap exerience since we started full swapping, so can't answer whether it would be erotic or not.
pink x
Again it really is down to preference and as long as everyone's clear and happy that's all that matters. We don't on the whole (always exceptions) pursue cpls only wanting soft swap as we much prefer full swap. But tbh we'd be having that conversation soon after initial contact (if not made clear on profile/ad) and before picture swapping.
Having said that we've not had a soft swap exerience since we started full swapping, so can't answer whether it would be erotic or not.
pink x
Sex God
we only do soft swap we find it more erotic and aint been tempted to do full but each to there own we do like to watch each other play and tease others and save the ultimate for each other ,think when your in this scene half the chase is finding your boundrys
Quote by splendid_
i dont mind soft swap so long as everyones involved, what does put me off is when couples want to soft swap but mainly fem/fem while the men watch, im not a free peep show lol
for goodness sake nympho... of course you are
I dislike that too. It is one of the myriad of reasons why I don't meet couples.
splendid
oh am i? sorry
so thate where i've been going wrong fancy putting a show on with me ;) :rascal:
Orgasminator
There are some very good posts above, and we would have to agree with the general feeling.
We first started out with the intention of soft swing.
But, as often happens, the goal posts moved once we both found out what we were comfortable, and would be comfortable with.
So, we now do full swap, and have done for a few years. But, we would have no problem with soft swing - what really matters is that the chemistry is there in the first place!
And, as NN said, as long as everyone is having fun!
We first started out with the intention of soft swing.
But, as often happens, the goal posts moved once we both found out what we were comfortable, and would be comfortable with.
So, we now do full swap, and have done for a few years. But, we would have no problem with soft swing - what really matters is that the chemistry is there in the first place!
And, as NN said, as long as everyone is having fun!
Orgasminator
as NN said we do full swap but that don't mean we wouldn't consider soft with the right people.
The occasions we have done soft swap meets have been very erotic, and I think because you know there is no point where ya can shove ya cock in and ram away like a good un to 'finish' people do tend to but more effort and be more creative with the things that can happen. Which do I prefer ??
hard to say but both certainly have their good points lol
The occasions we have done soft swap meets have been very erotic, and I think because you know there is no point where ya can shove ya cock in and ram away like a good un to 'finish' people do tend to but more effort and be more creative with the things that can happen. Which do I prefer ??
hard to say but both certainly have their good points lol
I agree with a lot that's already been posted - it all really depends on who your playing with and when.
Mr DS loves to watch me - me watching him play does nothing for me, I prefer being involved to, so even though we don't do full swap - we do everything else lol and I can honestly say it hasn't put anyone off yet lol
x Holly x
Mr DS loves to watch me - me watching him play does nothing for me, I prefer being involved to, so even though we don't do full swap - we do everything else lol and I can honestly say it hasn't put anyone off yet lol
x Holly x
