This is not a request for men this is for advice from members only.
Having just started swinging properly this year my wife and I are finding it addictive and seems to have moved from couples to clubs to single men and now would like to try other things a bit more daring, I would like some advice on safety and how to arrange a group gangbang, several men and my wife,
It has been suggested we get a group together of men we have met, trust and know, but we are the type of people who do not collect men, preferring to have contact only once before moving on,
we don't even visit the same club often, preferring the excitement of the new, and travel around the country rather than our own area.
A club does sound better but what about picking and choosing the men involved or are we open for a free for all ?,
My wife has a very specific fantasy about the type of men and the situation for this to take place so unless things are right she won't go through with it and I wont let her.
Her fantasies can be very wild but putting then into practice seems to be difficult and in some cases could be dangerous, have other members encountered this problem ? And can anyone recommend anything ? I suppose this is as much a safety question as it is advice on how or where to get the right type of men.
Roll play actors who look the part and we can trust seem to be hard to find, are we being to picky and is it possible ?
Any advice would be appreciated
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Hi
I too am having this problem.
I am currently investigating one or two possibilities... if I have any joy, I'll pass it on. There are some groups with good reputations throughout the country and I'm contacting them myself now.
And here's a little warning that you may not have thought about. If your wife has a taste for multiple men, always beware of anyone approaching you and offering to set up a gang bang. It would be so easy, say, for a club or an individual to offer you a venue and to find the guys for you... but he or she could be charging those guys £50 or £75 each and claiming this was 'expenses only'.
Sorry if that sound a bit downbeat... but I've personal reasons to be wary of gang bangs right now.
Best, Heatherxxx
I too am having this problem.
I am currently investigating one or two possibilities... if I have any joy, I'll pass it on. There are some groups with good reputations throughout the country and I'm contacting them myself now.
And here's a little warning that you may not have thought about. If your wife has a taste for multiple men, always beware of anyone approaching you and offering to set up a gang bang. It would be so easy, say, for a club or an individual to offer you a venue and to find the guys for you... but he or she could be charging those guys £50 or £75 each and claiming this was 'expenses only'.
Sorry if that sound a bit downbeat... but I've personal reasons to be wary of gang bangs right now.
Best, Heatherxxx
Sex God
Micknali - as Heather say, be very suspicious of 3rd party arrangements - I would say the best way to do it, if you have a particular type of guy in mind would be to put an ad on this site, advertising for the type of man you are after. You will get, no doubt, some time wasters, but you will soon be able to see through those. Tell them to send pics and details and make it clear from the outset that you are looking for men who want to perform as part of a group, rather than singly. You will get some suitable takers that way - but I guess your biggest problem will be getting them all at the same place at the same time! I would invite a few more than you want as some will let you down . If you don't want to invite them all round to your house for safety reasons you could always book a hotel for the evening. Clubs are great and if you want a gang bang with absolutely no strings and no hassle you can get it, but it would be tricky to get exactly the type of guys you want, in a club you would have to be a little less choosy! I guess the club idea could be your back-up if the advertising doesn't work
Good luck! 8)
. If you don't want to invite them all round to your house for safety reasons you could always book a hotel for the evening. Clubs are great and if you want a gang bang with absolutely no strings and no hassle you can get it, but it would be tricky to get exactly the type of guys you want, in a club you would have to be a little less choosy! I guess the club idea could be your back-up if the advertising doesn't work Good luck! 8)
Thanks for the advice heather & bluexxx I never even considered anyone helping to arrange anything I didn't know anyone who would, we were trying to arrange it ourselves. But would have considered such a person if they offered
Are there people out there who do this kind of thing ? And how should I avoid them ?.
We have a couple of locations in mind that are discreet and safe, and it has been suggested that even if we prefer strangers and not regular guys we have met before, we at least have a couple of "ringers" who act like they don't know us but are in fact people we know and can trust to help step in should things get out of hand,
Advertising sounds good but pictures and e-mail's don't seem to tell the truth about who people are.
We have only ever been to clubs on couples nights but have heard of greedy girls evenings, anyone recommend one and do you think a word with the management of a reputable club could help get the right type involved ?. Or maybe a private party.
Would you recommend trying one of these nights just to check out the talent or would the fact that I am there on this particular night make it difficult as I have found in certain situations where some men can't take no for an answer, this may sound contradictory considering what I am looking for but hopefully you understand what I mean.
Sorry if I'm sounding to picky.
Are there people out there who do this kind of thing ? And how should I avoid them ?.
We have a couple of locations in mind that are discreet and safe, and it has been suggested that even if we prefer strangers and not regular guys we have met before, we at least have a couple of "ringers" who act like they don't know us but are in fact people we know and can trust to help step in should things get out of hand,
Advertising sounds good but pictures and e-mail's don't seem to tell the truth about who people are.
We have only ever been to clubs on couples nights but have heard of greedy girls evenings, anyone recommend one and do you think a word with the management of a reputable club could help get the right type involved ?. Or maybe a private party.
Would you recommend trying one of these nights just to check out the talent or would the fact that I am there on this particular night make it difficult as I have found in certain situations where some men can't take no for an answer, this may sound contradictory considering what I am looking for but hopefully you understand what I mean.
Sorry if I'm sounding to picky.
Sex God
If you decide to go down the club route, rather than spending your time placing ads and emailing countless guys, you will have less choice in getting a particular type of guy. However one way you could do it would be to go to a club, and sit there for a while and check out the guys that are there. Then perhaps you could invite the guys you like best into a private area for your gang bang.
Some clubs do have greedy girls nights, which could be right up your street, but I would say that at any club on any night that isn't a couples night there will be plenty of single guys there for you to take your pick from. I'm not sure where you're based, but Liaisons in Rochdale, near Manchester does greedy girls nights - check out their web site and see what you think - but they are a very friendly place and I'm sure they would help you out!
Some clubs do have greedy girls nights, which could be right up your street, but I would say that at any club on any night that isn't a couples night there will be plenty of single guys there for you to take your pick from. I'm not sure where you're based, but Liaisons in Rochdale, near Manchester does greedy girls nights - check out their web site and see what you think - but they are a very friendly place and I'm sure they would help you out!
Are there people out there who do this kind of thing ? And how should I avoid them ?.
Yes there are... And you may find they try to contact you as a result of your post. If in doubt, you can always PM me or any of the other mods and ask us if we know who it is.
Some individual people or email addresses do take our eye and if they ever cause a problem they are banned from posting and PMing, but this being a public access forum they can still email you if you chose to make your email address public on your profile.
Please don't panic, though. Like I say some good groups do operate and simply like to keep a low profile. It's also possible one of the good guys will get in touch.
Once you've had a think and you're ready to take the next step, you can always contact me off list and I'll try my best to advice you.
Best
Heatherxxx
