Are there any genuine contacts in s. wales?
I seem to be contacting people that are only interested in 'ping pong' e-mails that just wastes time and effort. Is anyone else finding this a problem?
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genuine contacts s. wales?
There are plenty of genuine people in South Wales.
May I suggest that you expand your ad ads a wee bit, maybe a few pictures? Our experience is that people respond far better to a more detailed ad, make it a mini profile, tell us more about yourself.
As a single man you are outnumbered by a huge margin, and perhaps your expectations are a bit high.
Ping Pong e mails? some of us like to know a bit about the people we meet before we make a decission to go ahead. And yes you will have your fair share of let downs and no shows....its part of the swinging scene.
Good luck,
May I suggest that you expand your ad ads a wee bit, maybe a few pictures? Our experience is that people respond far better to a more detailed ad, make it a mini profile, tell us more about yourself.
As a single man you are outnumbered by a huge margin, and perhaps your expectations are a bit high.
Ping Pong e mails? some of us like to know a bit about the people we meet before we make a decission to go ahead. And yes you will have your fair share of let downs and no shows....its part of the swinging scene.
Good luck,
Hello Knight and welcome to SH forums.
Having peeked at your profile, to be honest it doesn't say an awful lot about you so if I were to arrange a meet with you, I'd need to get to know a bit more about you first. I prefer an email or message first then chat on msn to see how we get on rather than meeting you with a carnation in my buttonhole and a copy of the Times tucked under my arm. That aside, there is the safety aspect to consider. I wouldn't dream of meeting up with someone I hadn't seen on cam or chatted to first. Always best to err on the side of caution.
Be patient, my horny little friend and let people go at the pace they feel comfortable with or they will bolt in the opposite direction.
Having peeked at your profile, to be honest it doesn't say an awful lot about you so if I were to arrange a meet with you, I'd need to get to know a bit more about you first. I prefer an email or message first then chat on msn to see how we get on rather than meeting you with a carnation in my buttonhole and a copy of the Times tucked under my arm. That aside, there is the safety aspect to consider. I wouldn't dream of meeting up with someone I hadn't seen on cam or chatted to first. Always best to err on the side of caution.
Be patient, my horny little friend and let people go at the pace they feel comfortable with or they will bolt in the opposite direction.
Sex God
Quote by knight
Are there any genuine contacts in s. wales?
I seem to be contacting people that are only interested in 'ping pong' e-mails that just wastes time and effort. Is anyone else finding this a problem?
you will find that there are a lot of genuine contacts everywhere......where you call it e-mail 'ping pong'.. i would call it getting to know people before i meet them.....
a lot of people round here will say that you get out of this place what you put in.... and if you see putting that leg work in as "wasted time and effort" then i do wish you luck.......
Sex God
Dont think you will get much better advice than that already give above, but think about the situation for a minute.
You are a single guy looking for single females/couples. There are thousands and thousands of single guys for every female/couple. Why should any of them pick you? Its not a dig, but what is it about you that makes you so much better than all the rest?
You have no photos (and dont just do cock shots) your ads are one liners which tell us nothing about the real you and perhaps ping pong emails are the only way people can find out if it is worth meeting you.
Have a look at this post, which might give you some tips, delete your adverts and start again and get some decent body shot pics on here so people can see what you are like.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Swinging is great but you only get something from it (and this site) if you are willing to put in some effort.
Good luck and as I said, its not a dig, just some straight forward advice and it has nothing to do with your location
You are a single guy looking for single females/couples. There are thousands and thousands of single guys for every female/couple. Why should any of them pick you? Its not a dig, but what is it about you that makes you so much better than all the rest?
You have no photos (and dont just do cock shots) your ads are one liners which tell us nothing about the real you and perhaps ping pong emails are the only way people can find out if it is worth meeting you.
Have a look at this post, which might give you some tips, delete your adverts and start again and get some decent body shot pics on here so people can see what you are like.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Swinging is great but you only get something from it (and this site) if you are willing to put in some effort.
Good luck and as I said, its not a dig, just some straight forward advice and it has nothing to do with your location
genuine contacts & 'ping pong' e-mails :shock:
A reserved :welcome: to you knight If I was you I would be wishing I had taken the time to sit back & take a look around before posting your lament :therethere:
Being on a website does not mean you can post 2 words about your fine self & then expect rampant females to have a 'auto-wide on' for your 'talents'
If you did the same in a bar I wonder how far you would get?
On here you only have words to let your personality show... if you cant be bothered with that then good luck to you... If you cant be bothered to play 'ping pong' e-mails with someone who might just want to know more about you then not even Einstein can help you!
A little attitude shift will be needed here knight...
you gotta put the effort in...
Just have fun...
Chill out & trust me you will find a fair few hotties over there in the South of the Wales'ses :twisted:
A reserved :welcome: to you knight If I was you I would be wishing I had taken the time to sit back & take a look around before posting your lament :therethere:
Being on a website does not mean you can post 2 words about your fine self & then expect rampant females to have a 'auto-wide on' for your 'talents'
If you did the same in a bar I wonder how far you would get?
On here you only have words to let your personality show... if you cant be bothered with that then good luck to you... If you cant be bothered to play 'ping pong' e-mails with someone who might just want to know more about you then not even Einstein can help you!
A little attitude shift will be needed here knight...
you gotta put the effort in...
Just have fun...
Chill out & trust me you will find a fair few hotties over there in the South of the Wales'ses :twisted:
:thumbup: 
Sex God
Quote by redpantherman
genuine contacts & 'ping pong' e-mails :shock:
A reserved :welcome: to you knight If I was you I would be wishing I had taken the time to sit back & take a look around before posting your lament :therethere:
Being on a website does not mean you can post 2 words about your fine self & then expect rampant females to have a 'auto-wide on' for your 'talents'
If you did the same in a bar I wonder how far you would get?
On here you only have words to let your personality show... if you cant be bothered with that then good luck to you... If you cant be bothered to play 'ping pong' e-mails with someone who might just want to know more about you then not even Einstein can help you!
A little attitude shift will be needed here knight...
you gotta put the effort in...
Just have fun...
Chill out & trust me you will find a fair few hotties over there in the South of the Wales'ses :twisted:
Bloody hell RPM, has the dictionary shelf fell on you again
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