Quote by jezzay
So Zootle - you're a single guy?
Just checking. It's not in your profile.
Jezzay.
Yup, single guy (I'm not coming across as being girly am I?! :shock: )
One of many. Sorry I'm not a girly
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As a single woman I want to meet single men as well as couples. The only problem I have is weeding out the timewasters, knobheads and married guys. I personally don't wish to meet anyone who is married unless their wife is there too.
I tend to meet single men on their own at first then I am starting to get to the stage where I can start arranging moresomes, I would have them accompany me to parties and clubs once I knew I could trust them and also meeting other single men and/or couples. I couldn't go to a party or club on my own I wouldn't feel confident/safe enough to go completely alone so it is a safety thing for me as well.
So for me the single men have got to be around too or how would I get on!
I tend to meet single men on their own at first then I am starting to get to the stage where I can start arranging moresomes, I would have them accompany me to parties and clubs once I knew I could trust them and also meeting other single men and/or couples. I couldn't go to a party or club on my own I wouldn't feel confident/safe enough to go completely alone so it is a safety thing for me as well.
So for me the single men have got to be around too or how would I get on!
Quote by jezzay
Yes you're right.
Much as I enjoy being right
I'm not sure I can actually claim to hold these opinions, and I certainly wasn't (near as I can remember, it was a while ago) having a go at the single girlies. I was just making an observation about the single-guy-status and expectations thing. "Is there a place for a single man?" "Sure, in a group with about ten others, clustering around a woman like bees around a jam doughnut." I was just trying to say that that's not everyone's fantasy.I mean, for those whose fantasy it is, all power to you. I'm sure you'll have a great time. But it isn't mine. That was all I meant.
Good luck with your party though. Although the cynic in me suspects you'll end up with several hundred single guys and maybe one - if you're lucky - single girl.
I like this thread.
Firstly. I agree wholeheartedly with Blue. If it wasnt for single guys i wouldnt be on this site. (But im glad i can be) I think the main thing is that these single men need to behave like grown ups and not children ....
Secondly...JEZZAY. Havent seen u around lately. You KNOW i would come to your singles party. Bloody try and stop me. :evil2:
I look forward to helping you choose which lucky lucky single men get to join us
Firstly. I agree wholeheartedly with Blue. If it wasnt for single guys i wouldnt be on this site. (But im glad i can be) I think the main thing is that these single men need to behave like grown ups and not children ....
Secondly...JEZZAY. Havent seen u around lately. You KNOW i would come to your singles party. Bloody try and stop me. :evil2:
I look forward to helping you choose which lucky lucky single men get to join us
Quote by SunBunny
I look forward to helping you choose which lucky lucky single men get to join us
I believe that as I was the first to pledge my wholehearted support behind such a fantastic idea, I should, of course, be automatically included on the guest list :rascal:
Not to mention the fact that I'm cute as well as being sweet and tasty. What a combination!
Ah well, it was worth a go
Hang on!
Surely jezzay is a guy! :shock:
I just looked at her profile and she has "programmer" listed as occupation! Now I've been a coder for 14 years and if there's one thing us coders know is that it's a female free profession!
(ok, actually, that's not true at all, although in 14 years I've only met 3 female coders)
Surely jezzay is a guy! :shock:
I just looked at her profile and she has "programmer" listed as occupation! Now I've been a coder for 14 years and if there's one thing us coders know is that it's a female free profession!
(ok, actually, that's not true at all, although in 14 years I've only met 3 female coders)
Sex God
Quote by MQ
As a single woman I want to meet single men as well as couples. The only problem I have is weeding out the timewasters, knobheads and married guys. I personally don't wish to meet anyone who is married unless their wife is there too.
I tend to meet single men on their own at first then I am starting to get to the stage where I can start arranging moresomes, I would have them accompany me to parties and clubs once I knew I could trust them and also meeting other single men and/or couples. I couldn't go to a party or club on my own I wouldn't feel confident/safe enough to go completely alone so it is a safety thing for me as well.
So for me the single men have got to be around too or how would I get on!
You would be more than welcome to come to a party with me (single F too)
I'm sure someone here that I have met would vouch that I'm genuine
Quote by SunBunny
OK big hole dug. Zootle im sorry. I was looking at wewantu2.
So....giving u the once over may still happen...up to the lovely-legged Jezzay....
Oh no, yo don't get away with that accusation that easy!
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: I think you need to find another way to apologise...
:rascal:
Quote by Lil_Bunny
As a single woman I want to meet single men as well as couples. The only problem I have is weeding out the timewasters, knobheads and married guys. I personally don't wish to meet anyone who is married unless their wife is there too.
I tend to meet single men on their own at first then I am starting to get to the stage where I can start arranging moresomes, I would have them accompany me to parties and clubs once I knew I could trust them and also meeting other single men and/or couples. I couldn't go to a party or club on my own I wouldn't feel confident/safe enough to go completely alone so it is a safety thing for me as well.
So for me the single men have got to be around too or how would I get on!
You would be more than welcome to come to a party with me (single F too)
I'm sure someone here that I have met would vouch that I'm genuine
yep i can say Lil_buuny is genuine.. and i said it with out asking for any think in return.... i'm slipping!
JGL
Yea! A Party.
I would definately be interested
Subject to other commitments not fucking up my life again
Sex God
Quote by MQ
Thanks Lil Bunny, whereabouts in the NE are you, pm me if you don't want to say on here
U have a pm :D
Sex God
Quote by JGL
yep i can say Lil_bunny is genuine.. and i said it with out asking for any think in return.... i'm slipping!
JGL
aawwwww thanx JGL u r such a sweetie
Orgasminator
Quote by novice1
You've adressed this comment to couples. (We're actively seeking a single male fror MMF btw). So, no you're not clogging up the forums (still getting to grips with chatroom).
Novice,... single guy here
:wave: Well im surprised this thread has remained calm which is a very pleasant surprise!
A few things i have noticed is that if i reply to an add from couples and single fems that says "looking for men" or "single males welcome" then there is no response which is fine it probably indicates zero interest in me and i have no issue with that.
HOWEVER... the real kicker is when you do get a reply from a couple who advertise as above who say not interested in single guys.
Why advertise for it? If the adds out of date then modify it!
I have had replies, and i thank all who have, this interest has come from both the forum and the chatroom.
One thing that does get said frequently is, "your a really nice guy" "your a really decent bloke mids", "i wish you lived round the corner" and yes i have to blow my own trumpet, i am nice and i am decent, non pushy, willing to meet for a coffee miles away from home at great expense and not insist on a shag because of it.
Single males have a bad reputation, i was tarred with the same brush when i first joined and its taken me a while to build a reputation all of my own which hopefully now seperates me in my own right from the majoriy.
er......... party? .......... for single guys? ................... am I dead and in heaven? ............. there is a God after all!....... hehehe
Count me in coz it doesn't matter where or when .........
I'M SINGLE AND FREE TO DO AS I PLEASE!
Wishmaster
(confirmed bachelor - all wishes carefully considered)
This is lovely, sexy, lil ole me!
