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Getting my girl to Try Bi.

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im trying to get my girl to av a go with another women while i watch, she always said she wud love to try a women but we'v neva got round to it. has anyone got any advice for me on this? is there any gals out there that wud make her feel comfortable while i enjoy the show? thanks ppl
when/if she wants to try it i am sure she will let you know!
a lot of things are nice as a fantassy but it does not mean that you want to make them into a reality.
maybe this is the case with her.
leave it upto her and do not try to pressure her or it will def backfire!
Just a thought - but perhaps you could give her a nudge in the right direction and let her watch you with another man dunno
This has always been somewhat of a bone of contention with me regarding Bi fems - Just who of them are genuinely Bi, and how many of them are Bi cos Hubby fancies the ideas and is maybe press ganging me into it.
IMHO - you can't make anyone "av a go" or get them to become something they aren't already. If this is in fact the case - I'm afraid you are going to have to let her make the choice and come out with that decision.
Just my worthless opinion
kbuk
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Just a thought - but perhaps you could give her a nudge in the right direction and let her watch you with another man dunno

rotflmao
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she always said she wud love to try a women but we'v neva got round to it. has anyone got any advice for me on this?

"Darling, you know that special fantasy we always share... no, not that one, the one that doesn't involve Uncle Tom's prize onion and a cheese-grater... how would you feel about trying to make it come true?"
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This has always been somewhat of a bone of contention with me regarding Bi fems - Just who of them are genuinely Bi, and how many of them are Bi cos Hubby fancies the ideas and is maybe press ganging me into it.

In our experience on the club scene we have met very few completely straight women. Most women have been quite happy to play at least to some extent with other women. Women in general life seem ok about same sex touching that most males wouldn't dream of and this seems to spin over into sexual touching in the swinging scene.
We have not met any women who appear to be being pressured by their partners to play with other women although we have seen a few women that are pressured to be at the club in the first place and they stand out like sore thumbs. Being bi for hubby would stand out in a similar way.
I wonder how many bi males are genuinely bi and how many are bi because their wives like the idea? I doubt there would be many in the second category so why would women be any different?