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Getting myself worked up prior to meet!

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Hi
Does anyone else get up prior to a meet or going to a club or party. I work myself up into a negative state of mind everytime when I go with my partner. When I was single I did not have a problem. Can anyone help with this?
well i hate to add to your negativity.... but isnt it plainly obvious that youre doing something your uncomfortable with????
it is from where im stood......
sorry but you did ask........
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Hi
Does anyone else get up prior to a meet or going to a club or party. I work myself up into a negative state of mind everytime when I go with my partner. When I was single I did not have a problem. Can anyone help with this?

Thats easy! When you were single, you only had your own likes and dislikes to worry about. When you go as a couple you are looking out for each other and its more of a responsibility.
The best peice of advice anyone ever gave us on here (and I can't remember who it was redface ) was if you each make the other partners enjoyment and the person you are meeting your top priority it should be a succesful meet.
If your negativity is due to the fact that you are not completely happy with swinging then DONT do it.
Have a great time!
Love
FIRE xx