HI Folks,
I have been on the scene for a while as a single guy, and a pretty fruitless occupation it is on most occasions!!!
I now have a partner who does not know about this, but may be interested if gently persuaded/introduced. Does anyone else have experience of this and what/how did they go about it???
I do not want to charge in and completely put her off forever so i think some subliminal intros are required !!!!!! Are there any decent real amateur swinger videos out except cheesy American efforts that anyone could suggest, that may be a start??
Any ideas or suggestions gratefully received.
I am on msn if you want to chat anytime
Sean xx
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Orgasminator
why dont you just ask her what she thinks of it? is communication with her a problem?
Hello Sean and welcome to the site 
The best suggestion I can come up with is suggest it during an intimate moment as a fantasy of yours and see what her reaction is. If she seems receptive to the idea, try bringing it up another time when you are just chatting and see if she is keen or just likes the idea as a fantasy.
Most of all be honest and open with her, she may like the idea of swinging and want to become involved, on the other hand she may call you a disgusting pervert (I was called that once) and head for the hills. Either way you won't know until you try ;)
I can't help you on the videos side I am afraid- I prefer mine a bit more hardcore :twisted:
Good luck,
Minx x x
The best suggestion I can come up with is suggest it during an intimate moment as a fantasy of yours and see what her reaction is. If she seems receptive to the idea, try bringing it up another time when you are just chatting and see if she is keen or just likes the idea as a fantasy.
Most of all be honest and open with her, she may like the idea of swinging and want to become involved, on the other hand she may call you a disgusting pervert (I was called that once) and head for the hills. Either way you won't know until you try ;)
I can't help you on the videos side I am afraid- I prefer mine a bit more hardcore :twisted:
Good luck,
Minx x x
Hmm.. think you should just ask or tell her about your past and see what she thinks. Honesty is the name of the game in swinging after all... the thing is, if it hasn't come up as part of a convo between you two as of yet its either (a) she is feeling the same as you or (b) she hasn't even given it a thought as she isn't bothered/interested. It's unlikely that she hasn't thought about it but will secretly desire to give it a go.. I think that early on in your sexuality you know whether you would or wouldn't.
For Mr Snesh and I it was a natural convo as 'how do you take your tea', but we may have been very lucky.
In conclusin (lol), just ask her, but in an honest way rather than being or seeming at all sly and trying to slyly force her into that - she won't appreciate that no matter what her true feelings on the subject are.
Hope that helps some
Layla xx
For Mr Snesh and I it was a natural convo as 'how do you take your tea', but we may have been very lucky.
In conclusin (lol), just ask her, but in an honest way rather than being or seeming at all sly and trying to slyly force her into that - she won't appreciate that no matter what her true feelings on the subject are.
Hope that helps some
Layla xx
Thankyou folks!!
I am very impressed with the amount of replies already, to be honest i was expecting some abuse from seasoned swingers about novice questions!!!!! So thankyou once again, I will try your suggestions and see how it goes.
Still trying to figure out the meaning of Nats profound statement!!!! (Is it dont bother with the rules and just get on with it???!!!!!!..........)
Cheers
Sean xx
I am very impressed with the amount of replies already, to be honest i was expecting some abuse from seasoned swingers about novice questions!!!!! So thankyou once again, I will try your suggestions and see how it goes.
Still trying to figure out the meaning of Nats profound statement!!!! (Is it dont bother with the rules and just get on with it???!!!!!!..........)
Cheers
Sean xx
Sex God
video called the big swap it covers all the possabilities between a bunch of mates who hear from one couple in the group how they did it and how it changes all the couples lifes ,great film 
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Warming the Bed
Hi Sean
Why not just pop down to sunny Bournemouth sometime
, we could try a re run and get some new photos!
x x xd
Why not just pop down to sunny Bournemouth sometime
, we could try a re run and get some new photos!x x xd
