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A lot of the couples I see on this site and elsewhere seem to be seeking "that elusive single female" for an ffm threesome. And it's a very common male fantasy (maybe a common female fantasy too, but only having one X chromosome I can't speak from direct experience biggrin )
The question I'd like to ask is - to all the people who have actually done it -
is it as great as it's cracked up to be?
What were the nice surprises?
Let downs?
Would you do it again?
Me and my wife have done it - but only as part of a foursome, ie the other male was taking a short break - so I don't feel as though I can comment fully, but it was still fun. Done a lot of MMF with and without Mrs SJ, and that was good - but at some point in the near future, I'll probably set up an ad looking for a bi-female ( or couple where the male sits it out / watches , etc ) just to find out how good it is over a full evening / night. :twisted: biggrin
I have done it but even though its every mans fantasy let me tell you chaps its bloody hard work. As we know its tough pleasing one woman let alone two lol To be honest it was great when they started on each other just to get a break :lol:
lol :lol: :lol:
i bet you did need the rest
two women can be very demanding i bet
is it as great as it's cracked up to be?

Absolutely - we were lucky enough to have a couple of years of weekly threesomes this way, and it was fantastic everytime! Not to mention the 'lost weekends' spent in bed! biggrin
The best thing about it is the endless options for love-making!
What were the nice surprises?

Nice surprises from my point of view is that sometimes I could just sit back and watch them get on with it, and just enjyoyed watching for a while. I didn't think I'd enjoy that, but I did (not being the sort who has fantasies of watching lesbians at it)
Let downs?

I can't think of a single let-down, except for the fact that we had to stop sometimes for food, etc...
Would you do it again?

I would love to - but as you say - that elusive female is difficult to find (having said that, we lost one lover, only to find another one inside a month - but haven't been able to find anyone else for nearly 6 years now *sigh*)
well i have done a fair few mff 3sums, to be honest i don't like odd numbers lol
Quote by Alexandra
A lot of the couples I see on this site and elsewhere seem to be seeking "that elusive single female" for an ffm threesome. And it's a very common male fantasy (maybe a common female fantasy too, but only having one X chromosome I can't speak from direct experience biggrin )
The question I'd like to ask is - to all the people who have actually done it -

is it as great as it's cracked up to be?

Absolutely - if not better! :D
What were the nice surprises?

I couldn't possibly say rolleyes
Let downs?

None
Would you do it again?

Yes - most definitely! :D
But there again I was extremely lucky for it to be with really good friends
Couldnt agree more....it was amazing lol :bounce: boink
"mmmmmmmmmm for the elusive single bi-female"
"ahhhhh, that holy grail that is the single fem"
"wanted, single fem (in our dreams,lol )" etc etc etc rolleyes
Dont get it dunno
Someone has to explain to us what it is about three that is so so much better than four and what can be done with three that can`t be done with four.
This is where we, especially I (mr fox) can`t help being slightly cynical about the undertone to this, even to the extent where we would shy away from any advances from a couple who "seek the elusive single fem" but will, I suppose, if push comes to shove :roll: , meet a fem AND the pesky bloke too.
Maybe we are spectacularly missing the point. Maybe we`d rather not be enlightened. Seems too frustrating and infrequent an occurence to put at the top of our wish list.
Really, we understand how :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: a threesome would be, but don`t understand some of those who make no secret of the fact that having to involve the 4th member is all rather inconvenient.
As a couple who like the social side to a meet , we much prefer the 2nd male involvement.
Foxys x
I've done it.
Depends on the people involved as to how good it is (as with everything I guess wink )
I don't see anything special in it. If I'm doing a group, I prefer larger group really, more scope not to get bored :wink: ... but having said that some threesomes (ffm or mmf) have been not boring at all lol
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"mmmmmmmmmm for the elusive single bi-female"
"ahhhhh, that holy grail that is the single fem"
"wanted, single fem (in our dreams,lol )" etc etc etc rolleyes
Dont get it dunno
Someone has to explain to us what it is about three that is so so much better than four and what can be done with three that can`t be done with four.
This is where we, especially I (mr fox) can`t help being slightly cynical about the undertone to this, even to the extent where we would shy away from any advances from a couple who "seek the elusive single fem" but will, I suppose, if push comes to shove :roll: , meet a fem AND the pesky bloke too.
Maybe we are spectacularly missing the point. Maybe we`d rather not be enlightened. Seems too frustrating and infrequent an occurence to put at the top of our wish list.
Really, we understand how :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: a threesome would be, but don`t understand some of those who make no secret of the fact that having to involve the 4th member is all rather inconvenient.
As a couple who like the social side to a meet , we much prefer the 2nd male involvement.
Foxys x

I am with you on this one Foxys. We have tried both ffm and mmf but four or more is better.
I've done the FFM thing at a club with my wife and a very nice extra Bi-fem, that was incredibly good but I have to say it was more to do with the people than it specifically being a threesome with 2 women.
I do have to say for me a threesome either FFM or MMF can be more fun than a foursome but again it all depnds on the people and recently I have to say I've been enjoying 1 on 1 just as much.
I will admit to also being a bit cynical about the whole "couple looking for Bi-fem" thing though but then each to their own!
Roger the Dragon cool
We haven't done it yet but are trying to arrange something. Don't understand what there is to be cynical about - neither of us want to have sex with a man, we both want to have sex with a woman, we want to share the experience and have fun new times together... A threesome is absolutely what we want, not a foursome or group. It makes sense, no? And I certainly won't be lying around waiting for my bloke to pleasure us both - I'm gonna be diving right in there!
x
I've had a few and enjoyed them... not as good as two guy and one girl though. cool
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We haven't done it yet but are trying to arrange something. Don't understand what there is to be cynical about - neither of us want to have sex with a man, we both want to have sex with a woman, we want to share the experience and have fun new times together... A threesome is absolutely what we want, not a foursome or group. It makes sense, no? And I certainly won't be lying around waiting for my bloke to pleasure us both - I'm gonna be diving right in there!
x

I think it all boils down to whatever floats your boat really. We have enjoyed the threesomes we have had but as previously stated we prefer 4 or more.
I think the cynicism comes from the fact that the ffm is a male fantasy and that the woman might be being manipulated to go along with this. I admit that a lot of fems want to explore there bi side with their partner present.
Only ever done FFM and it's grrrreat :twisted:
Especially when the couple you're with make a fantastic tag team!
It annoys me a bit when people say FFM is a male fantasy and women are likely to be coerced. Maybe it happens but that has nothing to do with me - so I would hope that peoplw woudn't assume that about me. And it's far more than exploring a 'bi side'. My bisexuality is central to me, not a 'side' and I'm so up for it that it was actually my idea... biggrin
Sorry if I sound a bit cross - just really want it to happen and would be so upset if people thought I was being pushed...
Quote by poniella
It annoys me a bit when people say FFM is a male fantasy and women are likely to be coerced. Maybe it happens but that has nothing to do with me - so I would hope that peoplw woudn't assume that about me. And it's far more than exploring a 'bi side'. My bisexuality is central to me, not a 'side' and I'm so up for it that it was actually my idea... biggrin
Sorry if I sound a bit cross - just really want it to happen and would be so upset if people thought I was being pushed...

Many apologies if my comments offended you in anyway. If you read what I have said then you would see that I am aware that many females want to explore their bisexuality. The reason why both my wife and I prefer 4 somes is that we both like to explore our bisexuality with another bi couple. I really hope you get what you want.
Peace and love :rose:
Quote by ChairmanMiaow
A lot of the couples I see on this site and elsewhere seem to be seeking "that elusive single female" for an ffm threesome. And it's a very common male fantasy (maybe a common female fantasy too, but only having one X chromosome I can't speak from direct experience biggrin )
The question I'd like to ask is - to all the people who have actually done it -
is it as great as it's cracked up to be?
What were the nice surprises?
Let downs?
Would you do it again?

we've done it three time's and yes it's great. :D
the nicest surprise was seeing how much my mrs enjoyed the other woman. surprised
let downs none that i can think of.
and yes we'd love to do it again one day.
Quote by ChairmanMiaow
The question I'd like to ask is - to all the people who have actually done it -
is it as great as it's cracked up to be? oh yes :twisted:
What were the nice surprises? Finding out just how pussy hungry Katie really is :twisted:
Let downs? redface surprisedops: got so excited the first time that John Thomas did a really good impression of a hermit crab :oops: :oops:
Would you do it again? OH YESSSSSSS :twisted: