It's my girlfriends birthday tomorow, she is going to be 25. I have purchased a cd and book for her along with flowers and a bottle of champagne for her aswell as a night of hardcore lovin !! I couldnt think of a main gift for her so i have decided to give her some money as she is always goin on about needing new clothes n stuff. does think sound right about givin the money instead of a gift ? cos i didnt really wanna buy some thing shabby that she will never use. advice please.
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Giving my girlfriend money for her birthday, is this sad ?
Well shes bloody arkward. We both like different things when it comes to clothes and shoes and stuff. wen ever i point some thing out i like shes gives me a funny look ! so i dont know about the voucher idea becuase she shops in all different places and tends to go for the cheapy shops !
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I think voudchers are nicer than money, at least it shows you made the effort to go out and buy her something. Of course you will know her favourite clothes shop , wont you?
Women have a favourite?? :shock:
I thought they spent hours in every shop to get away from us blokes
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Well shes bloody arkward. We both like different things when it comes to clothes and shoes and stuff. wen ever i point some thing out i like shes gives me a funny look ! so i dont know about the voucher idea becuase she shops in all different places and tends to go for the cheapy shops !
Thats easy then, any high street store!!
clue www. 
Quote by Ms Amber
Take her out shopping and say you will buy her something nice.....then at least you can do this together and its less impersonal than giving her money!...
I agree!
Alternatively, I think most ladies would appreciate vouchers for something like a beauty salon or posh hairdressers? Just get a voucher for the amount you want to spend and let her choose the treatment she wants.
I'd like that anyway.
Orgasminator
A voucher for a beauty salon - now that is nice!
i have to agree with some of the girls....
money is an escape clause... take her out, spend some time with her. take her shopping (not the local town center) London, Birmingham, Cardiff etc. A nice lunch and then she will be wanting to give YOU the loving when you get home.
alternatively, relaxation centers are always good - or just buy the oils yourself and have fun ;)
how can you be scared to go into anne summers when you are posting on swingingheaven? its only a shop!! its not seedy at all ......
good luck
money is an escape clause... take her out, spend some time with her. take her shopping (not the local town center) London, Birmingham, Cardiff etc. A nice lunch and then she will be wanting to give YOU the loving when you get home.
alternatively, relaxation centers are always good - or just buy the oils yourself and have fun ;)
how can you be scared to go into anne summers when you are posting on swingingheaven? its only a shop!! its not seedy at all ......
good luck
Orgasminator
well what did you give her 
: :?: moneys always good BUT how much do you give :?:
: :?: moneys always good BUT how much do you give :?: Quote by bishabasha
''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''"bye her some fucking kit" the mind boggles
Please explain what you mean.
i am also taking her for a meal tomorow night.
I think the meaning was Kit intended for use when Fucking (now that is bound to excite one Forum regular
)As I understand it, you have bought her a book, CD, flowers, taking her out for a meal......... & you are giving her money! You are one generous boyfriend. I don't think she will be complaining at all.
