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Hey Everybody.......I was just wondering whether people prefer giving or receiving oral sex....or both at the same time?
I personally prefer giving it......somehow it just feels right in my mouth (wasn't that an advert at some point? lol )......
I'm sure those of you with a secular inclination will surely know it is far better to give than receive
Though on the other hand...... wink
For me, there's nothing better than licking a nice wet juicy pussy, I could happily do it for hours on end. I'm more of a giver than a receiver.
Having said that, I voted for both at the same time because my gf might as well do something if she's sitting on my face, and I'm not one to ever turn down a good sucking! :twisted: 69position
Sucking loads of cocks in a group is the definition of true happiness lol ..... OK, not quite but it's pretty cool. That's why I believe that the world BJ record really should belong to me cool .
However, in a more intimate situation, both at the same time sounds like fun to me. That's what I'm going to vote.
Quote by bluexxx
Sucking loads of cocks in a group is the definition of true happiness lol ..... OK, not quite but it's pretty cool. That's why I believe that the world BJ record really should belong to me cool .

*easy starts orderly que* :twisted: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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*easy starts orderly que* :twisted: lol :lol: :lol:

Joins queue ...ooops sorry easy I think I am a little too excited redface
I so love to give ......it almost seems selfish .....am I confused? confused
:sticky:
Ahhh DAMN sad I've lost my place in the que now :(
Personally im definately more of a giver than a reciever,could spend hours and hours sucking,sucking,sucking!!! blast :blast: :blast:
But then again,i absolutely lurve recieving biggrin :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
So thats why i voted for both a the same time,absolute bliss lol :lol:
Clare,xxx
I'm a little confused redface confused
What is oral sex? surprisedops:
Is it nice?
Paul
Oral sex ...is stimulation through conversation.
Aural sex is stimulation through conversation.
No wonder the English language is so damn difficult. confused
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Oral sex ...is stimulation through conversation.
Aural sex is stimulation through conversation.
No wonder the English language is so damn difficult. confused

Thanks for the clarification... I'm none the wiser :shock:
Regards
Paul
Ah so I did have oral sex with my ex wife
She often told me to F,,, Off
Both is obviously best. There is nothing like getting a face full as you shoot your load. This can take time and practise but by god its worth it. I would be delighted to help anyone who wants to experience this.
Cheers
Definitely giving. I do like being blown, but I get more fun from muff-diving. My fantasy is to have a bunch of women lined up in front of me, all ages and shapes, and I have to satisfy them all. Lick, slurch, slobber....
Best position is the classic woman lying down with bum raised, so I can access all areas, including the anus. Second best is her sitting on my face facing the opposite way as I can get some really good tongue penetration that way. Never did go much for 69s, as neither partner can properly concentrate on what they're doing, so I get a half-arsed BJ and she gets an unsatisfactory clitclick.
All I ever ask is that yer woman's not too hairy. A bit of trim here and there to reduce the bushiness is nice - I don't want to have to fight my way through a jungle to get to the juicy bits.
Mr Lickingham
Quote by bluexxx
Sucking loads of cocks in a group is the definition of true happiness lol ..... OK, not quite but it's pretty cool. That's why I believe that the world BJ record really should belong to me cool .
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has anyone else noticed major billboard adverts ( not quite sure who for) but the tag line is
DRINK PINK
Now we know what you mean Bluexxx
tlibger
i have BIG problems with the "both at same time" stuff, when i am enjoying myself that much... how on earth am i meant to be able to concentrate on giving a good blow job????? rolleyes
WBB...
the best way then to enjoy, is to agree a set time, say to the fella, i will suck and caress like crazy BUT when I stop it is your turn... then vice versa, building it up as you go? When you get close you just wanna enjoy and forget the other person, so i suggest you stagger it a bit?
I put both at the same time, because I just can't decide between giving or receiving dunno - but saying that, I do prefer to be either or. That way you can concentrate fully on either the giving or absorbing the sensations you are receiving.
Although receiving does have the edge slightly :twisted:
....... hmmmm on the other hand, you just can't beat that texture in your mouth :twisted:
Nope, just tried, and can't choose rolleyes
I also have big problems with both at same time.
My cocks about 1/2 inch too short for me to lick so I've no chance of sucking it !
lol
Self confessed greedy gal here............. i would MUCH rather receive, although i dont mind giving too!
can i just point out there are RISKS involved in doing both at the same time! confused
i wont go into details (and the rest of you better not either... u know who you are!!!!!! evil ), but i had a missfortune on saturday whilst rying to do both at once!
rolleyes redface
WBB , when will you be posting the pics ?
I much prefer giving.... I'm not into receiving - am i abnormal? Maybe because I've only had it done once and it was truly awful so it has probably put me off for life!
I also have a thing about not swallowing, not matter how many times I try I just can't do it! Is it an aquired taste? Do you get used to it? I'd love to be able to do it so any help would be appreciated!

biggrin
Giving. There's no finer taste than the sweet nectar of woman.
One thing I'll muss about her. When I get it right; she 'gushes'
Receiving.
There's no finer feeling than that when I feel myself explode in the warm, soft, sensuous(?) mouth of a woman that actually enjoys it.
MMmm - Sweet nectar of woman versus Frascati??? Not sure.
Maybe a blend of the two????
Its got to be both at the same time... I've had occasion in the past where someone has just wanted to give, but I just cant lie (lye?) there without wanting to give something back, be that 69 or a lil hepling hand so to speak...
That said, I have had on occasion thoes points in a mutial session when pulling away was a serious must... Orgasum = uncontrolable musscle spasum... not a good time to have your willy in a place that can exert 70Kg Per square Inch!
Jon
PS, I never knew the actual amount till I watched a program tonight... it works out at about 30odd cat slaters standing on your willy at once, lol.
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I also have big problems with both at same time.
My cocks about 1/2 inch too short for me to lick so I've no chance of sucking it !
lol

Not meaning to sound big headed but the male here can suck his own! So can give and receive at the same time, on his own, jammy bugger. flipa LOL
Quote by well_busty_babe
i have BIG problems with the "both at same time" stuff, when i am enjoying myself that much... how on earth am i meant to be able to concentrate on giving a good blow job????? rolleyes

I have to agree, I lose concentration totally redface surprisedops:
Jas
Quote by dambuster
Giving. There's no finer taste than the sweet nectar of woman.
One thing I'll muss about her. When I get it right; she 'gushes'

Ah, now that's a rarity all right, but unforgettable when you meet a woman who ejaculates. I went out with an older woman when I was late 20s who gushed like a firehose. We're talking sopping mattresses here. An incredible experience, for her as well as me (she'd not 'squirted' before with her ex-hubby), and incredibly erotic if a wee bit messy. Another plus was that I always had my thirst slaked during oral as squirt after squirt went down my throat.
This really deserves another thread, but I'm a newbie to these boards so don't want to rehash a topic if it's already been done to death. Has it been discussed already?
MrLIckingham
Definitely Giving - although I'd probably also rank recieving (from an expert) a very close second, above everything else.
Maybe it's because I find it far easier to get a woman to come that way? Sometimes I get quite disappointed if it ends with "I need cock now" instead of "I need a break now, I can't take any more or I'll die" (and in an ideal world, I reach for the silk scarves at that point and carry on for an hour or so more!)