giving up swinging

2 May 2004

as most of u know swinging has been a large part of my life for sometime now but after a great deal of thought i have decided it is time for me to stop swinging get off the emotional rollercoaster and go and look for my mr right i hope that i will keep the freinds i have made even though i am no longer on the scene your are more than welcome to pop in for a coffee etc i wwill be going to the munch in manchester on 8th may but doubt i will be on the scene much after that take care and love to all my freinds shelly xxxx

2 May 2004

:shock: Oh my its with great sadness that I write this out/ type even confused

Your leaving will shock many a person but as you know yourself far better then any of us will (not that I have met you) but I hope you see my point. If you feel you must do this thing the we all will understand and yes still miss you but will be there should you want to come back or just to chat with people Take care and all the best. :rose: :wave2:

2 May 2004

Hiya Shelly,
We've only met a couple of times but whatever you choose to do I wish you all the best with it. Good luck with finding Mr Right and if his ex is good fun let me know, there's a vacancy for a Mrs Right up here at the moment. biggrin

See you at the munch.
Steve

2 May 2004

lemons sorry to hear ur giving up swining huns,but will miss yas huns ur one friend in a million but promise still to come cyas babesxxxxxxxxxxx all the best babes loo

2 May 2004

Lemons
I made the big mistake of thinking I would find a real relationship on SH but I dont now. I too know I will have to leave if thats really what I want but for now I want to be single so will stay and have fun. Good luck Lemons and I hope you find what you are looking for.
Corrie

2 May 2004

Forgive me;
Are you THE Shelly?

2 May 2004

My, my !!
Is there something in the air tonight ??
First Artificer and now Lemons :cry:
Goodness me who will be the third ?? dunno

Sorry to see you go Lemons xx
Cheers Dan xxx wink

3 May 2004

Hmmm. I sign up to this site and 2 people leave within days. sad

Are you lot trying to tell me something?
*Easy goes off to check deoderant and other areas :shock: redface

*
Shelly (hope you don't mind if I call you Shelly? smile

), I wish you every success with finding Mr Right and enjoying your life.
And remember real friend will always be there (or here, maybe;) ) for you whenever you need them. Those that aren't wern't really your friends biggrin

Good luck :cheers:

3 May 2004

Lemons, we never met, but I wish you all the best looking for your other half. I am lucky to have found mine already and I am sure yours is out there as well.
Best of luck.
TnH

3 May 2004

Shelly, we've not spoken before but I really hope to correct that at the Munch. I will look out for you and maybe we can have a chat?
It's such a shame to see people leaving, but Shelly, I wish for you all you want out of life.
Good luck and a big kiss

from me

3 May 2004

No Jeff, she isn't me

3 May 2004

Good luck shelly babe and dont forget i will be popping in for coffee in the summer kiss

Shelly XXX

3 May 2004

Lemons babe it is with Bitter Sweet sorrow that we should part.
However may you find peace and Love in what you seek.
Fred (Medic1) xxxxxxxx
:(

3 May 2004

hi to u all and ty for the lovly messages and hope to meet as many of u that i havent already met at the munch on sat u wont miss me i am the girlie with the cane see all my old freinds to am looking forward to this one and sure we will have a really good night shelly ka lemons xxxxx

10 May 2004

was lovly to meet so many of u at the munch xxx

11 May 2004

Thank you for Saturday Lemons,it must have been hard for you what you did,i dont know that i would have had the guts to do.I will say no more about it. kiss

11 May 2004

Lemons
what can i say damn damn damn but then again hun good luck good luck good luck we do all need someone to snuggle each night ,my personal view . take care sweet and hope you dont stay away from the room and forum.
xxxxxx
Just because your not swinging dont mean you can not chat friendship is higher than sex always remeber that one.

12 May 2004

ty toungue yes it is always difficult to say good bye
but under the circumstances which i can not put in here but a know a lot of u know the reasons i am leaving
i had no choice
but was great to see everyone
and joanneish yes i agree with u hun
and wont keep away from room or forum as have freinds here that are very important to me and still hope to make new freinds even if not swinging
love u all lemons xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

16 May 2004

Hi Lemons (Is that a wordplay on Melons wink

)
I'm a new boy here but just thought I'd stick in my two penny worth.
A willy old sage once told me that you won't find Mr/Mrs Right if you go looking. How right she was. I'm nine tenths out of a relationship that I went looking for and it's costing me a fortune :fuckinghell: (Not just financially)
As I siad ; I'm a mewbie and was looking around the site and old threads and such. It appears you have made friends here who are actually friends. They are the ones to keep and cherish.
No matter how low you feel or how bad it seems, we really can all get back up one day.
Good luck in your search, be true to yourself and above all - BE HAPPY. Life's too short to worry. A cliche; I know, but still true.

16 May 2004

ty for all the lovly messages and the suport from the group and will pop in the room to see u all on occassioon tc xxxx

16 May 2004

Hi Shelly hun, tis me... but i'm sure you guessed by the addi name, lol
It comes to us all at some point, especially when single that you just wonder if its worth it... non-commited sex and swinging can be an hugely up and down lifestyle.
There is nothing better than swinging, except waking up next to the person you love cuddled in and feeling all warm in side.
Just remember... if you have some rope and a full set of batteries for your pulsatron... i'm only 20 mins aways... "work" permitting lol.
<<<< note to self... stop spending so many late nights going out drinking, and being sat at the pc working on photos!
<<<< second note to self, must find single bi swinging fem to fall in love with ;-)