I'm curious - there must be a lot of different stories here and something must have sparked off a desire to try something this radical so let's here about it.
Me and my girlfriend broke every rule in the swinging book with the way we started. At the time we spending quite a few saturdays at her best friends house getting pissed - so there's me and 3-4 girls having a laugh. We got on very well and enjoyed the time.
One Friday night myself and Sarah were at a meal when she suddenly decided that a friend (Let's call her Jane, for the sake of protecting the innocent) was a bit lonely and needed a confidence boost from a man. Well, that's great - but what was I supposed to do, I couldn't go chatting up her best mate. Sarah agreed, but decided a great idea would be to have sex with her.
I laughed and left it to that, but the next morning on the bus Sarah re affirmed that her plan was indeed entirely serious - again, I giggled - though to say I didn't find the idea attractive would be a lie.
So, we get to her house and proceed to have dinner and get midly (very) drunk when we all retire to Janes bedroom. Sarah decides that it'd be an excellent plan to play a truth or dare game - though I don't ever recall getting an option to tell the truth, instead I ended up kissing Jane. Lots. It seems Sarah had either briefed Jane on this or she'd caught wind of it (I should find out, actually!) and had got very into the game.
Then, as if by magic, it was time for Sarah and the other friend here today to go downstairs to wash up or somesuch. Myself and Jane just sat on the bed kissing, until she pushed me away and said "So, are we going to do anything or what?". Never being a man to turn down an offer like that I slid off her trousers and went down on her.
Sarah and the other friend did come in a few times, and obviously everybody knew what we were doing, though Jane covered up for modesty - yet it was just so surreal. It was like nothing was up (Well I was!).
In the end we didn't have full sex (I didn't plan on it anyway) and when everything was over and people sobered up a touch things did get slightly weird. Sarah was completely confused between being turned on like nothing else and being slightly annoyed - and I didn't know whether to treasure it or regret it.
It certainly wasn't the best way to begin swinging, but it was a laugh none the less. Sarah and Jane went on to have quite a few sexual encounters themselves (though never with me), but after that nothing happened for just under 12 months when we decided to go to a club.
So, that's how we got into it - after never speaking about it before, and I'd never thought about it before.
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Go on then - how did you get into the scene?
Sexpert
I first experienced it going to a swingers IRC group about 7 years ago.
I found this place and stayed for the atmosphere, and the smilies.
Well mostly for the smilies.
Especially
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
and
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
and
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
I found this place and stayed for the atmosphere, and the smilies.
Well mostly for the smilies.
Especially
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
and
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
and
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
we started from chatting to people on the net , to web cam chat , to web cam flirting then thinking about meeting people we had spoke to , then thinking about how we would feel if we did meet someone , so we decided to test it by going to a club (euphoria) and from then on after seeing how much fun it is and the social side being better that we could ever have thought , just went on from there
sam n lucy xxx
sam n lucy xxx
Ours starting with at a BBQ.
A cpl we had been friends with for quite some time invited us round for BBQ nothing unusual and then we all got progresivly drunk and started to play "Truth or Dare" and before you new it we were all playing about with one another. We never took it to the total point of Full sex, But all had been satisfied very much
. We then done a very similar thing to tame_side cpl and started on the net. We are not hardened swingers but love the feeling of new peolpe and surroundings, haven't had enough courage to go to CLUBS yet 
but I'm sure we will get there in the end......
A cpl we had been friends with for quite some time invited us round for BBQ nothing unusual and then we all got progresivly drunk and started to play "Truth or Dare" and before you new it we were all playing about with one another. We never took it to the total point of Full sex, But all had been satisfied very much
. We then done a very similar thing to tame_side cpl and started on the net. We are not hardened swingers but love the feeling of new peolpe and surroundings, haven't had enough courage to go to CLUBS yet but I'm sure we will get there in the end...... 
Sex God
Quote by vdub
...............Sarah were at a meal when she suddenly decided that a friend............
Can I please state that this is not me in this thread
:lol: :lol: :lol:Just in case any one should get confused..................as if!
How ever it has given me an idea :twisted: not that the other half needs any ideas or encouragement.....
well iv always been bi i had my first bi experiance when i was 11 and had a sexual relatipnship with her through my school years although i also had boyfriends and never considered haveing anything other than a sexual relationship with a woman.
later in life when i was in a relationship my partner knew i was bi and for quite a few years i did nothing about it but after time i needed to be with a woman so we decided to try and find a woman on the net that is when i found this lovely site.
after talking for a while we decided that we would like to meet a couple with a bi fem and do a full swap, we set down our rules and went ahead with the meet. unfortunatly my partner broke every rule we set and it was a very painfull experiance for me and the relationship when down hill from that day on, we didnt last much longer. we did try a few more times including clubs but i did it for him not myself and got pushed into doing things i really didnt want to.
i then met my current partner kev :inlove: on this site and he understands me perfectly i love been with both men and woman and he understands that so we play with bi fems as a couple, he plays just a much as i do i have no interest in playing with other men and that suits us fine, we do like to be watched and go dogging as well.
so thats my story of how i got into swinging not very posative to start with but if you find the right partner that you love and trust then jobs a good en :thumbup:
later in life when i was in a relationship my partner knew i was bi and for quite a few years i did nothing about it but after time i needed to be with a woman so we decided to try and find a woman on the net that is when i found this lovely site.
after talking for a while we decided that we would like to meet a couple with a bi fem and do a full swap, we set down our rules and went ahead with the meet. unfortunatly my partner broke every rule we set and it was a very painfull experiance for me and the relationship when down hill from that day on, we didnt last much longer. we did try a few more times including clubs but i did it for him not myself and got pushed into doing things i really didnt want to.i then met my current partner kev :inlove: on this site and he understands me perfectly i love been with both men and woman and he understands that so we play with bi fems as a couple, he plays just a much as i do i have no interest in playing with other men and that suits us fine, we do like to be watched and go dogging as well.
so thats my story of how i got into swinging not very posative to start with but if you find the right partner that you love and trust then jobs a good en :thumbup:
